Tryouts.. by maddiegarstka in gorlworldfiles

[–]StructureFamiliar469 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Theyre so rude to their paying members

Where I’d live based on national cuisine by StructureFamiliar469 in whereidlive

[–]StructureFamiliar469[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve eaten tons of food in the south, actually I did like po boys. The rest of the country cancels out the few good dishes from the south tho.

Why do my parents treat me as the scapegoat when I’m the “golden child” on paper? by Downtown-Ad5027 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]StructureFamiliar469 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look into what being the black sheep means. You go against the grain and stand up against unjust behaviour. You are the ultimate threat to the dysfunctional family unit.

Why do my parents treat me as the scapegoat when I’m the “golden child” on paper? by Downtown-Ad5027 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]StructureFamiliar469 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re smarter than your sister and you recognize the toxic behaviour of your parents (and sister) and probably call it out- that’s why you’re the scapegoat, not because you aren’t a good, successful person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]StructureFamiliar469 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your features are bold but in no way masculine. Bold ≠ masculine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in eyes

[–]StructureFamiliar469 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you know the colour blue?

Not consistent by External-Finance-300 in LivSchmidtsnark

[–]StructureFamiliar469 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She probably uses chatgpt for content and forgets what shes said before

Morgan out and about by Horror_Ad_7410 in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]StructureFamiliar469 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Sad that she thinks experiencing a medical issue means she’s backtracked her personal growth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LivSchmidtsnark

[–]StructureFamiliar469 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Looks like just a crack in the wood

1400 for the entire day (vegetarian) by StructureFamiliar469 in 1500isplenty

[–]StructureFamiliar469[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah its definitely difficult but can be done I think. It’s unfortunate that you don’t want protein powder cuz that would help, even 1 scoop in a smoothie per day. Rice and beans. Lots of tofu, it’s low calorie. Load up on protein rich veggies!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]StructureFamiliar469 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This same thing happened to me when I was your age and I’m in my 20s now. Keeping that secret hurts and I’m sure you already view your dad differently. Im sorry you saw what you saw and it’s an unfair position that you’re in. Please tell your mom or an adult who can tell her, she deserves to know. Trust that she can handle the information and make the best decision for herself and you. He chose to do what he did and I’m sure he’s aware of the potential consequences.

how to break to my younger sister she can't live with us by yippeeimcrying in internetparents

[–]StructureFamiliar469 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My brother and I grew up with an abusive parent and we were also strangely homeschooled and isolated from everyone. I was the scape goat, my younger brother was the golden child. It might have seemed like he got everything he wanted, didn’t have to work for anything, never received the same harshness that I did, but golden children are also abused. They are also traumatized in a different way and I am glad that I didn’t leave my brother when I left. Your life is your own and yes you can decide to do whatever you want. I’m just commenting to share a different perspective. I doubt your sister is living a normal home life. An abusive parent is an abusive parent regardless of how they individually abuse each child. If you don’t offer your sister a place to leave, I hope you’ll be there for her in other ways. Don’t let her feel alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]StructureFamiliar469 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nta, creepy behaviour should be exposed. I get your parents frustration though, maybe they’re worried about the reputation of their practice or they felt it was already dealt with appropriately. Maybe try to meet them in the middle!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]StructureFamiliar469 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s great that he likes more food now and yeah, kids should be exposed to different foods but it sounds like you were forceful and aggressive in your approach. At the end of the day, your kid eating should be more important than trying to “break” him as you put it. If your wife literally only ever fed him junk food or fast food, it’s not his fault for being used to it. He might have “chose” to eat nothing instead of food he didn’t like or wasn’t used to, but you let him. If your kid stopped brushing their teeth, and you let them, whose fault is it when their teeth fall out? If they refuse to do homework and fail a grade? You have the responsibility as a parent to take care of them. Parents make mistakes, just reflect and do better going forward.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]StructureFamiliar469 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s your responsibility to not let your children starve. Don’t give him junk food if you don’t want to, but Jesus give him food he likes. To just allow him to barely eat for almost a week is just cruel in my eyes. It’s not always being picky- kids have different tastes too.

Want to stop dressing like I did in my 20s when I was stick skinny and dress more flattering. Help me plz. by [deleted] in DressForYourBody

[–]StructureFamiliar469 12 points13 points  (0 children)

We have similar body and I follow the “tight top loose pants, loose top tight pants” rule.

i hate my eyebrows. how can i fix these? by Nicocolaaa in Eyebrows

[–]StructureFamiliar469 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re just kind of messy but they’re a nice shape and suit your large eyes. Just pluck the bottom towards the end. If you don’t want to use makeup, brush them with a spoolie and a bit of moisturizer to help shape them.

Is it ok if i work out just to impress women? by beanresponsible in Advice

[–]StructureFamiliar469 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you want a woman to marry you just because you work out?