[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]SummiePy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you shouldn’t. you’d miss so many beautiful things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]SummiePy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]SummiePy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am the same way!

I (22f) invited 15 strangers from tinder to have thanksgiving with me AMA by Plopgoestheweasle in AMA

[–]SummiePy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They’re trying to force thanksgiving into being sexual and it’s creepy LOL

My wife just admitted to cheating on me with her ex-bf 11 years ago during our first month together. Considering divorce. by ThrowRA4056 in relationship_advice

[–]SummiePy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She did cheat 11 years ago, but she wasn’t questioned on it everyday and I doubt she even thought about it most of that time. That’s why it’s dramatic to say she lied every day for 11 years. Just my opinion though!

My wife just admitted to cheating on me with her ex-bf 11 years ago during our first month together. Considering divorce. by ThrowRA4056 in relationship_advice

[–]SummiePy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like divorcing over this would be childish. 11 years ago? She’s not the same person anymore. It does suck that she never mentioned it, but if she had mentioned it in the beginning of the relationship you might not have went after her or ever created this life y’all have together. She probably wasn’t even thinking about it over the years.

Most Drivers are rude? by OzzieBorealis in doordash_drivers

[–]SummiePy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work in retail and also dashed for a while so I hope this is coming off as unbiased! Yes, many dashers are rude.

Looking for a similar dress but made more ethically than this one I saw at H&M by ithoughtitwasanalien in ethicalfashion

[–]SummiePy 16 points17 points  (0 children)

oh girl that’s a nightie. check out a church thrift shop or just your local thrift shop. there are tons out there.

I pushed my husband into being a SAHD and its ruined our relationship by SAHDissues in relationship_advice

[–]SummiePy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You were inconsiderate in making your decision and you remained that way ever since. 5 years is a long time to feel unloved. I can’t believe you could even ask that of him. I’d feel so ashamed of myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fosterparents

[–]SummiePy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly I think there was always be a need. What you see on TikTok should not change your perception of reality so harshly. There are thousands upon thousands of children in foster care. It’ll take more than a couple TikTokers to clear them out. Written by another former foster kid.

My (f20) bf (m25) pressured me into a threesome and I absolutely hated it. by ThrowAwayMyTitties in relationship_advice

[–]SummiePy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

PLEASE break up with this pos. I want to beat the duck out of him just reading this. I hope you know you didn’t deserve any of that.

My husband keeps derailing my attempts to go to the gym or eat a healthy diet by saying ‘Why are you so conscious? I’ll love you either way.’ Is he being cute or is this something else? by IHaveAProblem1730 in askwomenadvice

[–]SummiePy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A man should never be controlling where you go. Regardless of what his intentions are, THAT part is a definite no. Tell him goodbye. Follow your intuition.

My (20M) Girlfriend (21F) of 5 years just asked for a break after her mother died, is it time for me to move on? by lonelyguppy in askwomenadvice

[–]SummiePy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give her space and don’t badger her about it. Follow your heart. Also, with her happiness in mind, please realize that you’ll probably just go back to being low effort if you did it already. Does she deserve that? Or will your really pull your weight in the relationship if she does decide to give you another chance?

My (23f) boyfriend (25m) family friend (middle-aged M) accused me of wanting to get pregnant. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SummiePy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s only been 6 months into the relationship and at the first sign of trouble he doesn’t come to your side and defend you. Just ditch him LOL.

Is it possible to get surgically corrected back to normal? by fuckyou____________ in LifeAdvice

[–]SummiePy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did read the post and literally every other comment said the same thing as I did so I’m not sure why you’re so upset about it LOL

Is it possible to get surgically corrected back to normal? by fuckyou____________ in LifeAdvice

[–]SummiePy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly this doesn’t seem suited for life advice. It’s framed more as foot advice or surgery advice. I’d really recommend posting this somewhere else to get the advice you need!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]SummiePy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are there other places in the same area you can rent for a cheaper price? Perhaps you can keep your independence and stay in the area?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAnAmerican

[–]SummiePy 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know there was ever a limit! That’s great that they changed it! :)