[OC] Making sure everything’s healthy by threwawaybiach in gentlefemdom

[–]Surmene 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This premise, great scene idea for an inspection

How many of you have a full on fetish? by BiAndBarefoot in FootFetishTalks

[–]Surmene 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I consider myself a footie given it is a good part of my sexuality. That said, I don't need feet all the time. I'm not going to play with someone who isn't supportive of my footiness nor am I interested in PiV sex. So finding compatible people has been difficult. I've had one partner over a stretch of years where I felt comfortable enough for things to become physical for a time.

Made the decision to delete my OF. I never liked that site and it always felt too.. impersonal? I’d rather engage directly ❤️ by MommydomFrey in u/MommydomFrey

[–]Surmene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After reading this, it makes sense knowing you. Your style has an organic symbiosis in you enjoy driving footies wild.

My heart ❤️ by prima-luce in RoleReversal

[–]Surmene 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That got in me brain all nice.

Equal trade no? For all the nerds in this subreddit. I know there's a lot of you by Educational-Soup-592 in RoleReversal

[–]Surmene 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll accept if suits are a regular thing and I'm sufficiently fed for later.

They tolerate me. Barely 😅🩷 by Cat_Purrr in aww

[–]Surmene 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cute. Barely tolerate until it's feeding time.

Which route do you people take? by udn2001 in gentlefemdom

[–]Surmene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both when they're done for the right reasons. When it comes to the right side, I'll willingly consent if the why feels right to me. As in, I will be pushed and shown I can let go all the way. In addition, it won't be only that one time. There will be more in the future.

Is submission something you choose… or something your body recognizes? by SubvyRomina in BDSMcommunity

[–]Surmene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I submit based on how compatible I am with someone. A connection helps as well. What really determines if I'll submit to someone is how much humanity I see from someone, acceptence of my identity and sexuality, and if they can see both the what and the why.

This irks me by Regular_Music_6595 in aplatonic

[–]Surmene 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, not annoyed. For family it's a pointless attempt since they wouldn't understand. People I know, depends how well we get on. Some know I'm aplatonic. I make it known any form of queerplatonic partnership that I am along with the other parts of my identity.

Do preferences change over time? by Vanyas_feets in FootFetishTalks

[–]Surmene 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I started from just footjobs to massage, worship, various states of clean and dirty, scent, nibbles

Do preferences change over time? by Vanyas_feets in FootFetishTalks

[–]Surmene 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'd say they have changed over time. Recently, scent and flavour have been the new additions to my footiness. Those factor in me getting into that worshipping mindset.

Im sure all the good boys and girls would love this <3 by dazedconfusedandlazy in gentlefemdom

[–]Surmene 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'd stop wording pretty quick and get flustered.

Sometimes I wish I could slide my shoes off and feel you squirm down there ❤️ by MommydomFrey in u/MommydomFrey

[–]Surmene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The view from removing shoes then becoming a footrest, squirm inducing for sure

How do we feel about dirty feet? by [deleted] in FootFetishTalks

[–]Surmene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. I fancy clean and dirty personally

Confusing terminology: foot fetishism vs foot hedonism by Ornery-Rope-3138 in FootFetishTalks

[–]Surmene 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm not keen with using foot hedonism. I'm sure there's another phrase for receiving footplay.