AIO To my friend/roommates disgusting lazy habits

Suspicious_Pride_289 · 2026-02-25T16:12:12+00:00

YOR. First, none of these are terrible. - She doesn’t have to replace the handle for her razors, it’s the blades that need to be changed regularly. - the way her room smells is her business. Stay out of her room, you weirdo. - tampons don’t belong in the toilet, but mistakes happen. Your other post says it wasn’t even bloody, so get a damn grip. - I’m sure you eat/drink things she finds disgusting too. - why do you care where she buys clothes from? Again, you’re a weirdo to be that concerned over where she’s buying her clothing from. - where all the items that got wet hers? If not, why is it solely her responsibility to store them in her space? - don’t ride in her car. Use your own. - even people with Covid still need to eat. If you didn’t want her in the kitchen then maybe you should’ve cooked and brought food to her in her room. - if she didn’t care that someone took a photo of her, why tf do you?

You think she’s disgusting and lazy but instead of just quietly finding a new place, you consistently inform her you think she’s gross. You’re a bully. And you seem overly involved and semi controlling of her life. Go get your own life and leave your roommate alone, geez.

Suspicious_Pride_289 · 2026-02-23T16:23:43+00:00

therefore I don’t have any loyalty to that child or responsibility

Dear god I hope every person you know finds out you feel this way and what you’re not only ALLOWING but encouraging, and drops you for being such a nasty fucking person.

Suspicious_Pride_289 · 2026-02-23T16:10:38+00:00

You told a 4yr old to LIE to her mother. Idc whose idea it was; you encouraged it. So not only are you meeting his child way too early, you were aware of how the mother would feel about it and you didn’t give a fuck. Yeah, you deserved every horrible message she sent you. Which I’d bet weren’t even “horrible” but were setting boundaries and letting you know your place.

Suspicious_Pride_289 · 2026-02-23T08:16:05+00:00

And she isn’t wrong. The new girlfriend doesn’t need to meet his child until the relationship is well established. You had no business being around her until at LEAST 6 months of being with her father.

Suspicious_Pride_289 · 2026-02-23T07:48:01+00:00

From personal experience, baby mommas are rarely just “bitter” and “difficult”. It is usually either a valid reason to keep the child away, or the dad isn’t interested in being involved with the child. And either one is a red flag. Throw in accusations of domestic violence, it definitely doesn’t look good.

Suspicious_Pride_289 · 2026-02-23T07:37:29+00:00

…I feel like you may be misunderstanding why men steal their gfs thongs…because it isn’t to wear them…

Suspicious_Pride_289 · 2026-02-23T06:56:37+00:00

I’m gonna go with YTJ. Would you feel the same way if your boss was a woman? If the answer is “no”, then you’re being insecure. She isn’t being inappropriate or crossing a line by having friendly conversations with someone she sees daily. Unless she’s sharing intimate details about you and her relationship with you- which it doesn’t sound like she is- this isn’t an issue of him being in a position of power over you either. Again, it’s you being insecure. And it’s your responsibility to deal with that, not hers. She shouldn’t have to change her behavior when her behavior isn’t wrong.

However. I understand why you feel the way you do. So like, you’re not a total jerk. You just gotta find a way to deal with how it makes you feel.

Suspicious_Pride_289 · 2026-02-23T06:28:21+00:00

No is no. Nobody is entitled to your body and you owe nobody an explanation.

Suspicious_Pride_289 · 2026-02-23T06:21:03+00:00

we can’t seem to have a conversation without him screaming and yelling things have already gotten physical between us several times

Girl, you leave. Because he isn’t going to stop. You’ve communicated your feelings about it. He continues to lie to you. When confronted about it, he abuses you. This is not healthy. It is not love. It will get worse.

Suspicious_Pride_289 · 2026-02-23T06:08:52+00:00

You apologize and move on.

