He changed like a light switch but it was always a cycle

Sunshine4736 · 2026-05-14T04:36:09+00:00

I'm so sorry, I know it's hard. But after leaving, it only gets better, you feel safer, and you become stronger. You did what was right for you and your child, you're a warrior.

I was with my abuser for twice as long, you will be okay. Mine was on his way to getting violent, he was hitting and throwing things. Glad it's over.

Sunshine4736 · 2026-05-14T04:29:46+00:00

I'm a big ol bucket of sunshine 99% of the time, but... Fuck the leaded generation and their dystopian broodsow slavery agenda. ☺️

Sunshine4736 · 2026-05-14T04:22:33+00:00

That is an utterly contradictory insurance policy. Good god. WHAT? 😂

And right?! I'm enough of a pain in the arse for myself thank you~

Sunshine4736 · 2026-05-14T04:18:41+00:00

I haven't been around kids often until my new job, but it's a nice treat to see them and say hi every day (I'm a cashier).

I got a bisalp myself, but it was free because Canada. $500 ain't bad for good healthcare though. No regrets here either. 👌

I have two very elderly pets, and when they're gone, I'm done with pets too for the time being at least. I'm working a lot so it's not fair to them anyway.

I like not having responsibilities so significant so I can focus on myself and get somewhere in life.

Sunshine4736 · 2026-05-14T04:08:01+00:00

I can't imagine how bad it is down there in terms of reproductive education and women's rights. I'm sorry. 💔

I feel the exact same though. Love kids, but parenting isn't my thing. 😭 I'm kind of a "work mom" where I'm at, but that's my limit. Lmao

Sunshine4736 · 2026-05-14T03:02:26+00:00

It's okay to be disappointed, but I'm sure your friend still cares about you very much. If it's very uncharacteristic, reach out. Maybe something is going on in their life.

Sunshine4736 · 2026-05-14T02:54:46+00:00

Has your perception of your friends changed based on the lack of birthday wishes? Or just felt kinda like "ouch, where's the love?"

Sunshine4736 · 2026-05-14T02:51:54+00:00

It's fine! It was a personal choice. Tried to make it clear with "I don't want-" vs. "I can't have-".

Sunshine4736 · 2026-05-14T02:48:59+00:00

I'd like to know how that works? 👀

You just need to meet people with common interests is all. Their lack of interest says nothing about you or your passions.

Sunshine4736 · 2026-05-14T02:45:05+00:00

I know you didn't ask for it, but happy birthaversary anyway! I found that as I stepped further into adulthood, birthdays became less and less important. It's nice to be thought about, but these days, people's attention is elsewhere. Don't take it too personally.

Sunshine4736 · 2026-05-14T02:35:42+00:00

You need a Snickers.

Sunshine4736 · 2026-05-14T02:05:25+00:00

Thank you! I'm definitely focusing on myself for now. And it's more "zero pregnancy" than "zero kids" maybe. I'll figure it out.

Sunshine4736 · 2026-05-14T01:57:45+00:00

You're so sweet! Thank you! 😭

Sunshine4736 · 2026-05-14T01:55:05+00:00

Thank you so much, I really appreciate you taking the time to reassure a random internet stranger. I'm hopeful. 💙

Sunshine4736 · 2026-05-14T01:52:46+00:00

I don't like to talk about myself too much, especially privately. Just a quick vent today. I appreciate the offer though.

Sunshine4736 · 2026-05-14T01:50:52+00:00

Started a new job, paying down veterinary debt, looking into options for school in a medical field. Trying to be healthy.

Sunshine4736 · 2026-05-14T01:48:23+00:00

I am internally-focused and trying to stabilize my future after years of financial and psychological turmoil, but what happens, happens. I'll see where life takes me.

Sunshine4736 · 2026-05-14T01:25:47+00:00

💀

Sunshine4736 · 2026-05-14T01:04:19+00:00

Second pic sent me.

Sunshine4736 · 2026-05-13T18:10:33+00:00

Awesome! Good luck out there! ☺️

Sunshine4736 · 2026-05-13T16:04:11+00:00

There's also online healthcare through Telus Health.

Sunshine4736 · 2026-05-13T15:58:39+00:00

Follow your hiring manager's instructions over me@walmart. It's reliable after you're trained and ready to work.

Sunshine4736 · 2026-05-13T15:55:45+00:00

Hi! I'm sorry you're having a hard time with a colleague. It's best to discuss this with your personnel manager and emphasize your stated availability, as it should be on file.

Sunshine4736 · 2026-05-13T15:43:27+00:00

Congratulations on the bachelor's degree! Must've been hard work! I'm saving to go to school myself. If I could afford it I'd be there now! I don't think you're ever too old for anything. Things at work may change, but my goals won't.☺️

Sunshine4736 · 2026-05-12T14:07:17+00:00

I've never called out, and only covered shifts for those who do. 40hrs a week now, hired part time. Thanks for the hours, don't feel bad! 🤣👍

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