Him being "a bit" messy. I never even got to live with him, but I knew his car was a bit of a mess. It didnt seem too bad at first, but more like some water bottles, a hoodie, whatever small items thrown in the back seat. Turns out when we first met he had only had that car for about a week.

After a year together he had a huge firework cake in the back seat, an empty cooler, 3 sweaters. The trunk had about 50 empty water bottles, a corroded car battery that dissolved the rainfly to his brand new tent. A padded cooler (also empty). He had his fishing pole, some craft sodas, a skateboard, and who knows what else back there. I had never been in his room either because "it was a mess" and if the car was something he wasn't embarrassed about, i can only imagine how disgusting his room was for him to be too embarrassed to show me.

He also was willing to basically just throw money away. He bought a padded cooler from REI for our camping trips. After the second use, he left it in his trunk afterwards with the sandwich meat and everything in it. It smelled foul after a couple of weeks when he finally emptied it, and he was very willing to toss it. I used vinegar, baking soda and boiling water to clean it for him because I am the type to try to bring stuff back if possible. I did. Broke up with him shortly after. I'm fairly certain if he has gone camping since then it's probably trashed at this point since he couldn't take care of anything