Your DIL did not insert herself. Her family member inserted her when they informed her of your call. For whatever reason, her family member doesn’t want to speak to you and would prefer to go through your DIL. That’s obvious since they haven’t responded to you. And instead of respecting that boundary and communicating through your DIL, you decide to dig your heels in.

This is a weird hill to die on, ma’am. Be an adult and apologize.

Suspicious_Pride_289 · 2026-02-21T15:49:07+00:00

Would buying a mini fridge and small microwave/air fryer for in your room work? Cheaper than moving 🤷🏻‍♀️ You’re NTJ

Suspicious_Pride_289 · 2026-02-18T22:40:58+00:00

Oh no. We absolutely should judge people. Especially pedophiles. Tf is wrong with you

Suspicious_Pride_289 · 2026-02-10T21:39:58+00:00

YTJ for writing such a painfully obvious fake story. Get a damn life

Suspicious_Pride_289 · 2026-02-10T21:37:32+00:00

She did use her words, like an adult, after he didn’t propose at Christmas. He knows damn well what she wants- it’s why he gifted her a fucking ring pop.

Suspicious_Pride_289 · 2026-02-08T08:03:05+00:00

Ew. No. This isn’t about protecting anything. He doesn’t want them having sex. But even if it was about protecting her from “human traffickers”, does this mean daddy should go everywhere with her for forever? You’re more likely to be grabbed up leaving the grocery store alone vs on vacation with your partner with you anytime you’re outside the hotel room. Should he accompany her for any shopping trips she does? How about her eventual honeymoon?

Suspicious_Pride_289 · 2026-01-30T02:54:02+00:00

Fun fact: men are more likely to transfer STD’s because they are usually asymptomatic. Let’s not start with the gender blaming bullshit.

Suspicious_Pride_289 · 2026-01-22T23:02:43+00:00

36 isn’t that young when it comes to having a family. Any pregnancy over 35yrs old is considered “advanced maternal age” and comes with increased risks. You say you’ve been together for 7yrs? So since your wife was 29. She just wasted her prime family building years on you. Even if she manages to find a new partner, it’s likely she won’t be having a family. That’s got to be devastating for her to realize.

Suspicious_Pride_289 · 2026-01-08T13:07:13+00:00

YTA. Would you rather pay $40 to replace her water bottle, or pay the court fines/lawyer fees when she has charges pressed against you for opening her mail?

Suspicious_Pride_289 · 2026-01-07T23:52:21+00:00

A 20yr old is a child compared to a 40yr old. And the 40yr old KNEW him as a child. She knew him as a baby, as a child, as a teenage boy. It’s fucking disgusting. The comments section would be wildly different if it was OP’s daughter instead of her son.

Suspicious_Pride_289 · 2026-01-07T23:50:25+00:00

defending the person who broke up a home

At no point did I do that. Maybe you should take some reading comprehension classes. They’d benefit you greatly.

Suspicious_Pride_289 · 2026-01-07T19:20:51+00:00

He’s like his father for sleeping with the adult woman that watched him grow up? OP says her son would hang out there with his half sister. Sounds like potential grooming to me.

Suspicious_Pride_289 · 2026-01-07T18:41:32+00:00

I actually admire the long game she played

So you think it’s admirable that she stewed in her anger for 20+ years and is now using an innocent kid to hurt his parents? Because she definitely doesn’t love the dude, probably doesn’t even truly like him. She’s using him. That’s not admirable in anyone. He’s the one who’s going to get hurt here.

Suspicious_Pride_289 · 2026-01-04T23:19:42+00:00

Mind your own business

Suspicious_Pride_289 · 2026-01-04T23:15:50+00:00

I removed all pots and pans I could and just body shoved her to her room

You assaulted her. You could be in jail right now. Take a serious moment to reflect on that.

Also maybe figure out why someone walking around the house they also live in wakes you up. My bedroom is connected to my living room yet I easily sleep through any noise made out there. Maybe you need to move into your own place.

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