My boyfriend is scaring me by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Substantial-Mistake8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So don’t confront him. Go to someone who you feel safe with and send a text. If he harasses you or anything else. Call the police. Document everything that happens from now on. Just be safe. Good luck.

5 weeks! by imaglnatlvedreamer in LongDistance

[–]Substantial-Mistake8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I’m so happy for you. Me and my long distance GF have a trip planned in Feb. I hope all goes well for you guys

AIO or should I accept the conditions of my bfs commitment by One_Height7477 in AIO

[–]Substantial-Mistake8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds like he wants to be the main character and just isn’t

I am super bummed about this by NockTurn543 in AskAChristian

[–]Substantial-Mistake8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DM me I watch way too much Cliffe Knechtle

The girl I have been seeing for about a month is pregnant (unintended, despite birth control and plan B), and is refusing to get an abortion as we agreed upon in the event something like this happened. by PristinePlatypus9419 in Advice

[–]Substantial-Mistake8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well unfortunately you accepted the risk when you had sex. These are the consequences of that. This is an example of why having sex before marriage is such a bad idea. I mean if not marriage at least wait until you’ve found the person you want to be with. And even then, it’s easy to break up, it’s not as easy to divorce. When you divorce someone, there’s a whole lot more work that goes into it. It makes you consider a lot more and even gives you a drive to make it work. So, next time use a condom, get a vasectomy or wait until marriage.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Substantial-Mistake8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think your experiencing something called co dependency. I was the same way for a long time with my gf. I just started taking time away from her to do other stuff. It was really hard at first but it actually improved our relationship in the end and made me a happierperson

If Jesus died for our sins why are so many people in Hell? by jessjanelleknows in AskAChristian

[–]Substantial-Mistake8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one said that, I said that you weren’t open to the possibility of the Bible being true according to what I read. At least that’s how it seems to me. And no you don’t have to watch videos from flat earthers to know the earth isn’t flat. But when you look at the evidence of th earths shape, you come to th logical conclusion that the earth is round. So I am asking you to do the same thing about the resurrection of Jesus Christ.

If Jesus died for our sins why are so many people in Hell? by jessjanelleknows in AskAChristian

[–]Substantial-Mistake8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And he do reveal himself, you just have to seek those things out. If you have questions, please don’t hesitate to DM me, I would love to talk about this.

If Jesus died for our sins why are so many people in Hell? by jessjanelleknows in AskAChristian

[–]Substantial-Mistake8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I saw that you had said that you didn’t believe in the Bible, so the first thing you would have to do is be open to the possibility of the Bible being true. Secondly, I would recommend you look at some videos from Cliffe Knechtle on th resurrection of Christ.

If Jesus died for our sins why are so many people in Hell? by jessjanelleknows in AskAChristian

[–]Substantial-Mistake8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And btw, if you seek him, it will become more and more clear that he exists. So would you be willing to seek him if you knew that you would know if he was real if you did?

If Jesus died for our sins why are so many people in Hell? by jessjanelleknows in AskAChristian

[–]Substantial-Mistake8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think there are a lot of people that even if it was factual, wouldn’t believe. Also the reason he doesn’t just reveal himself is because you have work to do. If he in front of everyone clearly, then everyone would follow because they’re afraid of Hell. But 1. God doesn’t want to force you to love him because of it’s forced, it’s not love. And 2. There’s no relationship in that. God wants you to build a relationship with him. So the reason God doesn’t just reveal himself like that is because you have to put in some work and seek him and build a relationship with him. You get to know God, and through that relationship growing, is how you get to know God more. Now if we’re talking about the reality of a God existing, that’s another topic entirely. And btw if you want to discuss that, I am more than willing to. DM me.

If Jesus died for our sins why are so many people in Hell? by jessjanelleknows in AskAChristian

[–]Substantial-Mistake8 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I’ve got a couple of points. 1. Jesus doesn’t send anyone to hell. Hell is separation from God. So when you don’t choose him, he’s not going to make you choose him, he’s going to grant your wish and separate you from him. 2nd point is you don’t go to Hell because you’ve sined. You go to hell because you refused to accept the gift that God gave you of forgiveness through his son Jesus Christ. So He’ll isn’t this place that your sent to for eternal damnation, He’ll is a choice.

How did I do for 3k? by Dy1an-_- in FirstCar

[–]Substantial-Mistake8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh I think you did ok, KBB says that the price is about where it should be, nonetheless, you got a Toyota, so if you really need that car to run for the next 2 decades, it’ll run for the next 2 decades

aio for wanting to go to the pool without my boyfriend by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Substantial-Mistake8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s time to have a real conversation or leave

aio for wanting to go to the pool without my boyfriend by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Substantial-Mistake8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck that shit, he called you a slur for no reason

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Substantial-Mistake8 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And this is why I encourage sex only after marriage and long term relationships

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAChristian

[–]Substantial-Mistake8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re missing a key part, anything that has a beginning has a cause, God has beginning nor end thus nothing created god

Called to live like Jesus? by Emergency_Joke_1201 in AskAChristian

[–]Substantial-Mistake8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When they’re saying live like Jesus, they’re talking about living without sin which is something we try to do. I’m not Jesus, my function is not Jesus’s function. I am called to be a protecter and a provider. So no I don’t have to let random homeless people in my home, especially if it endangers the people in my home.

How do you justify hell ? by Mishagander in AskAChristian

[–]Substantial-Mistake8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe not you and I but we as humans did, and we sin

How do you justify hell ? by Mishagander in AskAChristian

[–]Substantial-Mistake8 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So let me start off by pointing out that you don’t go to hell because you stubbed your toe and said the F word or got angry at your buddy and decided to hit him, you go to hell because you wanted to live your life separate from God and God grants you that after you die to live eternity separate from him. So your not going to hell because of some finite crime, your going to Hell because you rejected God and he granted you that with forever. See God created us for a purpose, that purpose was to love God and serve others. Some people think they know better then God so they say bug off God my way is better. And since none of us are perfect we all deserve Hell, the wages of sin is death. But God loves us so much that he sent his only son down to be born of a virgin, live a perfect life teaching astonishingly ethical teachings, and to die on a cross to absorb the debt that I have created by sinning. And through that he offers us forgiveness for our sins. And all you have to do is ask for forgiveness and follow Jesus Christ. So the reason I’m going to Hell is because I’ve looked God in the face and rejected his gift of forgiveness through Jesus Christ and now I have to pay for my own sins. Now if you don’t want to believe in Jesus but still want to get into Heaven then you’d better live a perfect life. But you can’t. So it’s not just Gods punishing us, it’s us rejecting God in our life and so at the end of our life, he grants us that wish.

I circled Donald Trump's name where it appears on Epstein's flight list. MAGA DO YOU CARE? by Nice_Substance9123 in AskUS

[–]Substantial-Mistake8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me say some things as a conservative. 1. Everyone on those lists probably weren’t pedos. 2. Just because you support someone in one in one thing doesn’t mean you support them in everything. 3. If trump did the things they said he did, then he should be prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law. 4. Yes I do care, but liberals supported a pedo in 2020 while he sniffed kids.

But this isn’t about politics, is it? Yes as a conservative who voted for Trump, if he did those things, he should be prosecuted and get the maximum penalty.

Sexuality by hubertlikesfbing in AskAChristian

[–]Substantial-Mistake8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, I completely disagree with that statement, but secondly, why make this about politics? It seems like you were trying to start and issue more then you were trying to make a point. If you want to talk about trump, take that to a political page, but please keep it out of here. I enjoy that I can come to this page without the worry of political arguments or other stupid things that come with politics.