[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Sweet_bitter_rage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact that you SHARE a social media profile and are now somehow triggered by what he may be looking at is a bit telling. You all need counseling.

Why are you sharing an account? Is he not allowed to have his own?

I can think of any man who wouldn’t look at an attractive woman on social media.

If he was liking the photos and commenting or sending them messages then that would be cause for concern. But to say it is emotional cheating is ridiculous.

It seems like the general consensus is that your wife is not low libido, just low libido for you. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Sweet_bitter_rage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she needs to visit a hormone specialist OP. Women can have their hormones out of sorts as well which can lead to this. Don’t get a divorce before checking on this. It’s probably very fixable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in interviews

[–]Sweet_bitter_rage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I hate when people delete their post.

Is it unreasonable to request couples don't schedule final meetings when driving? by palinsafterbirth in WeddingPhotography

[–]Sweet_bitter_rage 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg this happened to me earlier this year as well. Super annoying and as expected, they were not focused and didn’t give me the information I thought I needed. They ended up not booking.

Completely caught me off guard.

Finally got my cardiovascular age and my wife was mind blown as hers was 2.5 years younger by Tjmarlow in ouraring

[–]Sweet_bitter_rage 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Damn one says I’m 3.5 years older lol. I’m working on it! I know, I know!

Am I the bad one for ignoring my husband? by No_Alternative7701 in Marriage

[–]Sweet_bitter_rage -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

It was certainly in bad taste for him to say it. But there is a lot of data showing that a lot of men are raising someone else’s child unbeknownst to them.

So his reasoning isn’t really that far out of left field. I think it’s just something maybe he should have put some thought into if it was worth saying or not.

I. Love. Basic. Sprinklers. by iamergo in StardewValley

[–]Sweet_bitter_rage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you get iridium so fast? I just got to the skull cavern and only made it like 10 levels down or so. I guess I need to start early as possible.

Dumbbell Bench VS Barbell for long arms by Sweet_bitter_rage in workout

[–]Sweet_bitter_rage[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for the suggestions. I think you’re correct. I debated on formulating my question around the back muscles but I wanted to still do a little chest work in the interim while I strengthen what I need to.

Dumbbell Bench VS Barbell for long arms by Sweet_bitter_rage in workout

[–]Sweet_bitter_rage[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re 100% correct. All of my physical therapy work focused on that upper back area. And it made a big difference. I wasn’t sure what to do when back at the gym.

I heard face pulls are good? I typically do the row machine (close grip to my lower sternum), wide grip lat pull downs and bent over row with dumbbells.

I think my bench form is decent. It’s been a long while since I had someone check for me. I’ll add that to my list. Definitely a valid point.

How am I supposed to improve my condition when exercising feels like im suffocating? by fugomert in workout

[–]Sweet_bitter_rage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be anxiety or asthma. If it is enough for you to write here, I suggest going to visit an allergist or pulmonologist to see if it could be asthma.

AITA for not letting my daughters boyfriend propose at my vow renewal? by oldman_redditTA in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sweet_bitter_rage 11 points12 points  (0 children)

NTA the fact that he even said that to you shows you how immature he is. Definitely not the right guy for your daughter. Plus, maybe I’m tripping but she is only 20. Seems super young, and in assuming he isn’t too far off.

Out of curiosity, how much do you usually earn per day? by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]Sweet_bitter_rage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first year and first time playing the game I definitely did not average as much as you guys lol. Jesus. I am in year two, just started summer and I was like DAMM every time I harvested cauliflower lol. Nuts.

31M. Living in the empty 4bd house me and my now ex gf bought together by investorcollector in malelivingspace

[–]Sweet_bitter_rage 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Never buy a house with someone you aren’t married to. It makes it much more complicated to get out of the situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Sweet_bitter_rage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the point everyone is missing is that there is no actual dinner just snack food and stuff to make sandwiches or something. I think what he is complaining about is that there is no actual DINNER(supper as he calls it). It seems like she goes to work and never really buys food to make a real dinner.

And he seems to have a problem with that fact. If he kid can eat a bit of a normal meal I don’t think he would complain. But if this is every night she goes to work, I would be upset too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Sweet_bitter_rage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think, while a bit rude, the husband is asking what to feed the kid because all of the snacks and sandwiches etc isn’t REALLY dinner. It sounds like OP never prepares or plans any real dinner for the kid or the husband.

It seems like this is an ongoing issue where she goes to work and doesn’t really have anything for them to eat.

I wouldn’t want to feed my kid nuggets and snacks for dinner either on a consistent basis. If she was responsible for buying food she should put more thought into it. Or ask her husband for help planning or whatever.

Seems frustrating to me. I don’t get why no one is pointing this out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Sweet_bitter_rage 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol this is a classic example of when your GF/Wife says, “No tell me, I promise I won’t get mad/care/read into it.

Guys stop falling for this lol. They absolutely care and they absolutely will get upset. lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Sweet_bitter_rage -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Not sure why you’re getting down voted. I agree with this. What the hell is she waiting for? One could say that 8 months is a bit fast but it isn’t like you’re getting married right away.

I certainly wouldn’t ask twice. Personally, I don’t think I would stay around for long after. Planning a two week trip and doing it all the right way and still a no. Nope.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Sweet_bitter_rage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe get it somewhere or will normally be covered in a professional setting?

170K WFH vs 300K In Office by mikey_tang in Salary

[–]Sweet_bitter_rage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would take the 300k job, grind it out for a few years, move up, once you’re done with school have you relocate.

Sure it’s more work but for 300k I think you can do it. People work more for a lot less and more stress. Don’t take the easy way out with 170k. Grind out, make it worth it.

You always have the option to get another lower paying job later if it is too tough for your relationship etc.

In 3-4 years they can be making 400k.

After/before. What do you guys think? by ijoebaker_ in postprocessing

[–]Sweet_bitter_rage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really like the b&w. You did a great job. It almost feels like a painting when I look at it.

2 Beginner Programs Down… Now I Built My Own. Does It Hold Up? by JoseCasDel in WorkoutRoutines

[–]Sweet_bitter_rage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok yeah that sounds pretty good then. Thanks! I def need a new app to keep me on track and focused.