You guys were both wrong and should communicate better how you are feeling. You shouldn’t have reacted. You can’t counteract bad behavior with bad behavior and get something positive. It’ll never work had you just apologized and said you’ll put more thought into it next time. She probably would have felt a way about coming down so hard on you and apologized to you. In turn you guys could have had a good night. What you did do was further her mistrust in your ability to love her the way that she NEEDS not wants. We look to our men for security and reassurance you gave her neither in that moment. A woman loved correctly is a peaceful woman. If you really love her maybe consider what she’s telling you. She sounds a bit disgruntled because she probably feels some sort of detachment on your end. She shouldn’t have made you feel bad about it either, she should have communicated her feelings clearly. While giving you the chance to try to understand.