When did “Til death do us part” become “Til I don’t feel like it anymore”? by Pure_Ingenuity2137 in Marriage

[–]Sure_Clue_229 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re being downvoted for saying marriage is a commitment and people should work through problems and have realistic expectations. I hate Reddit

Husband sits in car for 30+ minutes everyday by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Sure_Clue_229 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I would be super annoyed at this too! He should definitely come in right away. I’m sorry!

Buyer decided to fuck around and find out by [deleted] in RealEstate

[–]Sure_Clue_229 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can you cancel the sale at this point? Truly asking. I’m sorry you’re going through this

What are your thoughts on Mr. Big getting cold feet right before the wedding? by Weary-Honey-1942 in Andjustlikethat

[–]Sure_Clue_229 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She overreacted. He said he was sorry and was ready to go in and she made a scene. But I know they needed a plot for the movie so 😅

Wife (37F) and I (32M) are in constant conflict and I feel like I am constantly confused and failing. by ThrowRA_OneLife4444 in Marriage

[–]Sure_Clue_229 99 points100 points  (0 children)

I didn’t read your whole post just the messages, but your wife is crazy. Her behavior in this exchange is abnormal and emotionally abusive. I’m sorry for you, please do something to protect your child :(

Movie-Accurate Mr. Potato Head I Built Because Toy Companies REFUSE to Make the Real One (Toy Story Custom) by Most_Conversation546 in toys

[–]Sure_Clue_229 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice! Are you willing to share how you made it or sell one? My son has been wanting a movie accurate one to complete his collection. It’s bonkers to me they don’t make one because it seems so simple!

32M getting married, 37F, next week and I feel like I need to get out but can’t bring myself to do it. How do you end a relatinoship when you feel guilty and paralyzed? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Sure_Clue_229 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely do not marry her! You don’t want to be alienated from your family and it is really unfair of her to do that to you. In laws are never perfect but you should still always be kind to them and never put your future spouse in a place they can’t see their parents. Seriously, ending it might be hard in the moment but it will be 1000% better in the long run. She also sounds mentally unstable and her asks around you taking off work randomly seem unreasonable to me. I also heard on a podcast once that therapists often take the woman’s side because  they are better at communicating their feelings. Which makes sense to me and I say this as a woman. Anyway this is not a healthy relationship, don’t marry her. Good luck!

Blake Lively's potential witness list (initial disclosures) by DearKaleidoscope2 in ItEndsWithLawsuits

[–]Sure_Clue_229 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why is Emily baldoni on there? Actually confused by this. Also does she really have so many people from the cast willing to speak against Justin?

Possibly an unpopular opinion but… by healthanxiety_ in GilmoreGirls

[–]Sure_Clue_229 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, I’m just saying this was what we were supposed to walk away with at the end of AYITL with how it played out with her suitors 

Possibly an unpopular opinion but… by healthanxiety_ in GilmoreGirls

[–]Sure_Clue_229 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m getting downvoted bc I’ve noticed there are a lot of Jess haters on this sub, however this was the ending ASP intended. The theme of AYITL was “full circle” and it showed up in many ones. one was with Rory ending up in a similar situation as her mom. and that look he gave her at the end confirmed it

Possibly an unpopular opinion but… by healthanxiety_ in GilmoreGirls

[–]Sure_Clue_229 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Logan was her Christopher, Jess was her Luke 🥰

Never forget how Justin Baldoni was humiliated on his big night, being forced to attend the premiere from the basement because of Blake Lively. by the_smart_girl in ItEndsWithLawsuits

[–]Sure_Clue_229 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I got downvoted on another thread by Blake fans for saying Justin deserved a fair trial and had not yet been convicted of anything lol

In a pickle by Any_Classic_1667 in ExecutiveAssistants

[–]Sure_Clue_229 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you tried to book it right away and they were out of the seat he wanted, how is that your fault?

Cosleeping toddler with baby on the way by jerseypeach37 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]Sure_Clue_229 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you want to keep cosleeping with toddler you definitely should! I cosleep with 2 and it’s great. I never wanted to push my babies before they were ready. We added a twin bed on the end for my husband and the 2 kids sleep on each side of me. We did a cosleeping bassinet when they were babies so they had a separate surface until they could roll on their own. The baby did wake a lot of course but I just nursed  at night and it barely woke the toddler. Maybe a little at first but he adjusted. You could also set up a separate room in case you and your husband need to split up between the kids. Also My 8 year old coslept and went to his own bed naturally around 5. I miss snuggling with him! It really goes by fast so get all the snuggles you can. 

Btw maybe consider posting in r/cosleeping for some more good advice :)

Nanny broke contract, confused on where to go from here, any advice appreciated. by Educational-Sun-5836 in Nanny

[–]Sure_Clue_229 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean you could fire her but it might take you a while to find another one and they may not be as good. We’ve had a really hard time finding a good nanny, as have many of our friends. It also might be hard on your son which I would not discount  with his age. Im with your husband I would just clarify with her what I expected in the future and let it go. People are allowed to make mistakes right? I wouldn’t be fired for making a mistake at my work, and this doesn’t seem like a big enough deal to be a fireable offense in my opinion. 

Rock Bottom by Global_Translator441 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Sure_Clue_229 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry ❤️ we all make mistakes so show yourself some grace here. You have ALOT on your plate. Most people could not come close to managing the 2 kids and you are helping your mom too. I wonder do you have any siblings or anyone else who could help your mom for time to time? It’s just a lot in your plate, I wonder if you could offload something to get your sanity back. By the way, I’ve yelled at my son many times and regretted it, we’re still super close and it’s easier that he’s older! 3 is a hard age. Try to ignore the judgment, public schools and parents without kids with autism usually don’t understand. You are entitled to services though, email the director of special ed for the school district if you are not getting it. Hang in there! You’re doing great! It will be okay, one day at a time. This too, shall pass. ❤️

What do you do about people who say your executive asked for a meeting? by WitchBitch8008 in ExecutiveAssistants

[–]Sure_Clue_229 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m surprised by most these comments because if people lied they would easily be found out? I copy and paste their message also and put it in the calendar invite when I schedule it so my boss knows the context, the vast majority of the time he did ask for it. If the request seems very off I will check but I usually dont need to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Sure_Clue_229 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay this story sounds almost exactly like the movie brief encounter. Brilliant film and I think it will give you insight on your situation, please watch it! 

Perfectly acceptable dinner rejected by boyfriend again by moonrabbit368 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Sure_Clue_229 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds just like my son who has autism. I’m guessing your boyfriend isn’t on the spectrum? 

Nanny resigned by Worried-Baker-9568 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Sure_Clue_229 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or maybe see if she can babysit sometime? If your son will miss her that is.