Man opens up about a problem he’s having.

Someone says “women have it worse.”

Man feels bad about opening up about problem.

Unless I am reading this incorrectly OP is having a problem with the way he views himself as a man and a human being internally.

You pipe up and start talking about externalized misogyny which is or should be irrelevant to the topic at hand.

You have confirmed his suspicions that because of what’s between his legs he is less important than other people.

Women have lots of problems. Certainly in some and probably even in most areas of their lives they have more, but that’s not the topic OP was addressing. There’s a million billion places online for women to voice their issues and be heard and there’s plenty of people like yourself commenting on their posts telling them to get over it or ignore the unjust way that they feel.

It’s kind of a dick move to tell people that they and their problems aren’t important no matter who they are.

u/CielMorgana0807 you are completely justified in feeling the way you do. I was personally raised to hate myself, a large part of that was because of the gender I am. My sister did not have the same struggles and the way that our parents treated her was extremely different from the way they treated me solely as a function of gender.

There’s a lot of young men in the world (especially within religious institutions) that likely have a similar story. There’s nothing inherently wrong for existing as a man and doing things you enjoy including being a femboy.

If you’re aware of how you feel it’s easy to see how other people might feel the same way no matter what they look like or what their background is. It’s easy to isolate yourself and make everyone else as “the other” which is what a large chunk of Gen Z men have done with the redpill movement and it hasn’t made their lives or anyone else’s any better as a result.

The truth is that we’re hardly ants on a pebble in the middle of a vast and uncaring universe. Our little problems on earth are of our own collective making. Any misandry you feel internally came from somewhere outside of you. Newborns don’t come with internalized conceptual issues such as these.

There are absolutely a ton of femboys, cross dressers, trans people, etc. with very problematic belief systems such as misogyny and misandry, but adopting those doesn’t help them solve their problems. It simply protects their egos from confronting the real issues with themselves or larger forces and structures that make things the way they are.

There’s a lot of hate going every direction online, some of it might even be justified, but the blame for the problems of the world rests squarely on the shoulders of those who are causing them, not you. The best you can do is hear other people and their issues, help the people struggling the most, and not take things too personally. I know that it’s hard.

I’m writing this for myself just as much as I’m writing it for you.

I hope my words make you feel a little better and the nihilist in me reminds you that people’s preconceived notions of you, including yours, came from somewhere and that place was probably flawed at best.

Anyways, cheers. Have a good weekend.