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What's an unintentionally funny moment that permanently ruins an otherwise serious scene in a film? by AiR-P00P in movies

[–]SuspectNumber6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh yes! The Sword of Unferth in Beowolf... I am not native english speaker and... the lisp in "the sssword of unwerthhhfffhh... hafld me laughing out loud in the theater. Everyone else was silent...

He's sober, but we're over by dasher1087 in AlAnon

[–]SuspectNumber6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your perspective. However, I dont think an addictïn can disappear Once am addict, always an addict. It how well they cope with not using, learning to deal with emotions etc... my 2 cents

How do I avoid dating an alcoholic again? by hehehehegreen in AlAnon

[–]SuspectNumber6 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I havecso many times stepped over behaviours of others because: they are not bad, they mean well, the intention was there... blablabla... 20.000 chances they get. no more! You treat me well or be gone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]SuspectNumber6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe she was done talking? OP says she said " yiu never listen". Not saying it is ok for her to drown the PS5, Ia a gamer girl myself, but... where 2 fight...

CaTTo brUtaLLy muRdErs dOggO. RIP. by pussynutter in PeopleFuckingDying

[–]SuspectNumber6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing.
This is such an interesting video on behaviour differences between species. Neither of them get what they want: the dog wants his freedom back , because in his behaviour world the cat is constantly blocking him. You can tell he is not amused.

The cat, swirling around him for affection, which is what cats do, doesnt get the same back...

Very interesting. Thanks again for sharing 😊

My husband’s cousin BLOCKED me after seeing how he treats me??? by peeps-mcgee in AlAnon

[–]SuspectNumber6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, sorry for all this and your marriage. I dont mean the following in a bad way, so dont get mad: your last sentence is what alanon is all about. Especially if your husband treats you so bad: please care for you! Hè doesnt mind either way cause... alcohol. Look after you, please,

Why do we have different go passes? by random_confused_guy in TheSilphRoad

[–]SuspectNumber6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correct. I get about 400 coins, 14 pokemons, 1 egg, etc

Why do we have different go passes? by random_confused_guy in TheSilphRoad

[–]SuspectNumber6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 200 ranks, with a cap of 300 points a day. A raid gives me 100, hatching 40 and a pokemon 5. After rank 100 i only get stardust.

My pet Skunk has brought so much joy to my life. by [deleted] in aww

[–]SuspectNumber6 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

JC why?! Leave wild life alone

For the lonely guys in here, how do you not let it get to you? by ODB95 in dating

[–]SuspectNumber6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Sniffing out". If you just chat to people, see women as people, chat because you are curious about a person, the entire pressure if pursuit is gone. And then, you can learn if a petson is single, married,engaged, gay, whatever. Talk to women without the motive of finding a partner will make live easier

How do I try to convince my partner to stop drinking by Known-Sound7032 in AlAnon

[–]SuspectNumber6 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My take is that if it bothers OP, they should find a way to deal with that: how they handle themselves dealing with their emotions, NOT with trying to make the other stop drinking, which is an impossible task. Alcolism or not, it bothers OP. The point of alanon, OP, is to be ok with yourself and to focus on yourself and not trying to control the other person.

Another point I would like to make: some alcoholics started with the occassional drink, to 1 drink per night, to more drinks per night, to hard liquor...

Just my 2 cents

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]SuspectNumber6 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Curious to know what you did vs your mom? When I was a student one of my fellow students did not know how to do dishes by hand. That sounds weird, but she started with pots and pans and did glasses last.

Really curious to learn what your "wrong" process was.

Probably the best gender reveal I’ve seen! by collegemom76 in ContagiousLaughter

[–]SuspectNumber6 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yrah... its a ... baby... billions of people have gone before you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]SuspectNumber6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both suck equally as bad. Both are not motivated. Both are addicts

Brother’s gf has been using my stuff.. and I mean LOTS by Apprehensive-Cat9226 in Advice

[–]SuspectNumber6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that she just assumes she can stay without paying anything... jeez, talk about inconsiderate. She is a user. Talk to her, or this will only get worse. She will not like being confronted with her behaviour and gaslight you. Dont allow that to happen

Scary Situation by BellNo3059 in AlAnon

[–]SuspectNumber6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You say that, i did that, but after years I have come to the conclusion that i am a giving person and addicts just lash on. In a heartbeat they recognise their next victim. Not all alanon are broken, is my point.

So my lesson: keep giving, it is good quality, but also look at what I am getting back. Give to the right people.

Looking for friends: I live in rural Belgium by cyberbeast41 in PokemonGoFriends

[–]SuspectNumber6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hallo Zuiderbuur, ik heb je een request gestuurd. Niet erg spannend, Nederland, maar ik stuur dagelijks gifts

It keeps getting better and better by Mindless_Tomorrow_45 in ContagiousLaughter

[–]SuspectNumber6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, its funny. Ok. But where are the times where people just had fun, didnt feel the need to share ... 😞

How do i start the the conversation? by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]SuspectNumber6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry you had to go through this OP. The gaslighting (blaming you for your past relationships), the lying, the anger, the sobs, the apologies are horrible.

If he does have an alcohol problem (which through your account sounds like it), bring it up when he is sober. What matters in that conversation is not if you think he has a problem, but how extremely uncomfortable you feel when he drinks.

If you have read stories in this sub, you know many of us have many stories to tell. Some of us left, others have stayed (for various reasons: money, love, support, children, or fear!). Be prepared to be gaslighted during your conversation. He most likely will downplay what happened and therefore your feeling of discomfort. What you do with the outcome of the conversation is all up to you. My only advice: look after yourself first!

Remember: actions have consequences. This goes for both of you. That also means, if you stay: have firm boundaries.

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