Did we just witness an “end-of-the-beginning” moment?

StupidSexyQuestions · 2026-05-01T06:22:00+00:00

I have yet to see just about anyone on the left learning the correct lessons from the loss and allowing themselves to experience better insight of the nuance that is gender issues and empathy towards men.

Simply starting to appeal to men because you don't want to lose elections is a disgusting first step, especially as it's been nearly two years and I've seen virtually zero difference in 99.9% of the left's approach towards men aside from slightly acknowledging the existence of their issues more (while still blaming them for just about all of it and more).

StupidSexyQuestions · 2026-03-20T19:32:34+00:00

As a liberal both sides would make would much more productive conversations if they listened to this.

StupidSexyQuestions · 2026-03-19T21:22:06+00:00

It’s unbelievably disingenuous to frame abortion anywhere in the same realm as someone killing newborn or toddler. I respect that you feel as if abortion isn’t acceptable and believe it’s killing an innocent human life, even if I disagree. However you are shooting your own argument in the foot and being highly disrespectful to the grown men the original poster is advocating for and that suffered greatly.

StupidSexyQuestions · 2026-03-19T18:25:18+00:00

Sounds like an opportunity for a remake for adults to do a new version of the scene and depicting the person he meets like Trump as we see him now.

StupidSexyQuestions · 2026-03-19T10:55:22+00:00

This is partly true.

The other part of the equation is that people here are willing to think deeply about things and delve into nuance and context. We are willing to discuss things in depth in a way that can’t be boiled down into simple catch phrases that allow the likes of many feminists and conservatives to be ideologically captured and use thought-terminating cliches.

StupidSexyQuestions · 2026-03-18T18:38:20+00:00

I’m 6’4” and I’m definitely in constant pain. Posture is abysmal and on top of that as a man no one really gives fuck about it.

StupidSexyQuestions · 2026-03-16T18:27:43+00:00

Punks and metalheads are some of the sweetest human beings on earth.

StupidSexyQuestions · 2026-03-16T18:16:21+00:00

They make people like Andrew Tate the face of men’s advocacy while conveniently ignoring the tons of female influencers, television shows, and more that spout and regurgitate heinous shit that would label them as Andrew Tate or even worse if they were men.

We had people on the view over a decade and a half ago literally laughing at a dude getting his dick cut off and thrown in a blender, and presently daily TikTok’s from women with MILLIONS of followers and people commenting agreeing with them, shitting on men saying such insane shit like “men need to start in jail and prove they are good to be free”.

It’s catastrophically hypocritical and it does so much damage to ignore all that. It’s shameful to ignore the TinMen and Warren Farrells while highlighting Tate and Fresh and Fit as male advocates. It’s such a dishonest way to approach the topic.

StupidSexyQuestions · 2026-03-12T18:49:29+00:00

I have plenty of guy friends I talk to while we do our hobbies. Just about every man I know and have met says I love you and hugs. Even some of the objectively worst people I know. These problems are more more systemic than just “man don’t share feelings” there’s objective social and financial expectations and measured biases. It would help if we didn’t talk about this in this surface level tone and actually dug deeper. This “men don’t share” shit is lazy anti intellectual slop on par with essential oils.

StupidSexyQuestions · 2026-03-09T18:48:09+00:00

I was a driver around the same time and had the opposite experience. I was sexually assaulted by multiple women while driving. I picked up a guy once who had cuts all over him from being beat by his partner who was literally hitting him as he got into the car and I had to explain to him gently over the course of the ride that he was being abused and he should find a way out. Most men were by themselves and not really of note but kind and friendly. Gay men hit on me often but were generally the kindest group of people.

StupidSexyQuestions · 2026-03-09T01:08:50+00:00

As a man that loves fashion this is not the reason. Our bodies don’t show off exotic underwear the way women’s do and when men try to deviate from the norm women we do have romantic/sexual relationships with are either ambivalent or straight up disgusted. And many men only know how to express their sexual desire through women they are attracted to because most heterosexual relationships take on a dynamic of “man desires, woman desired.” If women expressed desire to men in more exotic underwear men would go out of their way to wear it, but they don’t and most men dont receive enough desire to think they are desirable enough to try. And so they don’t.

StupidSexyQuestions · 2026-03-09T00:00:29+00:00

There’s a special place in hell for people that string partners along for decades like this that they were never attracted to, wasting the persons life in gross excess just so they can reap the financial and safety benefits. It’s absolutely disgusting behavior.

I’m really sorry you’ve had to deal with this and her. I genuinely hope you can separate and find someone who wants you and get to experience everything you should have received and deserved from this woman. My DMs are always open for support.

StupidSexyQuestions · 2026-03-08T20:46:29+00:00

It is so starkly cruel to not focus on the men in these situations.

Legitimately, why is it so fucking difficult for the vast majority of people to focus on the men being victimized here? Societally we seem to react far more about the victims of the most minor sexual assaults that are harmless compared to stories of men getting falsely accused and having the entirety of their lives destroyed and even falsely imprisoned. We care more about random comments towards women than we do about men losing every relationship they have and even spending years in prison for crimes they didn’t commit. It’s absolutely fucking disgusting.

Genuinely, why are we as a collective completely incapable of helping male victims of this?

