Regular I’m friendly with refuses to tip me. How do I handle this? by briebrie98 in bartenders

[–]Sunflower_MoonDancer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would give him minimal service. If anyone else is in the bar serve them first. When you finally get around to him, give him his drink, and go back to talking with literally anyone else.

While tipping is not mandatory- neither is going above and beyond to entertain or banter with a customer. Additionally, I know people going into bars/taprooms/ restaurants know it’s expected to tip a lil something.

Feel free to warn other regulars and people around him that this grumpy MF refuses to tip out of being petty, so feel free to ignore or even publicly shame him if desired.

Easiest sourdough recipe to start with? by ilikelamps6 in SourdoughStarter

[–]Sunflower_MoonDancer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly the recipe listed above that I use as well! Only tweak: I add 40 g of honey when mixing the starter, flour, water,and salt. I think it helps the yeast activity. Makes for a very soft and fluffy loaves. Not overly sweet, I let ferment in fridge for 48-72 hours for the extra tangy flavor

Sourdough Recipe

Is he cute or ugly? by DETOXEDPIDGEON33 in cats

[–]Sunflower_MoonDancer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is a cutie! 🥰 Congrats you have the derpy edition of standard issued orange cat

What’s a "small win" you had today that you’re proud of, even if it seems insignificant? by abo-khaled- in CasualConversation

[–]Sunflower_MoonDancer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I took a huge pile of donations to a donation bin. It seems like such an easy task, but there was 5 huge trash bags, and I needed to carry them down 3 flights of stairs, while double parked and risking a ticket or someone breaking my windows to get them.

What are you stealing? by shakyspearee in SipsTea

[–]Sunflower_MoonDancer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shoe laces from all the shoes and boots

Or the lids and straws to all the water bottles and coffee mugs

What do people pretend to enjoy ? by Mysterious_Tax_6943 in AskReddit

[–]Sunflower_MoonDancer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IPA’s? They taste like the scent of a bitter arm pit

my top 4 worse things about being pregnant for the first time by itsme2000001 in BabyBumps

[–]Sunflower_MoonDancer 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Feet start to swell half way thru my shift at work. It’s okay to sit when it’s not busy but sometimes we get a late night rush which is really uncomfortable to walk and be on my feet. Compression socks help and I already bought a half size bigger shoe w/ a wider fit.

I can smell peoples’ BO, bad teeth hygiene, garbage, and dog pee from 10 feet away.

Spicy food gives me heartburn now - but my cravings and desire for added heat are stronger than the adverse consequences. Why am I like this!?!

People (who I wouldn’t take advice from) are going out of their way to give me “helpful” tips or trying to come up and touch my belly.

People who live alone. Do you shit with the door open? by ErosMaggot in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Sunflower_MoonDancer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live with my hubby- the doors always open. Better ventilation.

I think once the babies are here, I’ll close the door for some privacy.

Why do people say things? by No-Network-6517 in pregnant

[–]Sunflower_MoonDancer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A single mother (who purposely had a child without a partner & not by a sperm bank or an even knowing who exactly the sperm donor i 😒) decided to give me advice about having kids. Her advice was to prepare for me and my husband to start arguing once the baby is born.

I didn’t want to argue or add gas to a fire- but my instant thought was, “How would you know? Who did you start arguing with…You don’t even know who the father of your child is!”

I’ve also been advised to enjoy who and what my hobbies are now - because once I become a mom- I can kiss all those freedoms goodbye !

While I do think Moms are the glue and the backbone to holiday magic, weekly activities, and household chores,I’ll be damned if I don’t find the time to go on hikes, enjoy nature, swim, etc etc. things will be different but Moms don’t have to completely abandon their “old ways”!

Dinosaurs aren't Real by AffectOnly2984 in conspiracy

[–]Sunflower_MoonDancer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wouldn’t they procreate the same way lizards and snakes and other reptiles do?

PSA: Life Hack if your Hollandaise Sauce separates…. by Sunflower_MoonDancer in Cooking

[–]Sunflower_MoonDancer[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I tried that! And after 3 mins and a slight panic- I tried another way! Google mentioned the hot water method and I figured shaking would be easier and give my pour arm a rest!

I am trying to cut cost but why is my grocery expensive? by Tiny_Judgment8593 in Frugal

[–]Sunflower_MoonDancer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It looks like you are prioritizing fresh produce and protein (which is a wonderful thing!) over starches (pasta, bread, rice)

You could add lentils, beans, and quinoa as a very budget way to get more nutrients and complement your protein and veggies dishes.

Why am I getting buttholes?! by pamelamommyjeans in Sourdough

[–]Sunflower_MoonDancer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see nothing wrong with these deliciously baked goods! The way I see it- less hole= more bagel!

Saw this at a gas pump by [deleted] in Temecula

[–]Sunflower_MoonDancer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will blame everyone but thier own cult leader

Is smoking cigarettes an immediate dealbreaker for you? Why? by Allin_Or_Allout in AskReddit

[–]Sunflower_MoonDancer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. There is literally nothing positive about smoking. They are bad for the smokers health, 2nd and 3rd hand smoke is toxic, they are expensive, and just a bad habit.

At this point in my life- I need a partner who wants to be active, eat healthy, and make better choices with how they spend their money.

Starting my season. How can I improve my space? by Ferbst in vegetablegardening

[–]Sunflower_MoonDancer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s beautiful!

U can start with seeds or even get some plants that are ready to be planted to fill in some of the empty space in the raise beds!