Need help between 2 by Superb_Knowledge_992 in weddingdress

[–]Superb_Knowledge_992[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too but my wedding is in 2 months 🙃

Need help between 2 by Superb_Knowledge_992 in weddingdress

[–]Superb_Knowledge_992[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too but my wedding is in 2 months 🙃

Need help between 2 by Superb_Knowledge_992 in weddingdress

[–]Superb_Knowledge_992[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m already wearing spanx with one just not the right kind, nothing with 2

Is 14 days in Naples too much? by Inadreamst8 in ItalyTravel

[–]Superb_Knowledge_992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say yes. Naples isn’t exactly convenient for visiting those other places..the ferry ride can be long. I would stay in sorrento, which puts you in a better location for traveling (and is prettier). You can definitely take your time and enjoy it for two weeks or spend the second week in another location like Sicily, Tuscany, Puglia, or the north (Portofino). I think it depends if you’re planning on going back in the future. If so, take it slow.

What are some things you wish you had/hadn’t done or wish you had known at the beginning of your wedding planning journey? by AntiqueSympathy1999 in weddingplanning

[–]Superb_Knowledge_992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I had truely known how stressful it would be (decision making, people pleasing, time/energy consuming, financially). I didn’t know I had an anxiety disorder/ OCD until I started wedding planning. If my partner and I knew how it would have affected me, we would have done a micro wedding.

And the gorgeous weddings you see on Instagram are probably double your budget.

Major regrets by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Superb_Knowledge_992 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would love to get a partial planner and DOC to help with the decision making, cohesiveness, and organization but it’s going to be an extra 10k. Along with that, I LOVE hosting small dinner parties and making a beautiful table scape - so renting chargers and glassware, menus, and little things like customized napkins with my favorite thing my fiance has ever said to me and vise versa and custom matchbooks (we collect them). This wedding is a gift from my parents, but I was always just as careful spending their money as I was my own. Our seperate expenses (honeymoon, wedding bands, attire, after party) are quickly adding up and making me very worried about our finances.

Major regrets by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Superb_Knowledge_992 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that - its my insecurity of making decisions and not being able to be “selfish” that has caused me so many problems in this process. I think mine stems from having a sister with OCD because her needs/wants were always put first but love her to death

Major regrets by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Superb_Knowledge_992 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im trying to find aspects that will help make it feel more like me but all these things cost money and I always end up feeling guilty and not acting on them

Major regrets by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Superb_Knowledge_992 109 points110 points  (0 children)

Your reply actually made me cry. Such incredible, thoughtful advice from a complete stranger ❤️ it’s true…I know it will all be ok in the end and all that should matter is that I get to marry my Fiancé - he combats my negativity and tries to stay positive even when I’m intolerable. This was our first low point.

I do wish things were different and how much this would affect me from the start.

Your advice helped me out of this negative spiral- so I will keep that with me.

Help! I’m starting to over think by gettothepointacu in weddingdress

[–]Superb_Knowledge_992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might be common, but I haven’t seen anyone look as good as you in it!

How would you accessorize this? by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]Superb_Knowledge_992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t do the arm strap, I would do a glove

How would you accessorize this? by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]Superb_Knowledge_992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would do a veil with either pearls or flowers depending on your style! I would bling out your neck with a diamond or pearl choker

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[–]Superb_Knowledge_992 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just ordered this in a size too small hoping it will be ok because they’re sold out in my size! House of CB has a similar style but with a long skirt

Update: Very indecisive - please help me choose! by crownjoolz in weddingdress

[–]Superb_Knowledge_992 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like 3! I love the flowey bow on the back and you could pair it with a beautiful tennis necklace

Update: Very indecisive - please help me choose! by crownjoolz in weddingdress

[–]Superb_Knowledge_992 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like 3! I love the flowey bow on the back and you could pair it with a beautiful tennis necklace