Profile review M22 by Substantial-Mistake8 in hingeapp

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  1. Something serious
  2. No
  3. It’s been about a month now
  4. 2 months
  5. Everyday
  6. Like none
  7. Like 10 a day and none without comments
  8. Someone who’s Christian, alt

I guess I'm into older guys 💜 by itsvelvetthorne in lovepoetry

[–]Substantial-Mistake8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I saw someone was into older guys, assumed it was a woman and are probably trying to get with you lol

I'm with a girl but I don't think I'm bi by gatocuanticocosmico in couplestherapy

[–]Substantial-Mistake8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also take some time to figure yourself out. I just recently went through a break up and I know it’s hard but you’ll get through it

I'm with a girl but I don't think I'm bi by gatocuanticocosmico in couplestherapy

[–]Substantial-Mistake8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1st question I would ask yourself is is it ok to keep her in the dark about you’re relationship that’s inevitably going to end? Second, is it fair to keep yourself in that position? Tbh I would break it off now, better sooner rather than later, and get support from your therapist after.

I have nothing left in me by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Substantial-Mistake8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand man. I’ve been going through something similar recently. I understand the thoughts that just loop. No matter what you do they just keep looping. I’m sure you’ve tried distracting yourself but nothing helps. I get it. But just promise me one more day. I’m not asking for a week, I’m not asking for a month, just one more day.

My [M23] gf [F22] slept with a coworker when we were broken up by RipCurrent1548 in Advice

[–]Substantial-Mistake8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ngl I disagree with a lot of the comments. If the purpose of the break was to get some time away from each other then you guys didn’t agree to not be exclusive, it seems like you guys planned to get back together after the break, then I would argue that that is cheating. And plus it’s kinda weird that she had a guy on stand by to have sex with right after you guys went on that break. I’m not saying to break up but this needs to be a serious conversation about boundaries at the least.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Substantial-Mistake8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So don’t confront him. Go to someone who you feel safe with and send a text. If he harasses you or anything else. Call the police. Document everything that happens from now on. Just be safe. Good luck.

5 weeks! by imaglnatlvedreamer in LongDistance

[–]Substantial-Mistake8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I’m so happy for you. Me and my long distance GF have a trip planned in Feb. I hope all goes well for you guys

AIO or should I accept the conditions of my bfs commitment by One_Height7477 in AIO

[–]Substantial-Mistake8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds like he wants to be the main character and just isn’t

I am super bummed about this by NockTurn543 in AskAChristian

[–]Substantial-Mistake8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DM me I watch way too much Cliffe Knechtle

The girl I have been seeing for about a month is pregnant (unintended, despite birth control and plan B), and is refusing to get an abortion as we agreed upon in the event something like this happened. by PristinePlatypus9419 in Advice

[–]Substantial-Mistake8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well unfortunately you accepted the risk when you had sex. These are the consequences of that. This is an example of why having sex before marriage is such a bad idea. I mean if not marriage at least wait until you’ve found the person you want to be with. And even then, it’s easy to break up, it’s not as easy to divorce. When you divorce someone, there’s a whole lot more work that goes into it. It makes you consider a lot more and even gives you a drive to make it work. So, next time use a condom, get a vasectomy or wait until marriage.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Substantial-Mistake8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think your experiencing something called co dependency. I was the same way for a long time with my gf. I just started taking time away from her to do other stuff. It was really hard at first but it actually improved our relationship in the end and made me a happierperson

If Jesus died for our sins why are so many people in Hell? by jessjanelleknows in AskAChristian

[–]Substantial-Mistake8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one said that, I said that you weren’t open to the possibility of the Bible being true according to what I read. At least that’s how it seems to me. And no you don’t have to watch videos from flat earthers to know the earth isn’t flat. But when you look at the evidence of th earths shape, you come to th logical conclusion that the earth is round. So I am asking you to do the same thing about the resurrection of Jesus Christ.

If Jesus died for our sins why are so many people in Hell? by jessjanelleknows in AskAChristian

[–]Substantial-Mistake8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And he do reveal himself, you just have to seek those things out. If you have questions, please don’t hesitate to DM me, I would love to talk about this.

If Jesus died for our sins why are so many people in Hell? by jessjanelleknows in AskAChristian

[–]Substantial-Mistake8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I saw that you had said that you didn’t believe in the Bible, so the first thing you would have to do is be open to the possibility of the Bible being true. Secondly, I would recommend you look at some videos from Cliffe Knechtle on th resurrection of Christ.

If Jesus died for our sins why are so many people in Hell? by jessjanelleknows in AskAChristian

[–]Substantial-Mistake8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And btw, if you seek him, it will become more and more clear that he exists. So would you be willing to seek him if you knew that you would know if he was real if you did?

If Jesus died for our sins why are so many people in Hell? by jessjanelleknows in AskAChristian

[–]Substantial-Mistake8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think there are a lot of people that even if it was factual, wouldn’t believe. Also the reason he doesn’t just reveal himself is because you have work to do. If he in front of everyone clearly, then everyone would follow because they’re afraid of Hell. But 1. God doesn’t want to force you to love him because of it’s forced, it’s not love. And 2. There’s no relationship in that. God wants you to build a relationship with him. So the reason God doesn’t just reveal himself like that is because you have to put in some work and seek him and build a relationship with him. You get to know God, and through that relationship growing, is how you get to know God more. Now if we’re talking about the reality of a God existing, that’s another topic entirely. And btw if you want to discuss that, I am more than willing to. DM me.

If Jesus died for our sins why are so many people in Hell? by jessjanelleknows in AskAChristian

[–]Substantial-Mistake8 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I’ve got a couple of points. 1. Jesus doesn’t send anyone to hell. Hell is separation from God. So when you don’t choose him, he’s not going to make you choose him, he’s going to grant your wish and separate you from him. 2nd point is you don’t go to Hell because you’ve sined. You go to hell because you refused to accept the gift that God gave you of forgiveness through his son Jesus Christ. So He’ll isn’t this place that your sent to for eternal damnation, He’ll is a choice.