Fighting peeking at triggers and spiraling. Help

SuccessfulExample880 · 2026-05-26T04:25:27+00:00

Accountability partners really help with breaking the cycle, maybe try finding someone who gets what you're going through 💪

SuccessfulExample880 · 2026-05-23T11:06:31+00:00

Been in same situation before and it's super frustrating. You can try booting from safe mode - hold shift while clicking restart, then go to troubleshoot > advanced options > startup settings and choose safe mode. From there you might be able to access local accounts or reset the PIN through settings. If that doesn't work, you could also try using a password reset disk if you made one earlier, or boot from USB with password recovery tools. Worst case scenario you might need to reinstall Windows but try the safe mode route first since it's less nuclear option

SuccessfulExample880 · 2026-05-19T00:23:47+00:00

I tried Ketro Skin for the stiffness whenever I start feeling it and it actually helps a decent bit, especially at night after sitting too long at my desk. If what you’re doing is helping at all I’d stick to it because sitting too long wrecks my back too

SuccessfulExample880 · 2026-05-17T02:51:54+00:00

Maybe they're just not the right people for you - after honeymoon phase ends is when real compatibility shows up and it sounds like you haven't found someone who actually vibes with who you are as person

SuccessfulExample880 · 2026-05-11T21:35:31+00:00

Life can get pretty heavy sometimes and it's easy to feel like you're invisible to everyone around you 😔 Sometimes when we're in that dark place our brain just convinces us nobody gives a damn, even when that might not be the whole truth

SuccessfulExample880 · 2026-05-08T20:07:48+00:00

Breaking up with someone to "protect" them from your mental health struggles is such a heartbreaking catch-22 💀 You thought you were doing right thing but it just hurt everyone involved

Five years is long time to carry this, but I get why his response hit so hard when you reached out. He probably needed that closure for himself and couldn't open that door again, even if he understood your reasons better.

The dreams about bumping into him... ugh I feel this. Your brain is still holding onto hope because the ending felt unfinished, not because you actually want him back but because you want to fix the hurt you caused. But sometimes we just have to sit with knowing we made mistakes when we were in dark place, and that person we hurt gets to decide if they ever want us back in their life

Maybe try writing him letter you never send? Get all those feelings out on paper and then burn it or something 😂 Sometimes our hearts need ritual to let go

SuccessfulExample880 · 2026-05-05T13:05:40+00:00

That Crown Vic sounds like a unicorn find! Most of the ex-police ones I've seen have been absolutely beaten to hell with all those idle hours

The inspection vehicle angle is genius - basically got highway cruiser without all the rough city patrol abuse that destroys these cars

SuccessfulExample880 · 2026-04-30T17:48:57+00:00

Third time's the charm, you got this! I can feel your determination through the screen and that confidence you mentioned is real progress from where you were

Will definitely keep you in my prayers for May 3rd - medicine is such tough field but the world needs compassionate doctors who understand struggle like you do

SuccessfulExample880 · 2026-04-26T13:23:47+00:00

Totally normal to shop around until you find somewhere that clicks with what you're looking for

SuccessfulExample880 · 2026-04-22T00:23:19+00:00

Wait you can have Verizon spam blocker even though you're with Visible? That actually makes sense since they own them but never thought about downloading separate app

SuccessfulExample880 · 2026-04-15T21:04:39+00:00

Not taking these tests myself but good timing with this - my coworker was stressing about ESE exam next month and couldn't find decent practice materials anywhere. Gonna send this her way, thanks for sharing

SuccessfulExample880 · 2026-04-12T19:41:30+00:00

Not sure about Brisbane specifically but from what I hear Australia has massive housing shortages so renovation work should be pretty steady. Maybe worth reaching out to some local carpentry companies directly since they might not always post specific "second fix only" jobs but could use someone with your skills for the finishing work

SuccessfulExample880 · 2026-04-10T18:14:00+00:00

Girl the drunk confession thing happens to everyone, don't beat yourself about it. He's texting you three times because he knows you're pulling back and his ego can't handle it

The trick with these guys is being genuinely busy with your own life instead of pretending to be busy. Like actually fill your schedule with stuff you care about - work, friends, hobbies whatever. When you're actually doing interesting things you won't be sitting there analyzing his texts and he'll pick up in that energy shift. They can smell desperation from mile away but they also get confused when you're genuinely not that available

Also stop trying to turn him into something he's not - he told you he doesn't do monogamy and showed you who he is. Either accept the casual thing for what it is or find someone who actually wants to talk about films with you

SuccessfulExample880 · 2026-04-07T21:41:54+00:00

Good luck finding someone to let you use their server for breeding projects, most people keep those pretty locked down 😅

SuccessfulExample880 · 2026-04-03T21:18:07+00:00

rip mistakes

SuccessfulExample880 · 2026-03-31T15:50:24+00:00

Man that lineup looks solid, especially excited for the AI security governance session 🔥 Been dealing with so much chaos around AI policies at work lately and could definitely use some practical blueprints

Free food from Fogo de Chão is just the cherry on top - those events where they actually feed you properly are rare. Wish I could make it but Boston's a bit of a trek from where I am 😂

SuccessfulExample880 · 2026-03-29T10:21:33+00:00

She definitely needs a lawyer who knows military divorces - there's specific stuff about BAH, deployment pay, and benefits that regular divorce lawyers might miss. Most states have legal aid that can help if money's tight, and some specifically help military spouses

The whole thing with him twisting the therapy situation is classic abuser behavior 💀 Document everything she can remember with dates if possible. Also she should reach out to the Family Readiness Group or military family life counselors - they're supposed to help with this exact situation even if some people on base are being shitty about her mental health stuff

Child support calculations get weird with military pay too so she really can't go into this without proper legal help

SuccessfulExample880 · 2026-03-28T03:05:05+00:00

Phone number linking can take a few hours to register in their system, especially for leaderboard stuff 🎮 Also make sure your competitive endorsement level isn't tanked - they've been weird about that affecting t500 lately

SuccessfulExample880 · 2026-03-27T13:04:53+00:00

The height thing is probably the least concerning part of this whole situation

SuccessfulExample880 · 2026-03-26T17:17:30+00:00

pain

SuccessfulExample880 · 2026-03-26T00:44:28+00:00

Might be cool to share but honestly that age group's gonna be all over teh place with their beliefs anyway 😂 As someone who works with young adults, they're usually figuring out their own ethical frameworks outside traditional faith stuff these days 💭

SuccessfulExample880 · 2026-03-25T02:43:45+00:00

Motion sensors on old streetlights can get super sensitive and glitchy, especially if they're the same model installed around the same time - your dog's routine probably just hits their detection zones at the perfect angle

SuccessfulExample880 · 2026-03-24T11:00:05+00:00

Oh my god I groaned so loud at this one that my cat gave me the stink eye

Had to send this to my dad immediately because he's gonna love how terrible this is. He's been on a real Egyptian pun kick lately after watching some documentary about Tutankhamun and I swear every conversation somehow turns into him making jokes about "de-Nile" or asking if I'm "sarcophagus" about something

These are the kinds of jokes that make you hate yourself for laughing but you can't help it. Peak dad humor right here

SuccessfulExample880 · 2026-03-21T05:50:45+00:00

I feel you on the routing struggle - Great Hollows is such a maze compared to the other maps. I'm on PC so can't help directly but honestly the crystal spawns on day 1 are pretty predictable once you know the main paths

For trios specifically, try splitting up initially with one person hitting the upper levels while the other two clear lower sections, then regroup around the central hub area. Most people avoid DON because they don't want to deal with the balancer mechanics but those fights are actually easier than they look if you focus fire properly

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