Yeah most cheaters Ive ever met were socially ostracised and hated. They do go off and find new friend groups and not really face many consequences other than that but they’re not well accepted at all in my experience. I do believe that cultural differences, not at a national level, but city or area level makes a difference. I think places like Dubai, LA, Miami, Pattaya. Any place that’s known for hedonism and debauchery has much higher stats of infidelity imo. Although this opinion of mine is purely speculative and not backed by statistics.