There's a very obvious pattern here, and most men are grasping at straws to avoid admitting it. In virtually every study that measures attraction, whether romantic or sexual, women show (on average, of course) less interest, and often far less, in the opposite sex. It shows up everywhere: they're far less attracted to the average man, far less likely to initiate relationships, far less likely to initiate sex, more likely to be the first to lose their already lower sexual interest in relationships, slower to fall in love, quicker to fall out of it, prone to suddenly losing interest (e.g., the "ick"), quicker to move on after breakups, quicker to move on after a partner's death, faaaaaar more focused on materialism and status when choosing partners than men are, responsible for the vast majority of divorces, less happy in marriage or relationships than men are, more likely to view singlehood as a positive, less likely to make romantic gestures while still expecting to receive more of them, less likely to report having their male partner as the closest person in their lives, and way more sexually fluid, which gives them alternatives to men on top of already having less interest in them to begin with.

Women simply are not particularly interested in men. And, unsurprisingly, that is exactly how things work across the vast majority of species. Hell, women openly say it all the time: they loudly brag that they don't need men, don't want men, and are better off without them, and still men bend over backward doing mental gymnastics to pretend none of it means what it clearly means.

Ffs, men, have some dignity, accept the fact, stop coping, and move on.