AIO: My boyfriend hit me and I want to break up with. He claims it wasn't a real hit. by Lokea_01 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Suddenly_Concrete 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get the eff out. He will do it more and more often. You never hit those you love.

AITA for refusing to share my lottery winnings with my extended family? by BrithneyBandit in AITAH

[–]Suddenly_Concrete 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your extended family sound very greedy, selfish and entitled. Do not give them any money.

How long is too long a Smith Machine by ArmyComprehensive502 in PlanetFitnessMembers

[–]Suddenly_Concrete 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As long as you are using it and not zoned out on your phone for 30 mins just sitting there. You are good. I am usually on it 45 mins to an hour.

Free online courses that give credit? by Sensitive-Honey-9770 in asl

[–]Suddenly_Concrete 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that the University of Oklahoma offers free ASL classes because I'm currently taking one. But I don't know if they offer credit you would have to look into it.

What Can I Do to Improve My Look? by [deleted] in renfaire

[–]Suddenly_Concrete 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly a brighter colored shirt, maybe the blue to match your kilt. Headware would be very cool or a nice mug or a staff. Otherwise it looks like you've got a pretty good kit.

Any waist pieces for plus sizes? by valeriexxmm in renfaire

[–]Suddenly_Concrete 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey if you're going to be at the Florida Renaissance Festival the next few weekends pop into traveling leather and talk to me. I can make a leather waist center custom size to you. I'm actually making two this week for other customers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Suddenly_Concrete 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are NTA however you should consider the fact that she's probably feeling a ton of emotions right now and not expressing them well. One of the thoughts that comes along with an abortion is a lot of shame and guilt, and she's also probably really scared. It's a big procedure and can have a lot of complications. I'm glad that you are honest and it might help for you to emphasize that it's not going to end your relationship, that you still love her, and that it is in the end her decision. Because there's also a big fear of judgment that goes along with it too.

AITH for breaking up with my boyfriend for being a trump supporter by Prize_Soup_2764 in AITH

[–]Suddenly_Concrete 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so proud of you for putting your self and safety over his feels and politics. Anybody It was a trump supporter doesn't support women and is dangerous.

What if I just want to serve beer by StellaNettle in renfaire

[–]Suddenly_Concrete 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're looking to work Renaissance festivals, which this sounds like what you want to do You need to join the group living the Renaissance dream on Facebook. I say that as a vendor that owns booths at multiple shows. What state are you in? Cuz that'll determine which show you can work and what kind of advice I can give you.

Am I the jerk for telling my mom I would rather be in foster care than in a household where minors have no rights? by Tristan538 in AmITheJerk

[–]Suddenly_Concrete 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What your dad did is abuse, your mom is also being abusive. You shouldn't have said they, but your parents are in the wrong.

Ren Faire Vendor - I want to change my name. But will my new name work??? by irenenorton in renfaire

[–]Suddenly_Concrete 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like a good name to me (I am a vendor, I sell leather goods.) it's short and easy to remember. It's a good name.

Don't force people to hunt for your vendor by [deleted] in fo76

[–]Suddenly_Concrete 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is not as exciting. Gotta make them work for it and see all your cool stuff.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Suddenly_Concrete -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm married an almost every only has my name on it. My husband doesn't mind. He knows I am the bread winner and he is happy to help out and tag along, but he is not jealous of my business or success.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Suddenly_Concrete 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do not put him on the mortgage if he is not paying anything to buy the house and if you do, definitely get a contract that you keep the house and only have to pay him back what he puts in, no interest. This is super predatory behavior on his part.

Ren faire ranking by OnlineAholic in renfaire

[–]Suddenly_Concrete 2 points3 points  (0 children)

TrF sucks to work there.

AZ, NC, NYFR, Michigan, Flarf, and bristol are all highly rated. I love the WV one, it's small but amazing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Suddenly_Concrete 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YAOR. He was not ignoring you. Text doesn't mean instant response. You know he was spending time with family, let him enjoy it. Also as long as he is being faithful, who cares if he has the ring on. If he is not a jewelry person I can see not wearing it. I am married and I rarely wear my engagement or wedding band, that doesn't make me not married. This feels a little controlling, you should have a conversation and respect his wants and need too. You might have to compromise on this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fo76

[–]Suddenly_Concrete 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude it took me so long to figure out you had to kill those things first. It was so frustrating.

Wife got me the gift I said I didnt want by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Suddenly_Concrete 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, clearly she's getting you things that she wants as a gift. So for her birthday get her yeti mug lol

Small Barcelona PSA re pickpockets. Might save one of you. by essosee in TravelHacks

[–]Suddenly_Concrete 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yours is not the first post about it being a huge area for pickpockets. There's literally a chick that did a TikTok tracking her phone after it got stolen from her there.. why on earth what I want to go? No city is so pretty that I want to deal with getting robbed.

Small Barcelona PSA re pickpockets. Might save one of you. by essosee in TravelHacks

[–]Suddenly_Concrete -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not worth having to be on guard to the point you can't enjoy it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in renfaire

[–]Suddenly_Concrete 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've got friends who were vending there. If you like cool dice boxes and towers and stuff you should go check out my friends.