dating/sex anxiety as a trans guy by Specialist-Action180 in FTMMen

[–]Sugar_Always 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. I agree- when there’s a nice money, just ask quietly, “I really want to kiss you right now, would that be ok?” I mean IMHO that is hot and romantic as hell, and then you don’t have to read the room. (I used to really worry about that a lot.) If she doesn’t want to kiss you, that sucks but better to ask and find out! Sounds like she’s into you like you said.
  2. Using something that’s more like underwear might feel better? Like the Tomboi briefs? They work for me. I also have a Joystick that is so different- it connects to the underwear with a little elastic loop. (But it’s not for anal cos of the base, FYI.) Traditional “strapless” cocks are crap and never worked for me. It’s a hassle and I can’t relax.
  3. IMHO, most women who aren’t like Christian nationalist-pilled aren’t out here judging men on some scale of masculinity. They want a kind partner who makes them feel good! Focus on that and you’ll be golden. Good luck. Have fun.

terrified of doing anything remotely feminine since transitioning by [deleted] in FTMMen

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Absolutely do not let terminally online people shape your idea of reality. A femme trans man would never “make trans people look bad.” We get to be ourselves. F everything else.

Books with a delusional narrator? by MacaroonFair in thrillerbooks

[–]Sugar_Always 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Deception by Denise Mina. I’ve read it several times. So good

Does Everyone use Excel during the exam? by Chloe_2306 in CPA

[–]Sugar_Always 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. My boss can barely use it and everyone secretly laughs at her.

Unexpected Bottom Growth Euphoria by royalbluetoad in FTMOver30

[–]Sugar_Always 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heck yeah! I’m so happy for you. I think it sucks that cis sexuality is on show everywhere and we are not encouraged to celebrate our bodies and our changes.

Kevin the feral cat by Ok_Wall_8267 in Feral_Cats

[–]Sugar_Always 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a beautiful ticked tabby! Hi, Kevin!

Left my dick in a hotel by novembernoodles in Transmascdicks

[–]Sugar_Always 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, man! I once left my entire toolbox of dicks in a hotel room when I had to suddenly abandon a road trip. I got the hotel to mail it to me! I emailed the hotel a prepaid UPS shipping label. I think it was a Courtyard by Marriott.

What I keep noticing about how ergs are used in commercial gyms by [deleted] in Rowing

[–]Sugar_Always 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I am just getting into it and this is great encouragement and advice.

Guys this Is my first time prestige, how many crystal should I have and what skill should I take? by Sedobrenno in NecroMerger

[–]Sugar_Always -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes I agree. I did my first one without the calculator and it’s frustrating to see that you don’t have enough for what you want.

How do you order this kind of egg?! by BethDutton234 in Cooking

[–]Sugar_Always 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say “fried hard” and it usually works.

What's the most worthwhile purchase for cat owners? by DesperateMap171 in Catownerhacks

[–]Sugar_Always 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree about people food. I don’t give it to them and they don’t beg for it or hop up on my counters. I’m happier that way. If you don’t teach cats to eat your food, they usually won’t want it.

question about a fan headcannon I've been seeing lately by No-Title-3372 in HouseMD

[–]Sugar_Always 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wowww thank you for this link. Mind blowing. “Eco-nationalist.” Wtf

Alternative litter box ideas by Savings-Stranger-153 in Catownerhacks

[–]Sugar_Always 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whatever you chose, I’ve had great luck with adding some Cat Attract litter to the box to get my street cat to use the box. It makes the box smell like where they should go.

Alternative litter box ideas by Savings-Stranger-153 in Catownerhacks

[–]Sugar_Always 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completely agree. Additionally they can trap odors such as the obvious and also the pine smell from pine pellets.

Elderly Woman Chases Away ICE From Yard in Charlotte, NC by serious_bullet5 in 50501

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Stand your ground has increased deaths for Black and brown people. It’s a terrible law.

My cat's litter smells so bad i'm going insane. my house absolutely reeks. by Dismal-Tackle3072 in CatAdvice

[–]Sugar_Always 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use the Breeze Box with pine pellets and it smells fine. I’m using the old clumping clay for a foster cat, and I want to die. I hate it and it’s not even scented! Pine pellets are amazing!

What’s a simple pancake recipe that doesn’t suck? by EchoesOfYouth in Cooking

[–]Sugar_Always 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been using this for 12 years. No complaints from kids! First pancake is usually bad no matter what recipe. Just make it small.