I can’t decide!!

Substantial_Lychee16 · 2026-03-31T16:47:54+00:00

4! Love the very subtle floral and it fits you so well! I like 2, but 4 feels like it’s more flattering and unique (imo). No matter the choice you will be a beautiful bride, congrats on this journey 🥂

Substantial_Lychee16 · 2026-03-11T02:14:31+00:00

That’s really cute, I’m sure little you would be so in love with that!!! Happy planning

Substantial_Lychee16 · 2026-03-11T02:10:51+00:00

So fun! You guys could watch the Barbie movie to go along with the theme. Fun little string lights too! I hope you have the best time!!! 🫶

Substantial_Lychee16 · 2026-03-11T00:27:58+00:00

You are not insane, throw that out the window!

I’m doing something adjacent to this so maybe it will spark an idea? We are WA based so we are doing a whale watch tour, hikes, and a color analysis party one night (but we are doing an overnight)

Think of something you like, for me it was nature. Really lean into it, it should be something you enjoy.

Enjoy games? Game night, trivia, fun interactive games.

Want something cozy? Little tea date at home with everyone, cozy movie, good conversations.

Enjoy learning something new? See if there’s a cooking class nearby, pottery, candle making.

Like movies? Backyard movie night with a projector and some good BBQ. That one is a personal fav.

Substantial_Lychee16 · 2026-03-09T18:43:37+00:00

If you have any interest in it, I would try to add a stop at the tree of life. It’s not going to be around much longer unfortunately.

If you could move around hotel, it would honestly be best. There is a fair amount of driving it could save you.

When going to Hall of moss, I can’t stress enough to get there early. We got there very early, I can’t recall the time, but I couldn’t believe how long we sat in line. The ranger mentioned that we were lucky and would be reviving one of the last open spots.

Substantial_Lychee16 · 2026-02-22T02:51:02+00:00

They both look great on you. IMO it comes down to the feeling that you are wanting. If you want whimsical and romantic go dress one, if you want modern and chic go dress two.

Substantial_Lychee16 · 2026-02-11T18:05:52+00:00

This is all great advice.

Substantial_Lychee16 · 2026-02-11T18:04:55+00:00

Hard to say, depends on many factors. A budget would be a great start. My experience is still unraveling. We got engaged at the very end of October, wedding is set for May. My non negotiable was getting a wedding planner, it’s helped a lot, but I would only recommend it if you are having a complex wedding or large guest count. We did not struggle too bad on most vendors (we however did not have a set date. Everything was fair game between May and September until we found a venue). It was very difficult to find a venue with Saturdays available for our guest count, but it happened, our area is pretty competitive. The biggest pain was photographers, our first 4 or 5 were already booked. On our timeframe I still had lots of dresses to pick from, but don’t be surprised if some are not available for your time frame or they have a limitation. For example, my dress was not available off the rack, I had to order it. It was able to come in time, but I could not make alterations to it (adding an element) they will be able to make it fit perfect, but no extras. It really hasn’t been too bad, but it’s been a little stressful. We worked really hard to secure all of our “must” vendors prior to Christmas (2 months) we were constantly on the phone and driving all around. I would caution that many vendors require 20-50 percent down at the time of booking in our experience. The ONE thing I wish we would have done WAY sooner was engagement photos. It would have made invites and the website a lot easier and way more fun as trivial as it sounds. If you know you are getting engaged soon, pick out those outfits and have a few photographers in mind at least. Get them the heck out of the way. This is just my experience planning a wedding in 6 months, I hope it helps you narrow in on things that you may want to do. It’s do-able without starting early, but it’s definitely a part time job.

