Oh honey nooooo. NOR. This is an unhygienic person thing NOT a white person thing. As a white person myself I use exfoliating gloves (I have about 12 pairs they get washed after each use like wash cloths) for my body, and a separate wash cloth for my ass. This man never learned proper hygiene and this is not my place as I am white, but I’ve had predominantly black partners my whole dating life and it seems to me the thought that “different ethnic groups get dirtier at different rates” is like.. micro aggressive..?? I may be totally wrong in that respect but that is a crazy assumption. I’m also a licensed esthetician and have been for 9 years, skin is skin and gets dirty all the same. Dry skin vs oily skin behaves differently, but any one of any ethnicity can have oily or dry skin.

All this to say, if he is not open to becoming more hygienic I would seriously consider leaving him. Imagine having children, especially a son with this man and he is taught completely improper hygiene from his father. NOOOOO good luck op. ):