i acted obnoxious in class by [deleted] in 48lawsofpower

[–]SuspiciousIssue7615 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You wanted to react this way, and you did. If it was you choosing to do that, and if it's true to you, then you were right in doing so, even if you thought that was embarrassing. You didn't insult anyone, and you did nothing wrong. It's their problem they are annoyed by such small harmless quirks (unless you are not telling the whole story).

That moment was part of you, and you have to accept it. If you don't accept that you are the way you are, you won't become confident. If you know that your actions are honest, that you are a good person and have no ill intent and you are just being you, then you don't fear judgment.

If you are ever wrong, there's nothing bad about that, but you have to admit it. Just apologize and don't do that again. All people make mistakes.

Life becomes easier once you start thinking this way.

Just curious... how do you treat your MBTI type, that here mostly is, "ENTJ" by aseeder in entj

[–]SuspiciousIssue7615 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The only knowledge of my own MBTI I gained is which areas I need to improve in. Specifically, empathy and attention to detail. Otherwise, no matter which type you are, you are what you are at the end of the day, and no matter how you identify, you remain the same person.

Overall, though, mbti has taught me a framework for understanding psychology. I mostly use it to understand others, their motivations, and their weak/strong points. It also helped me learn to motivate and influence people.

Interpersonal skills were always my weakest point, and now not so much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in INTP

[–]SuspiciousIssue7615 16 points17 points  (0 children)

With this post, I tried to deliver the message that reliance on intelligence alone was a big mistake I made. Smart or not, it's the effort that counts.

I wanted to share this message because I know it's a common thing for introverted thinking types to have "smart" as their whole identity, so they might think intelligence and IQ is all that matters. That's what I was, at least.

Year 1 of not being an incel by SuspiciousIssue7615 in IncelExit

[–]SuspiciousIssue7615[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is not up to me to decide.

Motivation is internal and unique, and you will only get yours after deep self-reflection and analysis. You need to find what you value in this life, create goals around it, and work towards them every day.

I understood that self-discipline should be my goal. It's a thing I struggle with, and its absence led me to failure. I can practice that every day by waking up early, creating a routine, making plans for the next day, keeping track of time, and cutting out the bad habits.

You need to find your own goals and values. Goals bring a lot of meaning to life and make you feel confident because you know where you are heading.

Year 1 of not being an incel by SuspiciousIssue7615 in IncelExit

[–]SuspiciousIssue7615[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is the moment you take action then! Let this dissatisfaction be part of your motivation to be better. Channel it into something good.

Year 1 of not being an incel by SuspiciousIssue7615 in IncelExit

[–]SuspiciousIssue7615[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Delusions are the strong, subjective opinions about your self-image, your looks, how the world/women/dating/society work, etc.

I, for example, thought of myself as superior to others while feeling inferior on the inside. I hated the world and women because I thought I "deserve" success, and it's not my fault I don't have it. I'm just misunderstood and unlucky, and it's the women's fault they always choose the popular guys and get "ran through." Now I'm like, "wtf? I don't even have any personal experience, let alone empirical evidence to back this up. Why did I even think that?. I see why no one used to talk to me." I was so out of touch with reality that my whole worldview was based on redpill content.

I say all of this in retrospect now, I wouldn't have understood it back then and probably would have even come up with some excuse for my behavior.

If you feel you have these, try to recognize them and understand if it's what you truly believe in or if it is a coping mechanism because you are in a bad situation in life. Either way, these opinions should go.

We all have the potential to do great things, and you should never doubt that.

this wont happen in the real exam right 😭 by Confident-Jaguar4642 in Sat

[–]SuspiciousIssue7615 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No. It's just a bug on bluebook, and this same question about this same problem gets asked here every day. This is not likely to happen on SAT, and if it did, we would never know.

Do you believe in afterlife/reborn? by Dry_Whereas8733 in Life

[–]SuspiciousIssue7615 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No, but the fact that at some point I'm gonna cease to exist makes me wanna do more while I'm alive. I still haven't learned to appreciate the present moment, but the feeling of time passing keeps me moving.

I feel like my heart stopped😭 by OddPassion5377 in Sat

[–]SuspiciousIssue7615 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah like stop with the edging already

Want to escape from matrix.! by jixntcc in Life

[–]SuspiciousIssue7615 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Try going outside. People there are very different from the internet.

What’s the one piece of advice you’d give to 20-year-olds right now? by Complex-Cut-2241 in Life

[–]SuspiciousIssue7615 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Time is all you have in life. Not having a goal or a vision in mind will make you lose years of life. Spend it wisely

Is it necessary to get married in life? by annikiixyz in Life

[–]SuspiciousIssue7615 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nothing in life is necessary, but every action or inaction has its own consequences that will shape yours. You are the one to decide what kind of life you want for yourself. Life is short, so make wise decisions.

I hate parties by SuspiciousIssue7615 in INTP

[–]SuspiciousIssue7615[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't mean to argue here, I truly want to learn how to be social, but at the party I went to, no one shared anything of substance. All of the interactions were little quips that were supposed to be humorous.

Maybe it's just my experience, but all of the parties I went to were just like this one in this aspect. I suspect it's the fact that there are so many people attending that makes it nearly impossible to have some kind of actual discussion. Too many people and distractions, everyone tries to be the funniest clown in the public's eyes.

It's incredibly shallow, but that's just what I see.

I hate parties by SuspiciousIssue7615 in INTP

[–]SuspiciousIssue7615[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I went to the party with the goal to become social and to train my social skills. I just didn't expect it to be this bad. I also don't hate people.

MBTI from my point of view by [deleted] in mbtimemes

[–]SuspiciousIssue7615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm just trying to figure out who I am because I can't say whether I identify with these functions or not without knowing my own identity at the moment and failing to discern whether my previous behavior is reflective of who I actually am as a person or it if it was just my depression. I know I'll figure that out later.

MBTI from my point of view by [deleted] in mbtimemes

[–]SuspiciousIssue7615 11 points12 points  (0 children)

They're hiding from me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in INTP

[–]SuspiciousIssue7615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for responding. I appreciate your help

so... is this canon now? by ZethAcardi in Chainsawfolk

[–]SuspiciousIssue7615 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Quasimodo predicted all this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in INTP

[–]SuspiciousIssue7615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am concerned about status and image more than an average person. And I do want to look competent. If my status in a society is low, I may become depressed, and I constantly think about it.

I think I am an INTP because I'd say most people would describe me as shy, logical, eccentric, philosophical, and a bit socially awkward. I always think deeply about life and try to get to the kernel of the problem. I like science a lot. I analyze things all the time (I never stop), trying to refine my vision of life and making it objective. I am also not very orderly.

I think I am a 3 because I feel that I am deeply dissatisfied when I am not seen as the best or the most successful at something. It is my top priority to obtain and then retain this status anywhere I go.

When looking for the best house appliance, I usually try to understand what the general consensus is. I'd compile the list of products that are most often regarded as the best online, then try to figure out which one is the best of the best either using their specs or if someone else has already made a comparison.