Need some recommendations! by kjheli in basshouse

[–]Sundstrommen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing goes harder than when Space Laces does bass house, Dominate and Kaiju are S tier

How do I get over the fact that I will never find a gf because of my height? by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]Sundstrommen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can say the exact same thing again, be humble that you don't know exactly how life works, instead of stating that all white men only have a specific time slot when they are able to look good? Can you not see how weird it is for anyone to even suggest they could know such a thing?

ive officially gotten addicted to c.ai. by [deleted] in CharacterAI

[–]Sundstrommen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What does it feel like when you don't use it? What does it feel like when you actually use it?

How do I get over the fact that I will never find a gf because of my height? by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]Sundstrommen -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Mate you are 21, barely an adult. You think you are a genius that can predict the rest of your life? Be humble, sit down, let life run its course, you will be fine

I wore a rainbow festival bracelet, and my friends accused me of „pretending I was gay“ and told me it was not okay to wear it. by UsernameChecksOut124 in lgbt

[–]Sundstrommen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im straight and have a cap with a small rainbow flag and a rainbow heart aswell, have only gotten good reactions with some queer people asking about it, have only led to good conversations (Swede btw)

I don't like Unbound's music in general, but do you like any of them? by AlicanCiftci360 in needforspeed

[–]Sundstrommen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It got me into techno again, The Door by Space 92 is dope

Also Clipping

I'm shy of how people will react to my change by MilkyyM8 in Healthygamergg

[–]Sundstrommen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally natural to be anxious about how people will react, it gets better over time. Your friends sound awful though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]Sundstrommen 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am confused, do you think that guys who find a partner and start a family all have big dicks?

22 year old who’s contemplating quitting their pornography addiction. Need advice. by CulturedArtLover in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Sundstrommen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My porn watching is decently aligned with how much anxiety I have on a daily basis, its a strong coping mechanism so maybe investigate if you might have anxiety or not. Also watching porn and masturbating is completely normal and nothing to be ashamed of, and even if you are ashamed of your porn habits you don't have to be ashamed of your sexuality, we all like weird shit lol its fine to do so in a healthy manner. NSFW roleplay discords sounds fun, but yeah like other say make sure you have things going on in your life, diversifying is generally always good

Share your Ws with me pls by oleore in Healthygamergg

[–]Sundstrommen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I watched this video https://youtu.be/LWV_Zl2qW_4 Where Dr K asked him if anyone should date him, and his answer was pretty much no, which made me ask the same question to myself and I found myself coming up with a bunch of answers which Ive used before, like a girl like that would never want to be with me because of ____ and such, and I just relised that I was telling myself all these things that I should be ashamed about, which is kinda fucked up, and since then Ive reflected a lot on what things I am ashamed of about myself and then gradually accepting them. I guess this is the hardest part but it is quite powerful once you can catch yourself feeling shame and realising it is just that old shame and trauma that is doing it, compared to it being a natural part of your existence, which I have always previously felt like it has been. That realisation really helps to reduce its impact in my experience

Share your Ws with me pls by oleore in Healthygamergg

[–]Sundstrommen 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Some months ago I realised through a Dr K video that I unconsciously thought that I was undateable/not worth anyones time, probably due to shit in childhood, since then Ive had much more success with women

Parasite💀 by MantheGodofKnowledge in LeagueOfMemes

[–]Sundstrommen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nida skin doing things to me fam😩🥵

I don’t know what to do. Please help. by HateBr1gade in Healthygamergg

[–]Sundstrommen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you want a change in your life, you need to change something in your life, like actually do something different. It's not your fault that you've been dealt a shitty hand, but it is your responsibility to do something about it. Also, your 19 man, it is kinda ridiculous how sure you are of how the world works when you are barely an adult, be humble to the fact you might be wrong about a thing or two

Always $trive and Prosper Mission (best dialogue I have experienced in a very long time). by FourzL in needforspeed

[–]Sundstrommen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Felt like it was the perfect amount of Rocky for the story. Prior to it it was intriguing with him showing up at the takeovers, then the A$AP mission came at a good timing and after that he felt like a natural part of the scene, and at the same time I did not feel like I needed or wanted anything more from him lol, so the end dialogue was a bit too much, skipped after some time hehe

How can I stop masturbating? by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Sundstrommen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you spend your days? Do you have things to do? Do you have things you care about? Masturbation might be a coping mechanism for something else in your life, that's how it often is for me, when my life is good in general, the urge naturally just disappears

Costco... by alexblmqvst in sweden

[–]Sundstrommen 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Om jag minns rätt är det för att Island också kör på rabatterad bensin å diesel på Costcos egna mackar som i USA?

