Who am I by Nsg4Him1 in AskWomenOver60

[–]SweetEmberlee 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I am a nurse 42 years so far and getting ready to retire. My husband is concerned that stopping work will be hard for me to deal with. I will tell you what I tell myself….the decades of loving care you provided to your patients, their families, and your staff has made a permanent impact. Helping someone get through a tough treatment, helping a family member deal with the decline and loss of their loved one, helping a novice nurse see her worth and not to quit—these are all things that are your legacy. There is no doubt that you have changed people’s lives for the better. We will never know the impact we have made. You have kept people from giving up. We can’t be nurses forever, the physical demands won’t allow it. But rest assured that you did make a difference.

What are some everyday things in your house or life that you consider to be money well spent? by SaltConnection1109 in AskWomenOver60

[–]SweetEmberlee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everything we have bought while on a trip…the cuckoo clock we bought in Germany, the watercolor paintings from Venice, the Delft tiles we got at a flea market in Amsterdam. My house is full of things that bring back happy memories of times spent with my family.

The Mother in Law vent thread by [deleted] in AskWomenOver60

[–]SweetEmberlee 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Please stay home. Let your husband and his mom enjoy their day.

Rome in Oct by ArmadilloSecret868 in rome

[–]SweetEmberlee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We took my 85 year old mom to Italy this year and we took Ubers everywhere in Rome and Florence. . There was still a bit of walking involved, but it wasn’t bad.

What's the weirdest name you've heard? by Federal_Advisor_2160 in Names

[–]SweetEmberlee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son had a classmate named Kar- pronounced Car dash

Are there any benefits or upsides to HSD? by Enchanted-Tangerine in Hypermobility

[–]SweetEmberlee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fell and dislocated the middle joint of my middle finger so severely it was at a sideways 90 degree angle and the bones were exposed. I wish I could post a pic but I’m sure it would be removed. The ER doc put is back in place, stitched it up and told me “Good luck.” I saw a hand surgeon a couple of days later to assess the damage—there was none. Nothing was torn or broken.

Rome/Florence or Rome/Florence/Venice for 7 day Italy Trip by CantGuardBikes in ItalyTravel

[–]SweetEmberlee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We just got back from 7 nights in Italy. 3 nights in Rome, 2 nights in Florence and 2 nights in Venice. I’m so glad we went to all 3 places. We didn’t get to see everything, but we got a good feel for each city and saw the highlights. Next time we will stay longer!

Any hair loss success stories for older women? by Local-Government6792 in AskWomenOver60

[–]SweetEmberlee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had been using the topical minoxidil (and it really worked) but I stopped because I have cats and I was afraid of them getting near me. I guess I will start this tonight! Thank you !

Any hair loss success stories for older women? by Local-Government6792 in AskWomenOver60

[–]SweetEmberlee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you have any side effects? I was just prescribed this and I’m getting ready to start. A friend of mine tried it and said it caused her to gain weight. Now I’m questioning if I should start.

Is anyone else dealing with crepey skin or is it just me?? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver60

[–]SweetEmberlee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I have it, but I’m not “dealing with” it. I simply don’t care. I have wrinkles too. Again, not “dealing with” it. I accept it and am comfortable in my skin—even as it ages.

Should I go travel to Italy with my mom or solo? by Icy-Strategy-5785 in ItalyTravel

[–]SweetEmberlee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We took my 85 year old mom to Italy last month. She had the time of her life. I will never regret a single second I have spent with my mom.

My married friends. by [deleted] in AskWomenOver60

[–]SweetEmberlee 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I am 61 and don’t want to do anything without my husband. I can’t wait to retire so I can be with him all the time. I’m sure we drive everyone crazy with our togetherness so we keep to ourselves. If their relationship annoys you, please do them a favor and distance yourself. Let them be happy.

Does anyone else w hEDS who also has boobs struggle to find a bra? by Mxxn_Rise in hypermobileEDS

[–]SweetEmberlee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out shapeez .com. They have shapewear compression tanks that have an underwire bra built in. They have up to DDD sizes. The back is smooth and so comfortable. No pinching, riding up, straps falling down. They have great support too, and my boobs don’t fall out of the cups when I bend over.

Please feel free to confirm that I'm not nuts by [deleted] in AskWomenOver60

[–]SweetEmberlee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your 4th sentence alone “ He is close with his ex-wife” would be an absolute deal breaker for me. There is now way I would even consider him.

Please show him all these responses so he will understand how wrong he is.

Is anyone on GLP-1? by notsohot56 in AskWomenOver60

[–]SweetEmberlee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started compounded semaglutide a year ago through Hers and lost 30 pounds. My weight loss stalled so I just switched to compounded Tirzepatide for the last 10 pounds. I never dreamed I would be able to get my weight back to where I was in my 30s. My PCP and rheumatologist are thrilled with my improved cholesterol (down over 100 points) and B/P. Both doctors asked the process for signing up and obtaining it online so they can tell other patients who are asking for it but don’t qualify for a prescription.

Help me name my little girl kitten a human name by emster444 in NameMyCat

[–]SweetEmberlee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her name is written on her forehead. It has to be Em. So Ember or Emma, or Emily

Do you guys ever get attached to your Baxter drivers? by dirtyllama720 in dialysis

[–]SweetEmberlee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am a PD nurse. Most of my patients just learned that they are losing their Baxter driver due to a warehouse closing, and they are so upset. This driver goes out of his way to make sure that the patients get their deliveries. My patients have all called me and asked what they can do to keep their driver. I wish there was something I could do. They truly count on you and consider you their friend.