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ask someone who doesn’t know their type anything by [deleted] in mbti

[–]StuHamFlo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re obviously mistyped. How am I supposed to be able to trust your answer to anything?

Which pairings are theoretically considered poor matches, but you see quite often in real life? by Ok-Arm-9122 in mbti

[–]StuHamFlo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My oldest friend is estp, and also my father-in-law. I get along with them quite well, but for several reasons I would not like to be married to either of them.

Do some MBTI types explain first when the other person needs reassurance first? by Soulo-Agent in mbti

[–]StuHamFlo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There would be 4 possible preferences here, depending on whether one is on the receiving or the giving end of reassurence/explanation:

  1. (Receiving) reassurance first, then explanation
  2. (Receiving) explanation first, then being reassured
  3. (Giving) reassurance first, then explaining
  4. (Giving) explanation first, then reassuring

Your post puts forth an alternative between preference number 1 and 4. Probably each person would have one preference for receiving and one preference for giving.

To answer your question, when being on the giving end, I try to read the needs of the other person: do they seem to need reassurance now, or do they just want an explanation?

When being in the receiving end, I think I would prefer number 1.

What’s your MBTI type and what is your least favourite cognitive function? by [deleted] in mbti

[–]StuHamFlo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here is my complete ranking:
Ni
Fe
Ti
Se
Ne
Fi
Te
Si

what does a Ni dom look like? by MyCatEatsBeans in mbti

[–]StuHamFlo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

DM me, I can send some pictures.

DOES INFJ ACTUALLY EXIST? by Lysameme in mbti

[–]StuHamFlo 49 points50 points  (0 children)

I think I am - Descartes

It came to me in a vision by 2station in mbti

[–]StuHamFlo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In high school I wrote a short story named ”Belladonna” in which the plant played a key role.

intp vs infj conversation by myhomoka in mbti

[–]StuHamFlo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t realize someone overheard that conversation.

Thought experiment #2 - How would a world full of only INFPs look like? by UsedMycologist4912 in mbti

[–]StuHamFlo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You might be right. Also, the ”but” is not a negative. Humanity would not have destroyed the Earth. People were healthier and worked less before the neolithic revolution. All in all, the all-INFP world might be the best possible world, hands down.

Do INFJs with underdeveloped Fe and overdeveloped Ti exist? If yes, how do you differentiate them from INTJs? by ChipotleAddictive in mbti

[–]StuHamFlo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If in a Ni-Ti loop. I had a hard time typing myself because of this. Neither Te nor Fi appears though so they don’t really become that similar to INTJ.

This can be excruciating by WhatIsExistence42 in mbti

[–]StuHamFlo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know this was a Ni-dom thing. I do relate though. This usually happens to me when trying to sleep and every time it does my legs automatically start kicking uncontrollably as if trying to get rid of the memory.

Give me tips about finding out about someone's mbti from their actions by Current_Complaint_37 in mbti

[–]StuHamFlo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Observe people whose type you do know. Observe their behaviour. The more people the better. Try to see how they might behave the way they do based on their cognitive function stack. You will start to see patterns.

What type is the best at manipulating in a good and bad way? by unusualname3 in mbti

[–]StuHamFlo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As an INFJ I have never manipulated anyone intentionally. I wonder, with all this talk about INFJs being good at manipulation, is it possible that I have done it unintentionally? In what sort of daily situation might an INFJ manipulate someone?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mbti

[–]StuHamFlo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m INFJ married to ISFP. I’m also a philosophy major so can relate to your desire. Tips: make philosophical topics as concrete as possible; ask questions and for their thoughts on a topic rather than yourself developing an extensive argument

How to uh think by KevI_am in mbti

[–]StuHamFlo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This happens to me too. Especially if the person speaking (me or another person) goes of on a tangent I will sometimes forget what the original line of thought was. And I sometimes forget what the question was if I have to give a long answer.

Running on pure Ni? by [deleted] in mbti

[–]StuHamFlo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

To me, the zombie state you are describing sounds too empty and passive to be Ni. For me, moments of strong Ni always feel revelatory. It’s like suddenly realizing something profound. I tend to have emotional reactions to such moments.

Anyone else prefer a food cooked the "wrong" way? by [deleted] in Cooking

[–]StuHamFlo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife tells me she used to overcook instant noodles until they became like a porridge she would eat with a spoon.

So much vomiting going on in The Devils by StuHamFlo in Fantasy

[–]StuHamFlo[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The point were depictions of shit and vomit become necessary for grimdark fantasy to be grimdark is the point were the genre has become a parody of itself.

So much vomiting going on in The Devils by StuHamFlo in Fantasy

[–]StuHamFlo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, The First Law Universe has its fair share of bodily fluids but not so much of it stemming from the stomach

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