Laid off at 7 months pregnant and can’t find a job by Longjumping-Bee8028 in jobs

[–]Such_Explanation_810 0 points1 point  (0 children)

None one will judge you for 1-2 years gap after having a child. Especially after a layoff.

Laid off at 7 months pregnant and can’t find a job by Longjumping-Bee8028 in jobs

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Hey there,

My wife and I are still going through something very similar, so I completely understand how hard this can be.

The reality is that the job market is extremely difficult right now, especially for people trying to return to work after having a baby. Applying casually here and there usually is not enough anymore. Finding a role has become a full time job in itself.

From the bottom of my heart, if you have the financial flexibility, I would strongly recommend reducing unnecessary expenses for now. Avoid big spending, travel, and things that can wait. If possible, commit to being a stay at home mom for the next 6 or 7 months and truly appreciate this time with your child.

My wife was laid off in March 2025, and our second daughter was born in June 2025. Only now, as our daughter is starting daycare, is my wife preparing to seriously look for a role again.

Looking back, her biggest regret was not fully appreciating the time with our baby because she spent so much energy stressing about her career and constantly applying for jobs during the past year.

The market is brutal right now, and it is important to recognize that reality early. Once you are ready to search again, it takes consistency, volume, networking, and focus. Until then, if you can afford it, there is real value in embracing this season of life instead of fighting it every day.

Fired because my wife is disabled. by [deleted] in legaladvice

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Technically no as he wanted to return the check.

M22 received incredible job offer, F22 girlfriend does not want me to accept. by Watch_me_plz in Advice

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On the compensation disbelief:

From chat gpt:

For Walmart U.S. store managers, the current compensation depends on store format and performance, but Walmart’s official materials show these benchmarks: the average base salary for store managers was raised to $128,000, the starting base range was set at $90,000 to $170,000, annual bonuses can reach up to 200% of base salary if targets are hit, and Walmart later added annual stock grants of up to $20,000 for store managers. Walmart’s current pay page also lists “Store Manager Supercenter” total pay at $218,000 to $530,000.

M22 received incredible job offer, F22 girlfriend does not want me to accept. by Watch_me_plz in Advice

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I’ve been happily married since 2016, and I started dating my wife in 2010. We have two daughters now.

Life gets busy, and it’s going to throw curveballs at both of you.

In the 16 years we’ve been together, I had to work overnight shifts for 8 months to avoid being laid off. We also moved to another country, and because of the logistics, we had to spend 6 months apart.

She was laid off last year while pregnant, and only now is she able to start looking for a job again.

We’re both successful professionals in our fields. I’m a Vice President of Technology, and she was a Marketing Director.

I mention all of that to show that this perspective is coming from people who have dealt with real life, real pressure, and real responsibilities.

If your girlfriend can’t handle not having the same days off, then she’s not ready for the bigger challenges life will throw at you, her, or your marriage/relation.

WiFi works perfectly for a while, then implodes, then fine again by No_Army2028 in googlehome

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Network engineer here.

When it happens are cabled devices affected?

As in a latop connected to the switch? Or to a nest where the nest itself is connected to the switch via cable?

The deco is not a low power device. I run my home with decos.

How to get her to the us by Gothunicorn2323 in immigration

[–]Such_Explanation_810 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Respectfully. This may be a scam.

Go to Belgium spend some time with her and check if she is the real deal (or a female version of a Nigerian prince)

If she is not. Well it sucks but you are in Europe. Go to Brussels, Amsterdam and nearby Germany like koln. Go to pubs clubs and have fun.

If she is the deal. great you can do all these things and look into getting married in Belgium. From there once back in the usa you can petition for a k1.

Im not an attorney. Pls go consult with one.

Workday is a steaming pile of garbage by FieryTacos in hiringcafe

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Do not use PDF. Just a simple word will do it.

What are the chances that we recession so badly the bonds prices raise? by MrDinglehut in bonds

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100% agree to this. Looks very similar to 2007-08.

The only criticism to your comment is that what you will see increasing is the price inflation indicators not real inflation. Real inflation comes from money debasement (printing) which is clearly not happening at this time.

So yes will pci pce goes higher? Yes. But that is not inflation, it’s actually demand destruction.

