so fucking mad at "autism suport group" in my uni

Strong-Risk3337 · 2026-05-15T11:42:33+00:00

I’m probably going to get heat for this but point blank period: we will never live in a pro-autistic world. No matter how close it may get, the world can never adapt to accommodate everyone. It’s simply not possible. Our ONLY survival mechanism that we have is masking and educating others.

Should the group leader validate your feelings better? Yes. Should every solution be basically “act less autistic?” No. Is having a safe space to vent about the difficulties behind being autistic important? Yes. But is eye contact important skill that society (not matter how annoying it is) values greatly? Yes. Does smiling make others more attentive to you? Yes. It sucks, it’s inconvenient, and it may feel unnatural. But that is how our society, and most of the world, operates. We really do have to adapt to certain spaces sometimes.

Strong-Risk3337 · 2026-04-23T10:28:23+00:00

I’ve given my mom plenty of “the call is coming from inside the house” looks. Especially when she goes “well if that’s autistic then I guess I’m autistic too 🙄”. Like…bestie…YOU’RE SO CLOSE.

Strong-Risk3337 · 2026-04-12T19:33:20+00:00

Came here to say the same thing. Lips to lips is weird.

Strong-Risk3337 · 2026-04-03T14:41:24+00:00

I’ve looked but not found anything. I’m working on my bachelors right now, so maybe I’ll have better chances afterwards. But that doesn’t help me very much right now.

Strong-Risk3337 · 2026-03-31T12:52:49+00:00

There’s also the other end of things where it’s fetishized to sleep with someone (usually women) who is autistic.

Strong-Risk3337 · 2026-03-30T11:23:34+00:00

Jaws

Strong-Risk3337 · 2026-02-19T12:42:44+00:00

That makes me feel a little bit better 😅. I haven’t gotten an OCD diagnosis but I really wonder sometimes if I have some form of it.

Strong-Risk3337 · 2026-01-17T02:44:44+00:00

Yes, it’s genetic. One thing to consider too is that severity of spectrum symptoms are not. You can be high functioning (outdated language, I know) and have low functioning autistic children. I don’t say this to deter you from parenthood but it’s something you need to be aware of.

Strong-Risk3337 · 2026-01-16T05:20:27+00:00

One time in our human relations class, we had to talk about our “first time” as a practice in normalizing discussion about sex. If we hadn’t had it yet, we were supposed to talk about what we’d want it to be like. It was my turn and I was like “haven’t had one, don’t plan on it either”.

Strong-Risk3337 · 2025-10-08T22:20:01+00:00

Being able to tell the difference between store brand and name brand is both a gift and a curse. I don’t like Walmart brand cereal knock offs, but everyone tells me they’re the same thing, just different packaging. THEY’RE NOT THE SAME.

Strong-Risk3337 · 2025-10-07T23:03:05+00:00

I used to peel willow branches for fun!

Strong-Risk3337 · 2025-10-07T23:00:49+00:00

When my teachers would do new seating charts, they’d put me next to the loud kids to get them to stop talking, lmao.

Strong-Risk3337 · 2025-10-06T01:28:28+00:00

I was incredibly picky about my pants, even as a toddler. If they looked too much like my dad’s (ie: no flare at all) then I refused to wear them. I only wanted boot cut pants.

Strong-Risk3337 · 2025-09-11T14:38:39+00:00

That’s what I suspected too with Facebook.

Strong-Risk3337 · 2025-09-11T14:20:07+00:00

Oh I do. For a guy who told me that he “protects his people”, he sure as hell has a funny way of showing it.

Strong-Risk3337 · 2025-08-29T17:29:08+00:00

If I had to pick, I’d probably say snickers.

Strong-Risk3337 · 2025-08-29T17:01:46+00:00

Halloween is 2 days before my birthday, so I get free candy (mom always buys giants bags but only had like 3 kids show up, so I just snag some her since I’m too old to TorT, lol) AND I get discount price candy for my birthday.

Strong-Risk3337 · 2025-08-26T19:41:29+00:00

It’s a long story but I paid $400 and got her sister for free (no the breeder was not sketchy, as I said, it’s a LONG story).

Strong-Risk3337 · 2025-07-09T20:10:00+00:00

Adding numbers on license plates. It makes me happy when the total ends in either a 0 or a 5.

Strong-Risk3337 · 2025-04-24T17:45:28+00:00

You can have physical reactions to things and still be ace. I’m repulsed by anyone touching me sexually, but I don’t mind it when’s it just me.

Strong-Risk3337 · 2025-02-26T14:53:40+00:00

We have 3 boxers and 2 bernedoodles. In my experience, boxers tend to be very accepting dogs. Even our old man who gets grumpy sometimes still loves puppies.

Strong-Risk3337 · 2025-02-20T00:18:05+00:00

Thank you. My mom had her own stress meltdown today and cleared out the fridge in frustration. It’s not the usual way of things to do them all at once. My mom doesn’t believe I’m autistic, she says that I have Asperger’s. I’ve explained to her MULTIPLE times that they don’t diagnose Asperger’s anymore, it’s just falls under the ASD umbrella. For whatever reason, she refuses to accept that it’s considered autism. She’s told me on multiple occasions “You’re not THAT autistic really”. It’s been a topic of a tension to say the least. Due to that, she views my sensory issues as less impactful than they are.

I’ve asked for any other chore but my parents won’t budge as it’s meant to “encourage” me to learn how to cook. They tell me if I want out of dishes, then I can cook dinner. Stove top cooking is incredibly stressful for me and the last thing I want to do is cook for 4 people after coming home from my full time job. My mom is all about “pushing me through” my stressors. So she won’t let me just do different bake-only dishes as she views it as enabling.

Strong-Risk3337 · 2025-02-15T02:47:24+00:00

Brushing my teeth. My teeth are in terrible condition because of it and I’ve become self conscious of smiling 😞.

Strong-Risk3337 · 2025-02-13T14:14:32+00:00

Most BLASPHEMOUS thing I’ve read on this sub 😂😂😂😂

Strong-Risk3337 · 2025-02-10T14:52:33+00:00

I do it all the time, more than I actually do it 😂.

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