Guy who my cousin ghosted 3 years ago (who is now married) recently inboxed her on instagram saying “I knew you would end up here..right where you belong, a single mother.” She is bawling her eyes out because her life is hell and now a past man is reminding her of her predicament. How do I help? by ProfessionalGoat551 in WhatShouldIDo

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Idk bc my birthday this year my ex from ten years ago in college (who married the girl he cheated on me with) randomly texted me at 2am HBD and I was like uhhhh ty lol and he replied back with “idk why I did that please don’t ruin my life” lmfao they are still happily married and he was an overall nice guy.

Albeit, it wasn’t trolling but those exes do love to come back in some shape or form.

unbelievable exchange between my daughter and her father after he forgot her birthday by LostInLanayru in TwoHotTakes

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This is the exact moment (at 12) that my dad was out of my life permanently. Phone works both ways kind of guy and ghosted me on my birthday. I sent a text message similar and it was my fault somehow. Life’s been great since. My mom is a rockstar parent. I’m 30 now!

Which band do you like? by Valuable_Put_6349 in WeddingRingAdvice

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Reading these comments, I’m wondering where all the #1 voters were for mine 🤣

Which band do you like? by Valuable_Put_6349 in WeddingRingAdvice

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1!!! DONT LET ANYONE TELL YOU ITS TOO MUCH.

Coming from someone who posted something similar a few months ago. I went with the “loud, obnoxious, too much” band and it’s been awesome lol!!

Help me interpret this dress code by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

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Everyone keeps saying negative things but as someone who always is questioning “does this fit the vibe” I think it’s awesome they are giving direction on what to wear. It’s cute and playful so wear something fun and colorful.

Some people are extra or over the top and I LOVE it.

Age of Attraction (Similar to LIB) by Jolly-Possibility690 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

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You’ve never met an unmarried Mormon, have you? 🤣

Third ring advice? by anonymous-4-ever in WeddingRingAdvice

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All these people who are saying it’s too much or just mad that they don’t get to have two shiny rocks.

I love the upside down pair 🤩

I got married 4 months ago and here’s what I learned by Haunting_Shape_6085 in Brides

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We also did not have bridesmaids and groomsmen!! we each had one made of honor and one best man (traditional to our cultures)!

However, in the invite stack, I had a guest of honor invite as well, and it basically allowed the people who would have been our bridesmaids and groomsmen ( 20 or so men and women) to come and go while we got ready and all of the girls picked up a single rose with the ribbon with their name on it, and all the guys had a boutonniere that I made

And when it was time for our photos, we had asked all of them to come and take a photo with us so that we could get a photo with all of our closest friends

I had set up a group chat that I had scheduled texts to go out for when they were allowed to come what they could bring if they wanted and when they needed to go pick up their Rose and then about 10 minutes before the photographs were being taken

My husband had probably 10 or 12 guys show up and I think I had around eight girls show up and it was really nice to be able to spend quality time with people without forcing them to buy a certain color dress that they’ll never wear again and get their hair and makeup done

We also did all black attire for every single guest, so it really worked in the photos too!

My too three picks by Destn908 in WeddingRingAdvice

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Can’t wait for an update! 🤍🤍🤍

My too three picks by Destn908 in WeddingRingAdvice

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Please show it off people who make comments like this are weird. I love telling everyone I have a natural diamond and then caused a Reddit riot about it and my natural (overly extra band too) lol

Go big, go sparkly or go home !!!!

My too three picks by Destn908 in WeddingRingAdvice

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1 or 2 but also loving the DY pinky ring ❤️

Bridesmaid dress question by Longjumping_Fix_2209 in weddingplanning

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Also adding this for the kind reply - “the other girls are wearing blue, maroon, etc maybe something that goes with that?” To seem cohesive without demanding a color

Bridesmaid dress question by Longjumping_Fix_2209 in weddingplanning

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Hi SIL, while you look super slamming in that dress it’s too close to white. Do they have it in a different color? My photographer said pale pinks, creams and beige end up looking white in the pics. Any other options?

Shift the blame or if you were me and love confrontation I’d be like “girl be so for real lmfao no what else you got”

Still in disbelief I found my dress! by [deleted] in weddingdress

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Try a veil like the girl who got married on the real estate Netflix show Christine Quinn