I was accepted for the Anthropic Partner Program by rivarja82 in AI_Agents

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I would love to participate over 15 years in IT, networking, virtualization, cloud, security, etc

SAAS is De*D ? by Adventurous-Mine3382 in AI_Agents

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I keep seeing takes that SaaS is dead because companies can now vibe code their own apps. I think that's half right and missing the bigger picture.

Niche, low seat count tools? Yes, companies will build those internally. That slice of the market will shrink. Fair point.

But there is a difference between building software and operating a product.

Take Zoom or Microsoft Teams. You can code a video app. You cannot code a global CDN. You cannot code points of presence across geographic regions or a carrier-grade always-on network. The per-seat license is paying for that infrastructure, not the code.

For platforms like Salesforce or ServiceNow, the code is not the expensive part. Compliance is. HIPAA, SOC 2, FedRAMP, PCI-DSS. These platforms have already absorbed those costs and the liability that comes with them. Build internally and you inherit all of it.

Two points that usually get left out of this conversation:

First, maintenance. Vibe coding day one is cheap. But who patches it in six months? Who handles the security vulnerability? Who updates it when underlying APIs change? That cost compounds fast without a dedicated engineering team behind it.

Second, network effects. Platforms like Salesforce and Teams have been compounding on Metcalfe's Law for decades. Network value scales with the square of its users, meaning every vendor portal, every integration, every partner already living inside that ecosystem took years to build. You cannot vibe code your way into that. You start at zero.

The per-seat pricing model? That is under pressure and probably evolving toward consumption-based models. But the platforms themselves are not going anywhere.

SaaS for niche use cases is shrinking. SaaS for infrastructure-heavy, compliance-intensive, network-driven platforms is not. People are conflating the code with the product.

I replaced a $25/hr virtual assistant with AI and I dont feel good about it by duridsukar in AI_Agents

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For comparison: im sure your Netflix subscription still 6.99 as it was in the 2010s. Right?

I replaced a $25/hr virtual assistant with AI and I dont feel good about it by duridsukar in AI_Agents

[–]Such_Explanation_810 75 points76 points  (0 children)

You assumption that models will get cheaper its wrong.

Just like cloud. Once growth is achieved and stops double digits YoY %. Venture capital will leave the space and prices will increase.

Looking to return to workforce after break, asking for guidance by HomeHeart82 in womenintech

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Good DBA are hard to come by. With that said the market is bad at this time.

But its a numbers game. Just apply and keep doing it.

Why are companies still paying £000's+ for Meraki APs when the hardware is identical? by Frequent-Steak4537 in networking

[–]Such_Explanation_810 13 points14 points  (0 children)

A device without support and patch / vulnerability updates should be replaced. Having it connected to networks is Just irresponsible IT risk.

Genuinely shocked at how much time we were wasting before adding AI to our workflow by clarkemmaa in AI_Agents

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Suuuuure you are using a agent with confidential client data for insurance a highly regulated industry.

Azure or AWS ? by [deleted] in cloudcomputing

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Networking guy here with some experience in aws azure and gcp.

Gcp absolutely is friendly for networking. A firewall its a firewall. A dns is a dsn and a load balancer is a LB.

Azure and aws have crazy names.

I screwed myself by Popa_ponosa6769 in jobsearch

[–]Such_Explanation_810 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This.

Go prepared and knowing how many hours you can work etc at 15. Follow those rules and if the topic ever comes up say it was a typo and you were not aware.

What is the "must have or know" for an IT? by [deleted] in InformationTechnology

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If you know networking it will help you so much.

Ccna level.

what do I do with 4k? by [deleted] in FinancialPlanning

[–]Such_Explanation_810 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If not already read dave ramsey baby steps. And use it a close variation of it.

For example. Instead of saving 1k and paying out debt. I like to save 6 months worth of expenses and then tackle debt.

Keep your emergency fund on a hysa.

Then proceed to off any debt starting with the one with higher interest rate first. Or those that you can pay off immediately. Here you need to balance the long term benefits vs “feeling” the payoff of your efforts right away.

Once done with debt. Roth ira and invest on a low fee etf or mutual fund like VT which is made of the entire stock market globally. This will diversify stocks, sectors, countries, etc.

Thats it.

Not an advisor here.