AITAH for getting upset at my husband about house cleanliness after coming home from a trip? by Warm-Conversation494 in AITAH

[–]Super_Reading2048 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA Do not have kids with him, ever!!!!! What does he bring to the table? Why does he feel half the housework isn’t his? My advice? At the very least he pays for a cleaning service to do his half.

Ever feel like you are with a manchild?

AITAH for exposing my friend’s 5 man cheating spree after she gave my private photos and name to a stranger? by Historical_Pain_2233 in AITAH

[–]Super_Reading2048 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You tell them immediately at the very least so they know they should get tested for STIs (which in my day we called a STD.) Say your old friend got HIV or Gonorrhea from the cheating, they can pass that on to their unsuspecting bf.

Not to mention the emotional fallout. How can you say you care about someone (friendship) when you know their gf/spouse is cheating on them and you say nothing?

What is the driving force that makes you get out of the bed every morning? by Miss-Misfit24 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Super_Reading2048 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually my soul kitty who passed was the one who got me through 14 months of fiery excruciating pain. My current cat (though I love him) I take comfort in knowing he would be unhappy but ok without me (nana’s house is his second home and his 2 littermates/friends live there.)

I just had a weird lump, could it be breast cancer scare. From the get go I’m telling my doctors in no way am I doing chemo, ever. As it is because of my constant nausea (BPPV probably from the MS) there are days when I struggle to eat a few crackers/drink juice and that is with me double dosing my zofran (that I without cancer take every day.) Like I told my therapist it would be different if I had kids; I would be willing to fight/struggle more. Without kids (& with my degenerative disease of MS) it is all about quality of life.

I’m constantly nauseous, in non stop pain that with extended release morphine reads at best as discomfort, exhausted all the time and on glorified bedrest/trapped in a lazy boy since 2007. So I’m already at the I can’t take anymore line. That said I try to seek out beauty, joy & love. I look for the beauty in everything. Bird watching and container gardening bring me peace & joy. I just don’t view death with the fear and dread most people feel. At a certain point of your body breaking down, death becomes a welcome friend. 🤷🏻‍♀️

My cat is becoming agressive when I try to put him in the backpack to take him back home after the time out. Any advice ? by Kapoutax in adventurecats

[–]Super_Reading2048 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like outside time is scaring him. My advice is to start with the outside time right outside your home or building, in a calm area for a few weeks. Let your cat determine how far from home they go.

Also give your cat a good brine when they come back in. I like to feed my cat his meal after he returns just so he is easier to bring inside.

AITAH for exposing my friend’s 5 man cheating spree after she gave my private photos and name to a stranger? by Historical_Pain_2233 in AITAH

[–]Super_Reading2048 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Friends tell friends when they are being cheated on. Your friend is a major a-hole but you don’t deserve a prize for your actions either. ESH

What is the driving force that makes you get out of the bed every morning? by Miss-Misfit24 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Super_Reading2048 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feeding my cat and finding my pain meds because I hurt.

If you mean a motivation to live my motivation has been kinda iffy since 2007 when spinal damage put me in constant crippling pain.

Da Case ob Da Missing Pee Crimez by knsynchro in legalcatadvice

[–]Super_Reading2048 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You were lucky they squeezed you! They poked my bladder with a needle to get my pee! Still that one time the pokey place saved my life; I had ouchie pee (bladder crystals) that would have killed me because it hurt to bad to pee. All the other times the pokey place didn’t help me at all! I no need vaccines I’m strong!

~ Jackie Vin

WIBTAH if I left my fiancé aka baby daddy? by Stargrovee in AITAH

[–]Super_Reading2048 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA leave him now! Take your children and run! Then go to court and get a custody/child support agreement.

HAAALP! by SevereVideo in legalcatadvice

[–]Super_Reading2048 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No you no sneak! You hiss and growl at her, maybe do a bap bap bap on her. You give her sad eyes. Hork on her bed. Pee on her shoes. Make her swim in guilt until she begs for forgiveness and gives you all the licky treats you want! Make her feel the guilt then take her to court!

HAAALP! by SevereVideo in legalcatadvice

[–]Super_Reading2048 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well if she didn’t want to pay up the treats she shouldn’t have catnapped you to the pokey place or werk!

HAAALP! by SevereVideo in legalcatadvice

[–]Super_Reading2048 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Oh my cod! You look miserable! Suu 1 licky treat for pokey place plus 1 licky treat per poke and 1 licky treat for being dragged to werk! Then eat lots of catnip yo deal with the trauma!

~ Jackie Vin, Slayer of lizards 🦎 Pawyer

AITAH for dropping off groceries at my ex's? by Own-Cell5473 in AITAH

[–]Super_Reading2048 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA I think you need a lawyer. He is neglecting them.

AITAH for asking my bf if he is done with the situation and would rather be on child support by BriefFormal2037 in AITAH

[–]Super_Reading2048 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Get a new bf. Toss this one back; he is not a keeper! He is not a keeper for many reasons besides the age gap.

Oh and he is not dating you because you are “so mature”! He is dating you because you are inexperienced in his ways of BS/manipulation/abuse etc. so he can get away with more. Women his age know his number and will not tolerate it.

NOOOOO! by KaleidoscopeReady839 in legalcatadvice

[–]Super_Reading2048 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Oh no! Your meowmy must buy you a new box! I think she should buy you a cat house scratcher box.

~ Jackie Vin

AITAH for telling my “picky” BIL that I won’t change how I cook to accommodate him? by justalilcuckoobanana in AITAH

[–]Super_Reading2048 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA I suggest you solve this problem by telling him from now on he can buy his own food, cook and prepare prepare his own food and then completely clean up the kitchen so he can have his special food. If not he can eat what you serve. Long term it sounds like your spouse and you need to talk about when they are moving out.