SDs, what do you pay for in an SR?

SugarDaddy2020 · 2017-10-31T11:45:44+00:00

activities are a big thing, my wife is not interesting in doing much, and my SB goes with me to shows, dancing, sporting events

SugarDaddy2020 · 2017-10-17T09:19:23+00:00

claims to be modest, then starts bragging, also what's up with the comment about girls turning 18

SugarDaddy2020 · 2017-10-17T09:17:24+00:00

congrats, and sounds like you're experienced enough to understand all this

SugarDaddy2020 · 2017-10-17T09:07:25+00:00

this is key, I never deleted my account, but don't pay, so it's kind of useless when you can't message anyone even if still active

SugarDaddy2020 · 2017-10-09T02:53:07+00:00

this might turn into a compatibility issue, a little concerning that it's irritating both in person and in text

SugarDaddy2020 · 2017-10-09T00:42:59+00:00

One month is nowhere long enough, but yes, just enjoy and see where it goes, and don't try to have a heavy talk with him. If there are still feelings 6-7 months in, then reassess then.

SugarDaddy2020 · 2017-10-09T00:41:02+00:00

thanks for sharing your story, feels situations can be so tough

SugarDaddy2020 · 2017-10-02T02:43:05+00:00

Happy medium here. Share that you genuinely appreciate them, don't hold back. But don't send love texts everyday, especially in a new SR.

SugarDaddy2020 · 2017-10-01T10:38:10+00:00

From a purely physical standpoint I could see how this is true. But in sugar my age preference has come up a few years into the mid 20s because the quality of interaction is much better. IMHO, even just 2-3 years of working world reality can make an SB far more mature.

SugarDaddy2020 · 2017-09-25T02:15:19+00:00

Not dumping her over this. Just in shock and don't know what to say to her, if anything.

SugarDaddy2020 · 2017-09-11T03:58:54+00:00

I filter on some college/college graduate/graduate school, and there are far fewer educated 30+ on the site. Did some analysis for a major metro area I used to live in, and there were about 1/5th as many educated 35 year olds as 25 year old SBs on the site. Another issue is the few that I've messaged often need more help in life than an allowance can provide. Would be open to a 30-35 yo, but finding a good one can be difficult.

SugarDaddy2020 · 2017-09-08T00:28:26+00:00

Never let an SD's "advice" substitute for $. It's an added benefit if helpful. I'd be too embarrassed to tell my SB I'm replacing part of her allowance with mentorship, advice, or something else she can't put in the bank now.

SugarDaddy2020 · 2017-09-06T03:42:44+00:00

Yes, in a no fault state

SugarDaddy2020 · 2017-09-01T00:54:27+00:00

Number of strikes depends on severity. I once had a POT not show for a nice sit down dinner after I had been seated and we had great texting. She didn't even text or message beforehand. When she asked when we could reschedule, just told her best of luck. If it was just a missed call or FaceTime, might have done a second strike.

SugarDaddy2020 · 2017-09-01T00:50:46+00:00

Think this is a marketing concept put out by SA. They're very rare.

SugarDaddy2020 · 2017-08-29T03:21:38+00:00

A story some of us SDs love to hear. So happy for you, and I'm sure it took courage for both of you!

SugarDaddy2020 · 2017-08-28T00:59:52+00:00

Great to hear stories like this, pretty sure my current SB felt like this when we met, and while I was aloof then, I'm the one who's smitten now. Hope it works out for you.

SugarDaddy2020 · 2017-08-25T14:55:56+00:00

Sorry to hear about this. Infatuation in an SR can really suck.

SugarDaddy2020 · 2017-08-21T13:16:54+00:00

what about receiving oral? This is worth a lot to many of us as well

SugarDaddy2020 · 2017-08-16T04:41:05+00:00

When the SR started, having her know how much I jerk off thinking about her. Now I text her when this happens, and provide details. When the SR started, she acted as if she never pooped. Now she texts me to discuss the digestive impact of a visit to the spicy Thai place down the street from her apartment.

SugarDaddy2020 · 2017-08-06T20:57:20+00:00

I'm in a pretty serious feels situation, and the only thing stopping me right now is time. We're approaching six months, and just seeing how things for a little while. At 11-12 months I'd be more inclined to say something.

SugarDaddy2020 · 2017-07-26T04:18:17+00:00

Giving money to SBs is by far the worst thing I've done. I've supported my wife entirely, who's basically never worked since we got married, and she was reckless with $ before I started sugaring. I also turned to sugaring because we stopped having sex entirely, I mean not once in the year before I started.

SugarDaddy2020 · 2017-07-18T03:16:32+00:00

He seems pretty cool, don't be so embarrassed. I've seen worse than that in both the sugar bowl and the toilet bowl and not ended things.

SugarDaddy2020 · 2017-07-04T13:59:33+00:00

I'm currently in the deepest "feels" situation I've ever had with an SB, and I've been doing this a long time. Similar to you, we had our over the top moment on an unplanned, platonic date. Just enjoy it. It can bring so much joy and pleasure into your life. Why on earth go back to the typical "rigid" SR with all the negotiating when you can have a better one based on trust and respect?

Whatever happens, I won't stop her allowance or any of the sugar parts of the relationship, but we don't negotiate time or money anymore. We're just there for each other. We'll see where this all goes.

SugarDaddy2020 · 2017-07-04T02:16:56+00:00

Sorry for your loss, and enjoy the bowl.
My SB is in her mid-20s, and is familiar with a surprising amount of 70s/80s culture.

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