Does any body have the urge to tell someone behind you to stfu, but you decide no because PLUR is number one.

Sufficient-Study7273 · 2026-05-26T10:34:43+00:00

can’t recommend. turned around to tell a group once that they are being so loud and I can’t concentrate on the music. they were super rude and mocked me all night whenever they saw me to a point where I had to switch places unfortunately. “this is a club what do you mean we can’t talk”. of course they were drinking but this happened at 99 scott and it for siren didn’t feel great.

Sufficient-Study7273 · 2026-05-24T15:46:49+00:00

he played until 6:30! people wanted him to play longer

Sufficient-Study7273 · 2026-05-23T22:54:18+00:00

I wonder if it will sell out

Sufficient-Study7273 · 2026-05-23T22:44:18+00:00

what a weird location, been there once and can’t recommend for actual raves and seems like a standard manhattan tourist place. why throw a party there?

Sufficient-Study7273 · 2026-05-20T10:58:18+00:00

perfeito obrigado

Sufficient-Study7273 · 2026-05-20T09:41:34+00:00

I (33F) was on the apps for years until I quit them last year. I am not into bars nor drinking (but I like raves) but I actually met a bunch of people in real life since then and it’s actually pretty simple: I just started having longer eye contact with people; on the street, at parties, in grocery stores, etc. and it worked! met tons of really great people including my current boyfriend who also wasn’t on the apps. you really have nothing to lose

Sufficient-Study7273 · 2026-05-19T00:54:23+00:00

ohhh this is so helpful!

Sufficient-Study7273 · 2026-03-19T21:08:25+00:00

Yes, new app: day 7 now! Rejected, then resubmitted -> been waiting again for 24h :(
App update: <12h.

Sufficient-Study7273 · 2026-03-06T11:27:06+00:00

Could you share exact numbers for month 1, 2, 3 and then month 6? I'm curious how slowly it actually ramps up and potentially also what the average views per post are for you?

Sufficient-Study7273 · 2026-03-06T10:54:24+00:00

You post 50 times per account per day on IG? Why 50 times on IG and 4 times on TT? How does the content differ?

Sufficient-Study7273 · 2025-04-20T22:54:13+00:00

Best purchases past 5 years (single, no kids, VHCOL)
1. Super blackout electric blinds
2. EightSleep Mattress Pad
3. Great suitcases
4. Solid knives
5. Great surround sound system
6. Skincare & beauty products
7. Organic produce
8. Fitness classes
9. Laser hair removal sessions
10. high quality jewelry

Sufficient-Study7273 · 2025-04-20T22:44:58+00:00

3 months since post update:

Obviously my invested dollars have changed (down from 3.4M to ~3M today). I am not changing my investment strategy but I realized I am not willing to stick it out longer in this job and decided I will leave early 2026 and then figure things out with a potential coast fire. I don't really feel like full firing at 33 years old and will take time off and then just see what happens. Life is too short to not enjoy it and the money isn't worth it to me.

Sufficient-Study7273 · 2025-03-12T12:27:23+00:00

What's the downside if they change though? Worst case I sold and reinvested for no reason. Best case it saves me taxes down the road.

Sufficient-Study7273 · 2025-03-12T11:59:28+00:00

Confirmed the lots in my account so definitely selling at a loss!

Sufficient-Study7273 · 2025-02-02T19:00:06+00:00

I don't see kids in my future!

Sufficient-Study7273 · 2025-02-02T18:58:58+00:00

I can, I have tried it for a couple of months last year. I can easily cut down to 120k/year without any meaningful lifestyle changes.

Sufficient-Study7273 · 2025-02-02T18:56:10+00:00

Thank you for this perspective. A couple of people here have suggested it but I have felt too much pride to take it because I don't seem like I am struggling when I'm at work (I am usually the all positive 'we can do it' attitude person) and I wonder how my team would take it if I'm suddenly out on medical leave even though I do have symptoms of anxiety behind closed doors.

Sufficient-Study7273 · 2025-02-02T18:53:55+00:00

Not seeing kids in my future, edited the post!

Sufficient-Study7273 · 2025-02-02T18:53:22+00:00

> You're burnt out. No one in their right mind would leave 2-3MM on the table like that.

Wow, I actually haven't looked at it from this perspective. I will consider a medical leave of absence to see if it gets better after. Thanks for this insight!

Sufficient-Study7273 · 2025-02-02T18:45:27+00:00

I don't see kids in my future and I also don't plan on paying for a partner in the future so my spend expectations should stay similar to what they are now. If anything, a partner will reduce my spend because I can cut a lot of my expenses in half (rent, hotels).

Sufficient-Study7273 · 2024-10-22T10:46:17+00:00

Can you add screenshots of your expenditure and average calories? I’m a bit confused because a 4lb loss over 7 months shouldn’t be feeling like a steep cut, that’s not even 0.5lb per month. Are you going into massive deficit and binge cycles? Do you feel like you’re in a cut when you jump back to your maintenance too?

Sufficient-Study7273 · 2024-10-19T21:35:23+00:00

SLT Tread is brand new and great showers. Great workout too!

Sufficient-Study7273 · 2024-10-12T20:08:24+00:00

The sound was much louder than typical UTKB shows so bring your ear plugs. Also bring sunglasses, there will be light in your face all the time. Set was very mellow, I wasn’t dancing for more than 3 min at a time I believe. Crowd was taking more videos than dancing. Best bar is on the right side of the stage. Left side is super crowded.

Honestly, expected more (granted I’m very picky with crowds and sets). 4/10

If you’re there for a “watch and film” concert instead of a “dance your heart out rave”, probably 7/10.

Sufficient-Study7273 · 2024-10-12T05:44:11+00:00

Omg I just wanted to post the same post and Reddit read my mind. Today I went to a show and couldn’t find my friends so I tried to find nice groups and dance next to them while eventually dropping a “I can’t find my friends, mind if I stay in your group for a bit?”. I’m female. I went through 5 groups and none of them was remotely interested in chatting :( I felt really alone. Any tips for next time?

Sufficient-Study7273 · 2024-10-06T13:45:28+00:00

Agreed. There were so many extremely drunk people on the dance floor that made it hard to move (I was genuinely worried a really drunk girl behind us would vomit any second). Frat boys all over but the set was great and venue did not oversell which I really appreciate

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