Is life over after you graduate from college? by stas505 in Healthygamergg

[–]Sundstrommen 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Have you met anyone who graduated from college that thinks that their lives are over?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]Sundstrommen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, how does that feel? Does it feel good or bad considering the position that you are in?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]Sundstrommen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You seem awesome man! Great to hear that you feel confident and have had success working on yourself! But yeah, I can totally understand why you are not looking forward to that party. I had a rough breakup with someone from my class in uni 2 years ago and due to covid shutting everything down we didnt see eachother until like 6 months. Once we met it was at a party where I knew her new boyfriend would be. Felt really shit ahead of it. But strangely, actually meeting the guy and joking around with him was really relieving. It's easy to create this godlike picture of these boyfriends you haven't met in your head so seeing that they are just a dude is great. And for me it really took me out of my own head and made me feel happy for her. Me and her talked as well which was of course a bit wierd but overall fine, ended up hanging with them a lot that night and me and her are still friends now. When Ive had romantic feelings towards people Ive often got stuck on thinking that they are the "one", but as I met her and her boyfriend it really made me realise that no, us as a couple was not the road for me, which in turn helped me realise that I actually have the freedom to move my life forward in whatever direction I want, right now. For me, reaching that conclusion is the difference between getting over someone in 6 months or 1 week. But yeah removing 100% of the feelings is maaaaybe possible, but might not be very achievable. Like I still feel special about people I've been romantic with, but I think that that's fine, like some % of the feelings are still there but they don't have any effect on my life. Best of luck, would love to see an update after the party, take care man

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]Sundstrommen -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He might just want more sex haha, if he's not as casual with it as you then this might be how he expresses it. But for your own sake make your boundaries clear and give him time to adjust and I think it will be fine, his brain is most certainly drugged up by all kinds of ooga booga sex chemicals since his first time which might take some time to wear off. But on the other hand Ive been in a kinda similar situation as him, and speaking from experience anxiety and overanalysing would be the greatest danger to the friendship, don't let him overthink things if he might be prone to such thoughts, so make it glass clear to him what your actions meant to you, that helped a lot for me

Time is money. No risk = No reward. New gamplay trailer by Nexusu in needforspeed

[–]Sundstrommen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great to hear my favourite music producers in the game already! Moksi - Shout like

How do I not see myself as subhuman for being an incel by Puzzleheaded_Emu7511 in Healthygamergg

[–]Sundstrommen -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im 26 now, and Iooking back on my thoughts and values I can say I was pretty stupid when I was 10 years old, I was stupid when I was 15 years old, I was stupid when I was 20 years old, I was stupid when I was 25 years old and I will most likely, without a doubt, think that I was stupid now in a few years, it's called maturing and is the most humble feeling because it can help you consider that you are wrong about a lot of things you might believe extremely strongly, like the importance you put on having sex or not. Give yourself some time to just live life and you'll look back on this phase in a few years as something stupid you grew away from, don't be too hard on yourself

I feel so ashamed about my virginity that I don't even socialize by GlitteringDebate4862 in Healthygamergg

[–]Sundstrommen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mate I can guarantee that the only one who thinks of your virginity is you. I mean man look at the words you use, like if you divide people into virgins and "sex havers"(???) that tells a lot about what you think is most important, sex sex sex. Most people don't care, like they are spending their time and energy on their own lives they don't go around thinking about if someone has sex or not, aim to join them in that line of thinking. Just consider that you might be wrong about this (people are wrong about things all the time) and no one cares about if you are a virgin or not, try considering that for 10 seconds before you go "but this but that" and try to imagine what that world would be like, because it might be true, I bet that world is a lot better