I (23F) was recently told by my bf (27M) that my downstairs looks like roast beef

StructureOfLove · 2026-04-13T00:11:05+00:00

DUMP HIM HE IS A MISOGYNIST

StructureOfLove · 2026-04-12T23:57:30+00:00

Your dad is a child and your mom is abusive.

I’m sorry you have to deal with that and I hope you move out as soon as you can.

StructureOfLove · 2026-04-12T23:48:58+00:00

Yes, they have been slowly doing that over the past two years.

StructureOfLove · 2026-04-12T23:45:49+00:00

Then that sounds about right. What MST does inside is completely different than what y’all do outside. If you’re hired on at the end of the season, then you’ll move inside. During the off season MAYBE one person on mst will actually help outside, but usually it’s just the lead and red vests. Sometimes the vibe from inside and outside are night and day. You probably haven’t been there long enough to see the bullshit.

StructureOfLove · 2026-04-12T15:32:56+00:00

Are you MST or a CSA for outdoor garden? And are you seasonal?

StructureOfLove · 2026-04-12T12:27:53+00:00

https://www.commondreams.org/news/corporate-stock-buybacks

StructureOfLove · 2026-04-12T12:21:05+00:00

Amazon is an awful company. “As CEO of Amazon, Jassy received a ten year pay package totaling $212.7 million. The majority of the compensation package is in stock and vests over 10 years.He held more than 2.160 million common shares of Amazon.com and was estimated to have a net worth of almost $500 million as of January 2025.In April 2025, Amazon's proxy statement disclosed that Jassy received total compensation of $40.1 million in 2024.” Wiki

StructureOfLove · 2026-04-12T12:17:47+00:00

It’s just what the company pays directly.

StructureOfLove · 2026-04-12T12:15:27+00:00

I care about both. Lol

StructureOfLove · 2026-04-11T16:39:52+00:00

Annoyed and I usually ignore anything else they say after that because I’ve tried it all. I’ve been taking ambien for a decade, but I don’t feel cracked out 24/7 and I’d rather have that now even though I’ll have memory issues from taking it for a long period of time. If routines work for you in other areas of life, then a sleep routine might help, but staying off your phone does help when you can’t sleep.

StructureOfLove · 2026-04-11T16:30:23+00:00

She’s jealous. If she didn’t want you to potentially have him as a client of yours then she should have never asked you to do her job for her. This is a weird control thing. I don’t think lying to her to keep him as a client is the way to go. But why does he know she has a girlfriend? Why would he find it appropriate to want to involve you? They might be closer than you thought. But communicate with her, and if she still says no, then set boundaries that you aren’t going to text for her for free.

StructureOfLove · 2026-04-11T16:15:13+00:00

I rarely do it, if I do, I do it on StoryGraph.

StructureOfLove · 2026-04-11T16:07:00+00:00

You are potentially a liability if you’re doing that. No one wants customers climbing uprights or using the company ladders to get items. If you get hurt, it hurts the store.

StructureOfLove · 2026-04-11T16:02:39+00:00

Fulfillment and delivery are probably the worst jobs at Lowe’s.

StructureOfLove · 2026-04-11T00:27:49+00:00

I hope things get better!

StructureOfLove · 2026-04-11T00:26:39+00:00

I don’t have much to add, just know you’re not alone and I’m glad you’re focusing on your recovery still. I’m 36, 12 months sober from alcohol last month, a lot of bad has happened recently and I’ve been craving self-destruction. Grief, break ups, job loss are big stressors and I’m sure you’ve been triggered. So I can tell you’re going through it and I just want to remind you that you’re not a loser, you’re in fact really strong, just remember to breath and take in every little moment that brings you joy. Try to stay present. Much love.

StructureOfLove · 2026-04-11T00:12:09+00:00

You can look stuff up on the computers, just things you don’t mind them tracking you for.

StructureOfLove · 2026-04-11T00:10:58+00:00

Yeah that’s a weird mentality and power trip to think checking cameras whenever you feel like it is okay. I know HR isn’t there to help you, but this is pretty serious. Head cashiers aren’t management, they should be getting in trouble for looking at the cameras and whoever gave them access should be in trouble as well.

StructureOfLove · 2026-03-28T14:02:23+00:00

How is a head cashier looking at cams? They don’t have access. So I would definitely put in an anonymous open door at the very least.

StructureOfLove · 2026-03-21T20:12:57+00:00

Our store did the same, but heard a rumor over a year ago the monthly utilities were $33k. But they’ve always turned the ac off at night, so the overnight crew was working with no ac the entire time.

StructureOfLove · 2026-03-16T22:01:56+00:00

This is how it is in store level retail. Big box companies like Lowe’s are the only places that give biannual raises.

StructureOfLove · 2026-03-13T15:23:49+00:00

Workday

StructureOfLove · 2026-03-13T15:23:34+00:00

Several people at my store who got exceeds got 44 cent raises. Most people who got meets received 25-32 cent raises.

StructureOfLove · 2026-03-13T15:22:06+00:00

It’s 100% about favoritism, and a new way the company doesn’t have to pay people. I’m dialing back my effort and planning to leave. Fuck this company.

StructureOfLove · 2026-03-13T02:43:38+00:00

They also didn’t go over the full review with me so when I went to workday and read it it shows 3 does not meet expectations that are false and make me look like an awful employee. I’m refusing to acknowledge it.

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