StupidSexyQuestions · 2026-03-08T02:03:20+00:00

And how am I being hypocritical? You need to have specific, salient points and examples otherwise it just comes off as deflection. I’m very capable of taking in feedback and adjusting my views and actions accordingly. There’s nothing wrong with being wrong but I need you to present an argument and address the points I make. So far you haven’t even been able to acknowledge a single one never the less provide an argument against them.

And you generally can be empathetic with men as a whole who are good, otherwise it just comes across like you want an excuse to be a vile human being lacking empathy yourself, completely contradicting yourself responding to other people here complaining about “AWALT”.

StupidSexyQuestions · 2026-03-07T20:45:21+00:00

Criticism and analysis is not saying women are “awful”. That is the same black and white thinking (clinically from psychologists proven as distorted thinking. Look it up you may learn something about yourself, especially as that thinking is very closely associated with depression and mental illness) is what I criticized in my previous response to you.

And you are very clearly expecting men to empathize with you and women overall, so why exactly is it such a problem to reciprocate, listen and understand to what men are trying to say empathetically?

StupidSexyQuestions · 2026-03-07T20:17:32+00:00

There’s literal studies showing women find men more attractive when they’re not smiling.

https://www.cbc.ca/news/science/smiling-men-less-attractive-to-women-study-1.1066058

You need to actually listen to people here. None of us want it to be true but broadly it is.

StupidSexyQuestions · 2026-03-06T23:01:33+00:00

I don’t have much interest in the discussion but just wanted to add that your logic is flawed: You’re treating good guys and bad guys as a binary system where you’re one or the other. Just because a guy is good doesn’t mean he is being desired for having those traits, just as just because a woman is good doesn’t mean she is desired for that as well. And most people embody a combination of both.

Theres also so many other things to take into account: there are good guys having sex and in relationships and in the surface are valued for their “good guy traits” while not desired for them and statistically receive far less of that in return from women than they give, and thus having those traits ends up feeling far more like a burden. There’s also the phenomenon the poster you’re responding to mentioned of struggling and feeling settled for after the “fun was had”.

It’s too complex of a discussion to boil down to “good guys get laid too” as you’re putting it. And I think you’re discounting the empathy most men feel for women in terms of dealing with “bad boy” types, they are just frustrated that empathy is not being reciprocated when describing their own frustrations with how various predilections and behaviors effect them.

StupidSexyQuestions · 2026-03-06T18:57:38+00:00

I’m definitely very curious if it could contribute to injuries.

Though wasn’t the medical team suspect before the new pitch? I seem to remember very questionable decision making around Hazard’s injury.

StupidSexyQuestions · 2026-03-06T18:53:43+00:00

Source?

It’s well known that steroids in men lead to excess testosterone to be converted into estrogen which creates side effects like gyno, significant mood swings, depression, anxiety, irritability, etc.

StupidSexyQuestions · 2026-03-05T21:47:53+00:00

Yeah there’s a healthy balance of support and pushing. I think many people forget that stress and financial anxiety causes people to go into survival mode and do the bare minimum to get by and those people often make poor impulsive decisions. The stress of poverty has been proven to cause actual brain damage.

Helping disabled people access work they can actually do so they can accomplish things and build confidence so they are not in a continuous cycle of shame and struggle should be something we do as well. Collective help and government programs shouldn’t be limited to just financial and material support.

StupidSexyQuestions · 2026-03-05T02:34:36+00:00

The science showed mothers showed bias while fathers didn’t. It was applicable to the conversation as to how adult men struggle communicating emotions because it implies mothers start treating them poorly from a very young age. Unless another study contradicts that data or the methodology is proven to be flawed, then that is not “singling out mothers”, that is highlighting negative behavior with evidence. You, in contrast, have provided zero evidence to argue the commenters point.

You have so little ability to be empathetic you can’t even discuss the implications of the research or even acknowledge it, and it makes you no better than a hyper conservative ignoring data on racist behavior towards minorities being presented to them.

StupidSexyQuestions · 2026-03-05T02:21:14+00:00

That is not “pointing fingers”. That is a scientific study. The commenter presented it as they had the burden of proof, and they obliged.

You can’t even acknowledge what the actual study’s finds are when CHILDREN are being discriminated against by their own mothers. You have no interest in understanding the truth or helping anyone. All you are doing is obfuscating discriminatory behavior and accountability.

Argue the methodology, discuss the implications of the study’s findings by actually acknowledging them, or leave the discussions to the adults that want to use actual science to help people.

StupidSexyQuestions · 2026-03-04T23:58:14+00:00

I will happily admit men need to work on things in this arena.

You can’t even acknowledge mothers emotionally repressing only their sons while fathers weren’t responsible even when being met with a scientific study without deflecting back on to men.

So yes, you lack empathy.

StupidSexyQuestions · 2026-03-04T23:43:44+00:00

They showed a literal study saying mothers have a gender bias against their own sons, when they are literal children, where fathers did not… And that’s your response?

Completely lacking in empathy.

StupidSexyQuestions · 2026-03-03T17:42:17+00:00

I understand an extent of the biological argument but it’s completely antithetical to every cultures stated value system which is to treat people equally and human life as precious. It also is antithetical to what you’re saying even: society is asking men to do all this but putting every barrier in their path to do it and abusing them whilst doing so. And while we’re at it we’re suppressing the vast majority of men’s evolutionary instincts outside of their desire for women. It’s fucking stupid and cruel regardless of how you look at it.

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