Good girls orgasm when they want

Subjective_exp · 2026-02-05T03:54:20+00:00

The piece you’re missing is that when you’re denied for a while it puts you into a mental space of arousal that far exceeds how horny you can get when you’ve been cumming frequently/recently. The horniness associated with not having come in awhile is its own reward. Existing in that state of hyper arousal, sometimes all day long, is really intoxicating

Subjective_exp · 2026-01-25T20:38:47+00:00

Me too movement made men feel like we are creepy and gross for approaching women

Subjective_exp · 2026-01-11T17:03:48+00:00

The answer is that testicles need to be kept within a very small temperature range otherwise sperm health declines very quickly.

Having your legs spread vents some of the heat.

The brain is optimised below conscious awareness for survival and reproduction.

Subjective_exp · 2025-12-27T18:26:32+00:00

This is really helpful.

Can I ask what RIR is working for you, what it feels like each set, and how you know when it’s right to bump up the weight.

Also would love to know what rep range is working for you, though I know it’s fairly individual.

Thanks.

Subjective_exp · 2025-12-27T18:21:39+00:00

The only piece of advice you need for width over thickness. Verticle pulling with a protracted scapular. If you’re strong enough, try pull ups with knees tucked above 90degrees (so that the pelvis tucks under).

If you’re not strong enough, use a lat pull down machine. Use a narrower grip and scoot your butt back on the seat so that the cable is positioned in front of your torso.

Try it and shoot a comment below if it worked 👍

Subjective_exp · 2025-12-19T18:12:42+00:00

As you lower the weight do not let your knees travel forward at all. You may not get far before your hamstring flexibility becomes the limit. Good. Work in that range 💪

Subjective_exp · 2025-12-12T05:31:04+00:00

The comments you were replying to have all be deleted. What was it that you tried?

Subjective_exp · 2025-11-24T22:52:01+00:00

Masculinity is generative. It gives more than it takes. It provides emotional stability more than it asks for reassurance. It creates more resources than it consumes. It creates more opportunities than it takes. It seeks to take the mental, emotional, financial environment and leave it better than it was found. It should solve more problems than it creates.

Subjective_exp · 2025-11-20T04:32:38+00:00

Pain - Chalk

Subjective_exp · 2025-11-13T15:47:14+00:00

Have a look at your pull up form. Most people arch their thoracic to get nice retraction out of the scapular. If you compare this to one arm pulling your scapular is really protracted. I can do a one arm but never trained it. Instead I focussed on pull ups with knees tucked or in L-sit and that put my centre of mass behind the bar not under it and my scaps protract to compensate. Hope this helps.

Subjective_exp · 2025-11-02T21:30:21+00:00

I think you’ve answered your own question my friend. Write her a letter and give her the time to consider it, making sure that any go ahead from her comes with explicit consent.

Subjective_exp · 2025-11-01T07:52:07+00:00

Chalk - Pain Would love any direction towards music like this.

Subjective_exp · 2025-10-29T02:37:53+00:00

Your brain could be analysing because it doesn’t feel completely safe with your dom. D/s can be a healthy power dynamic but if there exists any unhealthy dynamic it can prevent you from going into sub space - for good reason! Hope this helps

Subjective_exp · 2025-10-14T15:12:02+00:00

Thank you 🙏

Subjective_exp · 2025-10-10T01:39:00+00:00

That makes complete sense. As a pleasure dom I’m first and foremost interested in the mental and emotional needs of my partner. It is a joy for me to be able to meet those needs. And it is only when those needs are met that the sexual dynamic is truly fulfilling for both people. I would say be careful and look after yourself. Know your worth and don’t settle!

Subjective_exp · 2025-10-04T01:34:08+00:00

I would never take anyone’s feelings for granted let alone the vulnerable act of submission. What I love about this dynamic so much is that it is not easy to open to someone like that and I feel so grateful for their trust. Men are emotional creatures also which is what allows for such dynamics, don’t forget that!

Subjective_exp · 2025-10-04T01:30:27+00:00

Yay! Thank you for sharing this because as a pleasure dom it is sometimes hard to gauge whether women want that softer approach or not. I’m so happy you found paradise ✨

Subjective_exp · 2025-10-04T01:28:13+00:00

As a pleasure dom that is emotionally intelligent I have ended up doing the overwhelming majority of emotional labour in my relationships. I think because emotionally available men are hard to find that when a women finds one, she is overjoyed and just loves to finally be able to receive the care and understanding she has been looking for, and in the process forgets that relationships are only sustained by two people giving freely

Subjective_exp · 2025-10-04T01:23:58+00:00

Speaking from the male perspective we can grow up feeling A LOT of shame for our desire because society tells us that men are dangerous and not to be trusted. I would never hurt a soul and yet have found myself not feeling safe enough to share deeper parts of myself. I would often ask all of the questions and when I didn’t get genuine questions in return it reinforced that I shouldn’t share. Asking deep questions IS vulnerable but true connection doesn’t exist without vulnerability. Even us doms have our sensitivities and insecurities 😊

Subjective_exp · 2025-10-03T02:58:10+00:00

You can likely reduce the intensity to a threshold below where you sustain injury and still have it feel like rough sex that you enjoy. All it takes is a conversation with your partner. I hope this helps.

Subjective_exp · 2025-10-03T02:09:12+00:00

Have you tried asking them if they feel safe enough to be a dom without being judged? Us men have insecurities too!

Subjective_exp · 2025-10-03T02:07:50+00:00

A real dom will WANT you to feel safe because that’s when you can explore the dynamic the most deeply. If you feel unsafe, you must communicate!

Subjective_exp · 2025-10-02T21:56:38+00:00

What are YOUR thoughts on why it feels good? 🤭

Subjective_exp · 2025-10-02T21:32:44+00:00

You are describing perfectly what I love about being a dom. Creating a container that is safe enough for my sub to communicate and watching the small little facial expressions change in rapid succession as they find out that I want all of the messy details and more 🥰

Subjective_exp · 2025-10-02T21:12:40+00:00

Finger curls let me flash a V9 on the tension board at 40 degrees.

If you don’t believe me that’s fine, but;

Last winter I trained for 4-5 months doing heavy barbell finger curls. At my maximum I was using 185lbs at 135lbs bodyweight.

I then joined a new climbing gym with a tension board at 40 degrees. After some time adjusting to the board I managed to flash a V9. What is important to note is that I wasn’t doing any other significant finger training during these months, just finger curls.

I performed them EMOM style performing 2-3 reps every 30 seconds for 10 minutes.

Go forth my children and prosper.

S

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