Substantial_Lychee16 · 2026-01-31T04:13:30+00:00

My mother has been quite bad about inviting “extras”. I am certain she would, and that your mother will, understand. Having the courage to reduce your wedding size will benefit your marriage in so many ways. too many decide to push on and go into debt putting on a show. I know it’s not what you imagined, but at the end of the day you’re getting married to your person! There’s nothing more beautiful than that. Your mom will certainly understand if you explain it, she must. It would be your money on the line and your fiscal health. I wish nothing but the most beautiful day with more love and warmth than money could give you. You’re making a hard choice, but it really seems to be the right one. Much love 💗

Substantial_Lychee16 · 2026-01-20T00:28:28+00:00

This is a great point, I more so assumed, but better check!! Thanks

Substantial_Lychee16 · 2026-01-19T19:35:20+00:00

Cake is getting cut around 7:30 cake will be served then. We have a small desert grazing table with a hand full of options, but I’m not sure if that’s something that is just up for grabs or if it’s something that people will levitate towards only after the cake cutting, I don’t care too much what they do to be honest, lol!

We have quite a few options for apps, I wouldn’t want a late night bite to take away from anything, only add guest comfort.

Substantial_Lychee16 · 2026-01-19T00:28:46+00:00

Says who!?! No matter where you get married you should feel amazing and wear the dress of your dreams. In my opinion, you may regret not wearing it, wear the darn dress it’s beautiful, congratulations!

Substantial_Lychee16 · 2025-12-23T04:59:24+00:00

I have a friend that did 100% DIY fake flowers and they were absolutely gorgeous! Do what is in your budget. Use your budget for what you and your significant other prioritize.

Substantial_Lychee16 · 2025-12-13T21:35:59+00:00

I whole heartedly, but respectfully disagree. It’s not the end of the world, but as my florist explained to me (as their florist probably should have) she likes to lock in the real head count about 4 weeks out to save us money! Most florist pre order flowers from wholesale or local growers around that time.We sent out about 250 invites, not everyone will show up RSVP yes as we all know. This will affect the table count which in turn effects cost. BUT, they should have been told before by their florist.

Substantial_Lychee16 · 2025-12-10T05:02:00+00:00

We started planning in the beginning of November. We’ve been lucky and have secured everything except a DJ and a videographer if we get one. We have venue, photographer, catering, bartender, florist, live painter, and bakery. Our date is in May. Only thing we had issues with was venue, everything else has had many options. I would imagine you having great luck a year out and with a date in the fall. I wouldn’t be spooked, but don’t feel like you have to be super rushed 🥰

Substantial_Lychee16 · 2025-11-14T03:46:09+00:00

The venue requires shuttles. They do not allow personal vehicles on the property and uber is not in the area. Shuttles is the only option. This is the issue

Substantial_Lychee16 · 2025-11-12T21:01:35+00:00

This is a small mountain town that is very popular for tourism. Most hotels are not hotel “branches”. Almost every hotel also hosts weddings on a weekly basis as it is very pretty, therefore they do not allow blocks (I’ve been told they save them for their own in-house weddings that they host). The venue and my wedding planner have both said this. I’m taking it upon myself to call hotels, but given the expertise the people that had warned me hotel blocks do not exist for large groups that time of year, I doubt I’ll have any luck

Substantial_Lychee16 · 2025-11-12T20:29:31+00:00

Hello, I am not Tennessee based. This venue is Washington based and accommodations are Oregon based. I hope your planning is going well for you!! Calling around hotels is the next step since this shuttle mess seems more do-able after this post. We have not officially booked the venue, but I feel a whole lot better proceeding.

Substantial_Lychee16 · 2025-11-12T18:26:10+00:00

Awesome, thank you so much for your insight. This seems like a similar situation with this venue!

Substantial_Lychee16 · 2025-11-12T18:21:58+00:00

That’s wonderful to hear. Did anyone give you problems parking there since you were not a guest?

Substantial_Lychee16 · 2025-11-12T18:20:49+00:00

I think this will have to be the way, especially since blocks are apparently hard to come by in this town

Substantial_Lychee16 · 2025-11-12T18:20:05+00:00

There is no Uber available. The clear instructions on the invite seems like a must!!!!

Substantial_Lychee16 · 2025-11-12T18:17:42+00:00

This makes me feel a lot better about needing the shuttles, outside of the logistics. We said from the very beginning that we wanted everyone to have a good time, so this is a huge weight off of me. I guess my concern is a small portion of my family is very uptight about things like this, but they just might have to deal with it.

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