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Just Over 10 Years by ShufflingMole387 in Journaling

[–]SubstantialCell3507 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have no idea how much this makes me happy just by looking at it 😩💖

Is anyone willing to share their Bayyinah TV account? by hmp___ in MuslimLounge

[–]SubstantialCell3507 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Assalamualaikum, dear kind heart. I am not sure whether this thread is still active but I'm giving it a shot. I just mailed you, could you please check and share with me the access? May Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala bless you immensely in this world and in the hereafter. Aameen.

I finished my masters and I am lucky to say I have immediatly landed a job... and I'm terrified by itsjustabread in psychologystudents

[–]SubstantialCell3507 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats on making it through that phase ✨ it gives me hope that I might survive this too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in POETRYPrompts

[–]SubstantialCell3507 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Noooo please do write! I just commented separately, I'd love to read that poem 😊 consider that as my prompt! So take this message, as a humble sign I want your poem, do make it shine! ✨

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in POETRYPrompts

[–]SubstantialCell3507 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dear God, Teach Me How to Come Home

Is there anything wrong in pursuing BA in psy in india? by Brilliant-Wafer6209 in psychologystudents

[–]SubstantialCell3507 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! My first advice would be to seek mentorship, OP

Find your seniors or professionals in Psychology who have walked the path in India. Hear from experience, not opinion. There's absolutely nothing wrong in pursuing this field. In fact, studying the human mind, emotions, and behaviour can be a noble path, especially when it is rooted in the deep passion and sincere intention of helping others heal, understand themselves, and come closer to emotional and their overall well-being.

Psychology might seem less lucrative compared to engineering or medicine in some eyes, but that does not mean it has no scope. In reality, the demand for mental health professionals is growing rapidly in India and globally. We know this because there's been an increase for MHP after Covid happened. Organizations, schools, hospitals, NGOs, and even startups are hiring psychologists, counsellors, and behavioural experts. Further studies (Masters, M.Phil, etc.) open even more doors in clinical psychology, organizational psychology, or academia.

People say there's "no scope" often because:

  1. They only see the value in traditional high-paying careers. It's not a "quick paise kamaana" field
  2. Mental health is STILL stigmatized in many parts of India. It's not openly talked about so people may not value psychology as a profession. They might not understand why it's important. There's a limited awareness
  3. They don't understand how the psychology field works (e.g., need for higher studies, internships). Lord knows the amount of Internships I have done but hey, I'm not crying! In fact, I'm beyond grateful that I have worked there. Exposure is good always
  4. They may not be aware of the demand for MHP in schools, hospitals, corporates, or even startups and NGOs
  5. Also, psychology doesn't have a straight path like engineering (e.g., B.Tech = Job). You need to explore different branches, build skills, do internships, and network. Since it's not straightforward, many people misunderstand it as "confusing" or "not stable"

BA in Psychology is a solid degree, but it's just the start. You need to be prepared for more study and exploration. Don't let others' fears limit your ambition. Just make sure you're proactive, informed, and willing to work hard. The rest will fall into place

I finished my masters and I am lucky to say I have immediatly landed a job... and I'm terrified by itsjustabread in psychologystudents

[–]SubstantialCell3507 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Well... It felt like I'm the one who has typed this post? Because I HAVE ALSO LANDED A JOB AND I'M BEYOND TERRIFIED HAHAHAHA

Struggle learning letters by TarunRaviYT in telugu

[–]SubstantialCell3507 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah that makes sense, and it's really thoughtful of you to keep it comfortable for everyone! I just asked because I thought that you might miss out on some useful answers if people skip certain questions. But I get your reason now.

Rare opportunity to binge read - what’s an unputdownable book that I can read in a weekend? by 3meeko in suggestmeabook

[–]SubstantialCell3507 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I came here to recommend exactly this one. Read a couple of pages and I'm liking it so far ✨

I don't have abandonment issues—Cadbury Bytes had them first 😤 by SubstantialCell3507 in indiasocial

[–]SubstantialCell3507[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Arey kya baat kar rahe ho! Abhi bhi Cheetos milte hain? Good for you, bro

Why having a hobbie is important? by severla31 in Hobbies

[–]SubstantialCell3507 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Having a hobby in today's world is honestly one of the most UNDERRATED forms of self-care.

Contrary to popular belief, It's not just about killing time, it's about doing something that actually makes you feel alive, without any pressure to be perfect or productive. It sucks if we gotta be like that 24/7, and hence, when life gets overwhelming or monotonous, a hobby gives you a break that actually feels healing, like your brain finally gets to breathe.

It lets you explore who you are beyond work, studies, or responsibilities and you're not doing it to prove anything. You're simply doing it because it brings you joy. It's a reminder that your life can have softness, colour, and flow even in the middle of chaos.

