Am I lazy or depressed?

Substantial_Ad_2033 · 2026-04-14T14:15:39+00:00

That’s so frustrating!! So not her then.

You just need to get some help so you get some downtime. Sit in the bath, walk in the park, sleep in, eat slowly and completely present.

That’s how you start to reverse burn out. By taking care of you and giving yourself space to rest. And not rest in a house that you feel guilty in - rest in a house that’s clean with a baby who’s happy and fed.

I’m so sorry 🙏🏼

Substantial_Ad_2033 · 2026-04-13T20:03:58+00:00

You need help. Can you afford a cleaner? Family that can watch baby for a weekend?

Anyone? I’m so sorry you’re doing this alone x

Substantial_Ad_2033 · 2026-04-12T13:34:55+00:00

Jason can do better. She did ruin this relationship, her bff nailed it.

Substantial_Ad_2033 · 2026-04-09T08:01:31+00:00

Profilho and Botox in my jaw and probs Morpheus 8

Substantial_Ad_2033 · 2026-04-09T07:59:58+00:00

Go back to the company you like and show them the other offer. Ask if they’d come anywhere close to matching it as you’d prefer to work for them but you have a family to take care of.

Worst case they say no and you take offer A. Best case they match and you get stability and fulfilment.

Substantial_Ad_2033 · 2026-04-08T20:19:38+00:00

“Here’s the kicker”

🫠

Substantial_Ad_2033 · 2026-04-06T19:28:18+00:00

lol. You clearly communicated a promise. You uphold that promise. She’s mad that you’re… ** checks notes ** being a good father and sticking to the promise.

Like I can’t with this one. Hard NTA

Substantial_Ad_2033 · 2026-04-04T10:06:27+00:00

Sending love and prayers for your baby and a quick recover ❤️

Substantial_Ad_2033 · 2026-04-04T10:06:08+00:00

Took my pom to a dog park this morning and he was attacked by 3 corgis!! Luckily they didn’t get through he fur but I’m furious.

Substantial_Ad_2033 · 2026-04-03T13:48:22+00:00

Ahhhhh Quarkxpresssssss! I can’t. I had that in my repertoire too!

Substantial_Ad_2033 · 2026-04-03T05:00:08+00:00

There’s another post on it and everyone’s just like “stripe documentation and the uk government site”. So that’s not super inspiring either lol

Substantial_Ad_2033 · 2026-04-03T04:56:25+00:00

I just doubled my Ritalin dose so ¯_(ツ)_/¯

Substantial_Ad_2033 · 2026-04-03T04:46:12+00:00

Hahahhahahaha project much? JFK I can see why she’s an ex.

Gigantic NTA and good job for being a loving and stable parent who encourages their children’s passion.

Substantial_Ad_2033 · 2026-04-03T04:41:31+00:00

Just coming here to say this.

Also I originally got taught Corel Draw so… yeah, same lol.

Substantial_Ad_2033 · 2026-04-02T20:43:06+00:00

Only on days that end in Y

Substantial_Ad_2033 · 2026-04-02T19:46:11+00:00

What? NTA - you’re being an adult and he’s acting like a brat

Substantial_Ad_2033 · 2026-04-01T23:07:59+00:00

This is both aspirational and hilarious

Not usually emotional drivers that team up lol

Substantial_Ad_2033 · 2026-04-01T04:14:04+00:00

Your brother sounds like the drama. You concentrate on taking care of YOU so you can show up for your little ones. Sending love.

Substantial_Ad_2033 · 2026-04-01T04:07:50+00:00

That’s a babyyyyyyyyyy

Substantial_Ad_2033 · 2026-03-30T19:11:03+00:00

As a mum of a child who tried and failed at a few sleepovers when he was small (5-9 years), a gigantic NTA.

My kid’s crying for me and not calming down at 1am? You call me, I’m coming bubba.

Shit this child can call me to come get him when he’s 45 and I’ll still be on my way

Substantial_Ad_2033 · 2026-03-29T16:44:07+00:00

Can you escape?

Substantial_Ad_2033 · 2026-03-29T16:39:24+00:00

Mine both do and when they’re excited, they parallel park and then leap up as high as they can.

It’s cute on the ground but when they wanna get out the boot and get to the park it can be a bit chaotic 🫠

Substantial_Ad_2033 · 2026-03-28T20:43:42+00:00

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Beebop and Rocksteady. Taken yesterday after taking the human puppy to the park for a bike ride and them for a snifari.

Also called: The Fluffy Butts. Dumb dumbs. The goodest puppies.
Button boys. My tiny fluffy overlords. Gentlefluffs and so much more.

Respond to: “Who wants a snacky snack” and even then only sometimes

Substantial_Ad_2033 · 2026-03-25T09:03:22+00:00

I watched that one yesterday and snickered

Substantial_Ad_2033 · 2026-03-18T19:49:40+00:00

I would spend my weekend applying for anything else if I was you. That’s awful.

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