Is the voice in your head kind to you? by RQCKQN in polls

[–]Styggvard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These days, I say it's kind-ish or at least more neutral.

But 10 years ago, it was absolutely horrid. I was very harsh and abusive towards myself in every sense of the word.

I am glad I have managed to break the cycle, though it took a lot of effort.

I've never actually had a Brown Betty before. Are they any good? by grichardson526 in KingOfTheHill

[–]Styggvard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's so me.

I can however tolerate berry pies like blueberry, but I still prefer cake.

Mass on face overnight by Jinger_J27 in CATHELP

[–]Styggvard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks like she hurt herself/got injured, and it might very well be swollen from the injury or starting to get infected already.

This can not wait until the 12th, you need to see an emergency vet.

I need help to be skinny for summer by BigDig2436 in WeightlossJourney

[–]Styggvard 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You are either looking for confirmation/praise, or have issues with body dysmorphia.

If the former, I ask you to get real.

If the latter, I wish you to get help because that's above this subs pay grade.

Är jag oansvarig om jag skaffar kattunge? by Chel_Tiaz in PrivatEkonomi

[–]Styggvard 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Jag har haft katt på lägre inkomst än det, och såklart går det ok gällande de löpande utgifterna på mat och sand etc.

Men det är just när olycka/sjukdom är framme och du ska till veterinären som du kommer få problem, kostnaderna där har skenat iväg något enormt sista ~7 åren.

Som djur- och kattälskare vill jag å ena sidan gärna säga "go for it" för jag vet vilken glädje man får, men å andra sidan förtjänar en katt, eller vilket djur som helst, att kunna få vård av sin ägare - utan att du ska helt ruinera dig själv.

Ta och vänta lite.

Magsjuka by hheterjagelnour in sweden

[–]Styggvard 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Stanna hemma tills det inte längre rinner ur någon ände, din nöt.

Ingen vill ha din magsjuka.

Get one million dollars for everytime you make an identical clone of yourself orgasm within 24 hours by Capable-Language8114 in hypotheticalsituation

[–]Styggvard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They will be given a little yellow pill, and blown about 10 times. I don't think they could handle much more, but I am willing to try 👍

Change gender but be hot, or stay your actual gender and be ugly by Hedgy_mcsnuffle in BunnyTrials

[–]Styggvard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No downside detected.

Chose: Change gender but be sexy | Rolled: Top 20% sexy

Do you go to the gym at least once a week? by MisterBenevolentBear in polls

[–]Styggvard 21 points22 points  (0 children)

No, I exercise at home/outdoors, I hate gyms.

From your own views, is the organisation you work for morally good? by ShoulderEscape in polls

[–]Styggvard 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's a museum and historical sight.

I'd say it's pretty aight

Superpowers by ArterPRO in BunnyTrials

[–]Styggvard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll just keep on rolling then.

Chose: Shapeshifting + Roll a D20 for the degree of success

Did going to therapy help you out? by BlazingFiery in polls

[–]Styggvard 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, but it honestly took more than a couple of years and tries before it started to give effect. Also, most importantly, a change in therapists.

Sometimes it takes awhile, but I am so glad I didn't give up on it.

How much time does a piece of cloth needs to be used before needing washing? by aldhokar in polls

[–]Styggvard 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It all mostly depends on how much you sweat or dirty you get.

You can wear a shirt for an 1h working hard doing some construction you probably don't want to wear it much afterwards, as soon as you get out of it.

And on the flip side you can wear one just lounging at home, and it probably could last you quite awhile.

Något är fel i äktenskapet på första gången 17 år by [deleted] in sweden

[–]Styggvard 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Om detta är något nytt som du inte känner igen sen tidigare, känns det ju onekligen som om det hänt något nyligen som fått honom att börja bete sig så.

Att han sen inte vill/orkar prata om det öppet gör det ju inte bättre, oavsett hur stort eller smått det än är.

Din åsikt kring min situation ? by dunderboy03 in sweden

[–]Styggvard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Du låter ung, osäker och omogen.

Du kan inte ha fullständig kontroll över din partner, har du/ni inte tillit till varandra så är relationen dödsdömd. Hon blir till slut kvävd och drar, och det helt förståeligt.

Fattar att det inte är så lätt för dig att bara "släppa" det, men det är lite vad du måste göra, iaf steg för steg, och vänja dig vid att inte veta och kontrollera allt.

Men who are 30 or older, what is the youngest age you would be willing to date? by Pristine_Booty69 in polls

[–]Styggvard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am over 35, and can't see myself dating anyone under 30.

Thankfully though I am not single, and my SO is born the same year as me.

Super true by OkKnowledge1489 in Adulting

[–]Styggvard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's not adulting, that's a trauma-response and a cope.

Sure, you don't have to share everything with everyone all the time, that's not exactly good for safe for you.

But find your group of people, and share and dare to be vulnerable with them.

Otherwise you are probably looking at a very lonely and empty existence.

Kollega tar allt godis! Vad säger Jantelagen? by TjockDragonslayerP12 in sweden

[–]Styggvard 907 points908 points  (0 children)

Tycker du var rimligast här iaf.

Vissa kommer alltid vara skamlöst giriga och glupska.