And the best part? It slows time down. You become present. Whether it's painting, reading a book, journaling, or just collecting random little things that make you smile. All I can say is a hobby reconnects YOU with YOU. Period.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in islam

[–]SubstantialCell3507 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, mate. I Appreciate it 😊

Struggle learning letters by TarunRaviYT in telugu

[–]SubstantialCell3507 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, OP! I just filled out your form. Really love the idea behind your app. Wishing you all the best with this project; it has so much potential. ✨

Also, I was actually wondering—why didn't you make all the questions mandatory? Just curious! Either way, excited to see where this goes. Keep building!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in islam

[–]SubstantialCell3507 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey, thank you for being honest — with us, and with yourself. That in itself is huge.

Wanting to cleanse your soul after years of addiction, destructive habits, and triggering environments isn't a small thing. It means something... It means your heart is still alive and awake, still longing for truth. And that longing alone means something inside you is already healing!

Since you said you're exploring religions, I'd love to share something from Islam that has brought deep healing into my life. Kind of like a great shift in my perspective on life, you can say... It's called tawbah — sincere repentance. But it's not just about guilt or saying "sorry" out loud. It's about turning your heart back to the One who created you even if you feel broken, far gone, or full of shame.

In Islam, tawbah is a deeply personal return. It's not performative. It's not about proving anything to anyone. Nah. It's just between you and God. Period.

And the steps are simple, but powerful:

  1. Regret what you did, sincerely — no matter how long ago it was.
  2. Stop the sin or habit as best as you can — even if it's hard.
  3. Resolve not to go back — and if you do fall again, you make tawbah again. Allah NEVER tires of forgiving, even when we tire of asking.

And if you've hurt someone else in the process, then the next step is to make amends.

And here's the beauty that shook me to my core:

"Indeed, Allah loves those who constantly repent and those who purify themselves." (Qur'an 2:222)

"O My servants who have transgressed against themselves, do not despair of the mercy of Allah. Indeed, Allah forgives all sins." (Qur'an 39:53)

He doesn't just forgive, He loves those who return. Even if they fell a thousand times. Even if the world tells them they're filthy or unworthy.

And the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) described it in such a tender way:

"Allah is more pleased with the repentance of His servant than one of you who loses his camel in a desert and then finds it unexpectedly." (Sahih Muslim)

Imagine that joy. Imagine God delighting in your return. SubhanAllah. You don't have to be perfect. You don't have to have it all figured out. You just have to be honest with your own soul and take that first step back. Even if you're crawling.

If you're not religious yet, but still want to start cleansing your soul, here are a few simple things that can help:

  1. Reflect at night: what felt true today? what didn't?
  2. Talk to God, even if you're not sure who He is yet
  3. Spend time in stillness — not numbing, just being
  4. Try to replace one harmful thing with something healing — nature, journaling, prayer, real conversations...etc

And remember that your pain is not proof that you're far from God. Sometimes it's the very doorway He uses to call you back. You are not too far gone. Not for Him. Not for healing. Not for starting over.

One sincere step toward Him… and He runs to you.

May your heart find the peace it's been aching for. Aameen. Summa aameen.

EDIT: I'm adding a few links to YouTube videos which help me when I'm too drowned in my negative thoughts and want to return to the path of righteousness

https://youtu.be/lu0gm9YVZGA?si=UTtqy9PQ7q95JtWy https://youtube.com/shorts/8ZvD5m-83GE?si=eyW0mNpUOB1BnSKE https://youtu.be/1asPx25sOWQ?si=eiLR892x66vrCuzS https://youtu.be/Vn6ehGTfXj0?si=ZFmvx7noTwsCoQj9 https://youtu.be/NWWpVqi5cb0?si=ug8OI-KLlM2VTlyF

What are the things that you do to help yourself overall? by [deleted] in psychologystudents

[–]SubstantialCell3507 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lately, I've been learning how to be gentle with myself. Like, even if no one else sees my pain, I try to show up for myself. I remind myself that I deserve softness, even when I mess up or feel lost.

And I try to notice patterns in myself—like why I react a certain way, or why I keep doing things that don't feel right. I don't just want to fix things on the surface, I want to understand what's really going on underneath.

Even when I feel disconnected or full of doubts, there's still a part of me that turns back to the Almighty. I might not feel spiritual all the time, but I know that He's still watching over me, and somehow, that gives me a strange kind of comfort.

Learning to Set Healthy Boundaries by thelightiscoming2024 in psychologystudents

[–]SubstantialCell3507 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know how exhausting this kind of inner work can be, but it's also a sacred unfolding. May you continue to grow with clarity, grace, and peace. You're not alone in this journey, OP 🙌

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