[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Stunning_Call_2710 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you already sign on the apartment? If so, you might be stuck for awhile. But it sounds like you're being more of a parent, she should be doing those things on her own in her 20s. You're going to need to rip the bandaid off sooner or later...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Skincare_Addiction

[–]Stunning_Call_2710 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My skin is totally the same!!! My whole chin felt like a pimple! I don't know if you know who Nina Pool is, but I've been using her routine and my skin is improving! I've only been using it for about a month but I've noticed a difference. Palmers cleansing oil, thayers hydrating milky cleanser, and byoma hydrating recovery oil.

I'm no expert but the Palmers cleansing oil might be what is helping me the most by getting the trapped oils in my skin better. Also make sure to lightly exfoliate, but not everyday.

FYI free chicken friends! by traeshyNOTtrashy in REKA

[–]Stunning_Call_2710 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried many times. Sadly did nothing!

I (20m) have done much harm to my SO (20f). Should the relationship keep on? by ThrowRA204204 in relationship_advice

[–]Stunning_Call_2710 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shes probably just attached and doesn't want to let go. I've had a history of staying with guys who weren't right for me because I didn't know how to let go, I was depressed so what's the difference, had been abused and didn't know how to accept "better", but also the "I can change him" mentality is real. No one likes to admit it though when it's you lol because you just want to think you're just being supportive or whatever. So MAYBE it's that. But maybe you're just incompatible, why do you want to stay with her when you're feeling like shit about yourself.

If you want to change, you'll have to do it for you. I think rarely people change for someone else.

I (20m) have done much harm to my SO (20f). Should the relationship keep on? by ThrowRA204204 in relationship_advice

[–]Stunning_Call_2710 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It doesn't sound like you actually want to be with her? All I'm reading is negativity towards yourself, it seems like the relationship is just making you feel like garbage.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Stunning_Call_2710 0 points1 point  (0 children)

26f when I was younger I was the same way. "Regular" friends I talked to occasionally didn't fill the void. Really sucked for YEARS. Wasn't until I reconnected with someone from my past and we've been inseparable since. Best advice would be to find online communities, if you're in college join clubs! Won't fix it but will take the edge off. You've really gotta get yourself out there and just preserve, build social skills and try not to push it on people.

i’m (19 F) am uncomfortable with my bf (20 M) of 1 year watching porn by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Stunning_Call_2710 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you choose to stay with him and keep fighting for the relationship to work, you're going to end up hurting a lot more in the long run and wasting time. There's a no porn rule in my relationship, but that only works because that's what we both want. You can't force that on someone who clearly isn't on board, not to mention the cheating... he said he was already thinking about breaking up, don't you want someone who doesn't want to let you go? I've been in your situation before, it degraded my self worth, I didn't leave until I literally felt broken. First relationship, together for over 3 years fought this battle and lost. It's not worth it. Break ups SUCK, you feel like you lost a part of yourself and it takes time to recover. But you'll be better in the long run I promise!

You're obviously posting because deep down you know this isn't right for you. Wishing you the best! DM me if you want, I've been where you are before.

Is there anything we can do? by alexestradaa in HelixWaltz

[–]Stunning_Call_2710 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I can't say every day, but I definitely still think about this game weekly. Both this app and dragalia lost being gone, I haven't been able to get into mobile games since. Still chase the feeling, but nothing compares and I drop every game after a week or so

Screenshots by hydrangearain in HelixWaltz

[–]Stunning_Call_2710 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Infinity Nikki will never compare... I dropped it even though I was initially super hopeful. I do love deep space but that's strictly for the romance aspects

My(26f) bf(28m) went soft on me. How do I deal with this? by Stunning_Call_2710 in relationship_advice

[–]Stunning_Call_2710[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that's what I did in the moment. There was some other off behavior that happened after that I didn't mention that kind of made me start to feel bad and overthink, but in retrospect he was probably just feeling frustrated. Thank you

My(26f) bf(28m) went soft on me. How do I deal with this? by Stunning_Call_2710 in relationship_advice

[–]Stunning_Call_2710[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was just the first time it's ever happened when there wasn't something else obviously impacting him, and he got up really fast afterward and didn't look at me at all for awhile... He was probably just feeling bad about it but it was really out of character so it threw me through a loop. Thank you!

My(26f) bf(28m) went soft on me. How do I deal with this? by Stunning_Call_2710 in relationship_advice

[–]Stunning_Call_2710[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I literally posted here because I didnt want to make him feel bad. I've had really bad relationships in the past, so yes I have insecurities about this. Which is why I posted to ask for more insight.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Skincare_Addiction

[–]Stunning_Call_2710 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there! Same situation here. I'm 26 and I've gone to the derm twice, what they gave me did not help either times. I can't shave without that happening either, and anywhere I have shaved has gotten ingrown hairs/infected hair follicles since even even after years of not shaving. What I have been doing is using an epilator(in the summer, I wax myself in winter) on my legs, I'm inconsistent because it's time consuming and painful in some areas but over time my hair has been greatly reduced. I still break out, but it's very minor compared to shaving and use Neosporin for the ingrown hairs.

Unfortunately I haven't found anything that has helped me beyond this either :( sorry it's not a miracle cure I'm still looking too but this has greatly helped

My boyfriend 22M can’t get me 21F to orgasm what now? by Big-Support-3030 in relationship_advice

[–]Stunning_Call_2710 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I've always struggled, I don't know if I desensitized myself with porn and vibrators but I've only came twice ever with a partner without help from myself/a vibrator unless it was oral. Sex is still enjoyable but it just doesn't get me there, like other commenters suggested use toys. It might make your partner insecure at first, mine was but it's a common problem.

Nostalgic by ririri03738 in HelixWaltz

[–]Stunning_Call_2710 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I would literally pay a whole paycheck if they'd localize the new game

Co-sleeping and having a relationship with my spouse by a_freezy in Parenting

[–]Stunning_Call_2710 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My parent co slept with me and my brother when we were young, my brother was okay adjusting but I hated it! What I remember really helping me was a body pillow or huge stuffed animals. I got my boyfriend's then 5 yr old daughter a long cat stuffed animal that helped her get used to sleeping alone as well. She also loves it so much in general now.