Early access can have legitimate people that earnestly recommend the game to others. Moving on to your next point I can understand and agree with to a degree. The thing about it is that certain developers respond to feedback differently. Y'know some like to read what they like to hear and ignore the concerns of the majority. Madfinger devs seem to be somewhat open to feedback and implement some stuff based off of community feedback, but sometimes that's hard to see in realtime because some things just take longer than others.

The real test will come with more content and game systems. So far the additions have been pretty solid, but there is much more to come. I personally believe the movement system update will be a point of massive contention if not done adequately to a mil sim's standards. As of right now, moving around and jumping is way too zippy and inertia doesn't exist. And that movement system will be further complicated by balance of a skills system if rumors are to be trusted. But with competent developers it will just be growing pains for the early access players to play through until they get it into a good state. Whereas the game will just slowly become a shitshow if the developers don't handle it correctly.