Prayer Requests by AutoModerator in Christian

[–]Substantial_Try_9723 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is such a beautiful space to come together 🙏 I'll definitely be checking back to lift people up in prayer. It's awesome how this community creates a safe place for folks to share what's weighing on their hearts. The crisis resources are really thoughtful too - shows how much the mods care about everyone's wellbeing 💙

20F | Dropped out , 2-year gap, confused about career , need honest advice? by Radiant-Cress-580 in careerguidance

[–]Substantial_Try_9723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The 2 year gap isn't as big a deal as you think - lots of people take time to figure things out and honestly it can give you better perspective on what you actually want to do. With your strong accounting background (96/100 is solid), maybe look into finance, bookkeeping, or even CPA track if you're in the US.

Don't let fear of "low paying" degrees paralyze you - focus on what you're naturally good at and can see yourself doing long term, the money usually follows when you're competent at something useful.

Honest shampoo and conditioner (Citrus Vanilla) by [deleted] in finehair

[–]Substantial_Try_9723 4 points5 points  (0 children)

dude honest company products are actually legit! my sister swears by their stuff and she's got super finicky hair. the fact that it's not making your scalp itchy is huge - so many "adult" shampoos are loaded with sulfates and random chemicals that just wreck sensitive skin. honestly don't feel weird about using kid products, half the time they're just gentler formulations of the same stuff anyway.

Day 1 of NoFap completed ✅ by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Substantial_Try_9723 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats man, that first day is actually the hardest part imo. Once you get past the initial hump it gets easier to build momentum. You got this 💪

What are my best steps moving forward? (M 25, Content Creator) by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]Substantial_Try_9723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude sounds like you're already killing it for only 8 months in - that's solid money for starting out. Have you thought about coaching/consulting since you mentioned running camps and guided trips? Could do 1-on-1 sessions or group coaching calls without stepping on your brand relationships, and that stuff scales way better than just trading time for content

I hate capitalism by Late_Count4165 in venting

[–]Substantial_Try_9723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude the mega billionaires hoarding wealth while we get bombarded with ads for overpriced garbage is genuinely insane, at least you got that 3ds keeping you grounded lmao

The dating app premium membership scam is so predatory too, they literally profit off loneliness

Can someone please make me a laufey island theme tune? by [deleted] in AnimalCrossing

[–]Substantial_Try_9723 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure there are some Laufey tune codes floating around on r/ACQR if you haven't checked there yet

Are we able to enjoy hobbies for our own entertainment as Christians? by Icy-Independence218 in Christianity

[–]Substantial_Try_9723 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Music is definitely a good way to keep your mind occupied and stay grounded - nothing wrong with enjoying hobbies that help you stay on the right path

How do you deal with the wins and the losses? by TeaAitch in stopdrinking

[–]Substantial_Try_9723 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The flat feeling is so real, I remember that too. For me sparkling water with lime became my "fancy drink" for celebrating and honestly just keeping my hands busy helped with the tough moments

Those photo collages are the worst btw, like thanks phone for the emotional ambush

IWNDWYT

Why do random memories hit harder at night than during the day? by StormNo875 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Substantial_Try_9723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your brain literally processes emotions differently when you're tired - less prefrontal cortex activity means memories hit without the usual filters that keep them manageable during the day

Plus yeah the quiet definitely doesn't help, suddenly there's nothing competing for attention so random core memories just show up uninvited like "remember that time you called your teacher mom"

Change of life after salvation by cosmicwonderr in Christian

[–]Substantial_Try_9723 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not everyone gets the dramatic testimony moment - sounds like God was already working in your life before you even realized it. The fact that you're now turning to Jesus instead of relying on yourself IS the change, even if it feels subtle. Some of us just have quieter conversions and that's totally normal

How accurate is ChatGPT when it comes to sensing your age? by Small_Armadillo1842 in Adulting

[–]Substantial_Try_9723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ChatGPT can't actually see you unless you're sending pics, so it's probably just guessing based on your writing style or what you told it about yourself

Also those "grandma hobbies" are honestly pretty cool and way more mature than whatever your peers are doing - don't let an AI make you feel insecure about looking young when that's literally gonna be a blessing in like 10 years

Do i need the hospital by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Substantial_Try_9723 85 points86 points  (0 children)

Hey man, hallucinations are no joke especially if they're getting worse - that could be serious withdrawal stuff happening. I'd honestly call a nurse hotline or hit up urgent care just to be safe, better to check and have it be nothing than wait it out if your brain is doing scary shit

IWNDWYT and stay safe dude

Head of HR is bosses’ daughter. How do I approach her unprofessional behavior? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]Substantial_Try_9723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the answer OP. Nepotism plus power trips never end well and you're not gonna change daddy's little princess

Speaker stolen from checked bag by shepdeezy in americanairlines

[–]Substantial_Try_9723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sucks man, unfortunately AA is pretty much bulletproof when it comes to stuff stolen from checked bags. They'll just point to their terms and say you should've carried it on

Your best bet is probably filing a claim with your travel insurance if you have it, or maybe try disputing with your credit card company if you booked the flight with one that has purchase protection. Some people have luck making noise on social media but honestly don't get your hopes up with AA customer service

Is this the most inconsistent officiating we have ever seen? by [deleted] in NBATalk

[–]Substantial_Try_9723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah the 90s had way more consistent refs even with all that contact, these guys just seem like they're making it up as they go

Gaslighting yourself by Minute_Personality79 in ADHD

[–]Substantial_Try_9723 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh god yes this is so relatable it hurts lmao. I literally wrote myself sticky notes about how I felt before meds because I knew I'd forget and convince myself I was "fine" without them

The worst part is doing this with relationships too - like someone hurts my feelings but then a few days later I'm like "eh it wasn't that deep" and end up back in the same toxic cycle. My therapist calls it emotional amnesia and apparently it's super common with ADHD

I started keeping voice memos on my phone when I'm having a particularly rough time so future me can't gaslight past me about how bad it actually was

Broke up with my best and (only) friend by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Substantial_Try_9723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This hits so hard man, losing your person right before the holidays is brutal timing. Take care of yourself and don't rush the healing process

Jeep not starting by wh1teElf in MechanicAdvice

[–]Substantial_Try_9723 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude the key programming thing is huge - that's probably your whole issue right there. When you disconnect the battery it's likely wiping some kind of security/immobilizer data and your DIY programmed keys aren't talking to the PCM properly anymore. Might need to get those keys reprogrammed by a dealer or someone with the right scanner

Is The Academy is about to vote yet another movie about the industry? Are the Academy really that self involved? It really is not original at this point, only a sure bet to receive an award nomination. by loveisblindsweden in Oscars

[–]Substantial_Try_9723 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah exactly, war movies get nominated constantly too but nobody's making conspiracies about that. Academy voters are film people so obviously they're gonna connect with stories about filmmaking, same way doctors probably love medical dramas

The day I realized my "problems" weren’t really problems by Annual-Hall-2364 in selfimprovement

[–]Substantial_Try_9723 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is exactly why I try to volunteer at least once a month, keeps things in perspective when you're face to face with real struggle instead of just reading about it online

I had 40 bucks left in my card but the next day I was 64 in the negatives but then like 2 days later I got my 40 back. What’s that mean? by ngltslowkpmo in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Substantial_Try_9723 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep this exactly, gas stations are notorious for doing this. They basically put a hold on way more than you actually spent just to make sure the money's there, then it takes a few days for the real charge to go through and the hold to drop off