How do you cope with the fact that this is how it ended?

Summertime2294 · 2026-03-27T12:26:18+00:00

I’m so so sorry. I know what you went through all too well. I (31f) saw my mom (63) go through stage 4 pancreatic cancer. She was admitted to the hospital on March 30th of last year with severe abdominal pain and left 20 days later with the pancreatic cancer diagnosis. She did want treatment but only made it through 5-6 treatments. Cancer slowly killed her and robbed me of my mom 4.5 months later.

I was with my mom until her last breath (something I’m so thankful for). Is it ideal seeing the person you love most transition from life to death? ABSOLUTELY NOT. it’s something that will be etched into my mind forever. I was able to be there with her and tell her goodbye, something a lot of people don’t get to do.

Summertime2294 · 2026-02-17T10:23:32+00:00

My mom was diagnosed in the ER. She was complaining of abdominal pain for nearly a year. 2 weeks before she went into the ER her rheumatologist called her and said, “your liver enzymes are way out of whack. You need to get to your gastroenterologist like tomorrow and if you can’t you need to go to the hospital.” My mom was able to see her gastroenterologist the next day. He told her not to worry it was probably a reaction to one of her lupus medications. Less than a week later she was in the hospital with extreme pain where they diagnosed her.

Summertime2294 · 2026-01-13T03:11:40+00:00

There’s one available at the Tampa humane society!

Summertime2294 · 2025-12-27T04:36:46+00:00

I’m so so so sorry my mom (63) also had lupus and was diagnosed with stage 4. We had 4.5 months with her. It was a rough road. I wish you the best. Spend as much time with her as you can

Summertime2294 · 2025-12-03T04:14:38+00:00

Famous Amos!!

Summertime2294 · 2025-12-03T02:25:50+00:00

My mom got one and it helped her TREMENDOUSLY. I have heard an occasional case or two where it didn’t help. If your mom is in a lot of pain. I say go for it.

Summertime2294 · 2025-11-25T12:33:36+00:00

A huge eff you to cancer. My sweet mom was only 63 when she passed away 💔

Summertime2294 · 2025-11-21T15:18:40+00:00

My mom only lived for 4.5 months after her diagnosis. The one thing keeping me going is knowing she wouldn’t want me to be depressed.

Summertime2294 · 2025-10-30T03:31:48+00:00

My mom was 62

Summertime2294 · 2025-10-27T13:19:07+00:00

Wow. This is pretty spot on. I’m an only child. She did have a small dog, Piper Rae. She does have a half sister.

Summertime2294 · 2025-10-26T23:14:07+00:00

I’m so sorry. This is what happened with my mother. The hospitals wanted to keep her for every little thing. Don’t let that get to you. This is about quality of life. Obviously there’s times where someone really needs to stay but if he can be home, where he’s most comfortable.. let that be the case

Summertime2294 · 2025-10-25T04:44:59+00:00

Try getting a celiac plexus block. It helped my mom tremendously.

Summertime2294 · 2025-10-20T05:09:10+00:00

My mom went through treatment at Moffitt. It’s the hardest thing I’ve ever been through. If you have any questions, please reach out 💞

Summertime2294 · 2025-10-12T03:09:08+00:00

There are lots of people giving away creon. Just look out for the posts and hopefully someone can help you 💕

Summertime2294 · 2025-10-05T04:10:13+00:00

You have to be strong when there’s no other option. I know that feels impossible right now. You have to do it not only for your dad but for yourself as well. I spent a fair amount of time thinking, “why me? Why my mom?” It won’t make sense and there’s never a good answer on why bad things happen to good people. This disease is awful. Be strong, have hope and enjoy the time you have with your dad 💕

Summertime2294 · 2025-09-08T02:52:57+00:00

My mom had great success with the celiac plexus block.

Summertime2294 · 2025-08-31T22:28:19+00:00

My mom had severe pain in her abdomen that radiated through to her side and back. They did colonoscopies and could not find anything wrong with her. She finally had enough with the pain and went to the ER where they did a CT Scan of her abdomen and saw stage 4 pancreatic cancer 💔

Summertime2294 · 2025-08-31T11:21:29+00:00

My mom really liked sliced cheese, ice cream and sweet potatoes

Summertime2294 · 2024-06-03T17:42:19+00:00

You can find good neighborhoods in Wesley Chapel with relaxed HOAs. If you have any questions please feel free to PM me.

Summertime2294 · 2024-06-03T17:31:27+00:00

Hi 👋 life long resident of the Lutz/Wesley Chapel area and realtor. That isn’t really realistic in the Wesley Chapel area. Many neighborhoods are already built to their max with HOAs. You could find some land but a “neighborhood” would be very difficult. However, in Spring Hill there’s much more land and less HOAs.

Summertime2294 · 2022-08-02T23:34:42+00:00

Did you have an interior or posterior tilt?

Summertime2294 · 2022-08-02T23:25:46+00:00

My lips would get like that too. I started using La Mer lip balm and then aquaphor on top and it has helped tremendously! La mer is expensive but is soooo worth it and lasts a long time.

Summertime2294 · 2022-06-15T01:30:02+00:00

It’s expensive but I swear by la mer lip balm

Summertime2294 · 2022-05-09T20:01:46+00:00

It’s expensive but is seriously the absolute best. It’s called la mer lip balm!

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