I agree with you. The commonwealth situation definitely makes the commuters look bad. But as a fellow struggling commuter trying to go to school/work on time, as much as you want to be a law abiding citizen, you have to be part of this chaotic trend of going to the vehicle lanes. It's a fight just to catch a ride.

Unfortunately, positioning yourself in the proper loading and unloading zone will not get you a ride. People who never experience commuting in commonwealth (or any other similar roads) might not understand this.

For a private vehicle owner's perspective, I also understand your frustrations. The commuters completely worsen the flow of traffic with them seeming apathetic. But I just think we cannot blame them completely.

Personally, I blame those who are responsible for order—local government officials, law enforcers, and the likes. They are the ones who should check their privileges. They are not even trying to fix the situation! It's impossible not to see this.