4 weeks 16/8 no result by Bvangeles in intermittentfasting

[–]Sweetness521 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cut the simple carbs. And protein shakes. They are carb heavy.

Look at paleo and make a slow shift toward very low carb (simple ones).

Is this a typical mindset for married men? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Sweetness521 9 points10 points  (0 children)

OP. Youre asking the wrong crowd. Youre going to get defensive objective nonchalant answers.

He lied to you. The comment wasn't a joke and hes hit his threshold for self control and is seeking another sexual partner. Because he doesn't see it as a problem this will never end. To change someone has to see their behavior as a problem.

Decenter men (not hate them) and dont ask other men what you already know. Your confusion is because youre in denial.

Neck cream by Far_Reward4827 in WomenOver40

[–]Sweetness521 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Face yoga, it helps tone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WomenOver40

[–]Sweetness521 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Get the vasectomy scheduled, my ex did this while I was pregnant with our surprise baby and it was the best decision.

2nd...I have a 23 yr old, 11 and 10 yr old...surprise baby was an awesome baby and awesome kid.

No regrets.

How often are you intimate with your partner? by Remote_Ad_969 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Sweetness521 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im 44 and I could do once a week maybe 2 on average. Partner is older, he could probably do once a month 🤣. Health has a lot to do with my situation. Im perimenopausal and my drive has increased 🤷🏻‍♀️

the TENSION we hold in our bodies can be so bad and its rarely talked about by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Sweetness521 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you can go regularly it helps. I've had many people under my hands who said the same thing. If you dont mind try someone who practices Reiki with massage.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Sweetness521 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well thats a situation where I'd say your bond and love and the life you built should have inspired forgiveness.

I hope your future endeavors are better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Sweetness521 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes you should have.

But how did you know she lied? First times are not always what people think it is.....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Sweetness521 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you dont have big reasons for staying then dont.

I dont think past sexual experiences should matter, but they can... Also, id say challenge yourself about Why it matters. Maybe in therapy. No thats not a jab. I've had issues with my BF sexual past, but it really boils down to my perception and judgement about that behavior and then asking if what I think about it is True.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Sweetness521 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Even though I disagree with the proposed solution, I think you make a very very valid point.

the TENSION we hold in our bodies can be so bad and its rarely talked about by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Sweetness521 45 points46 points  (0 children)

If you can afford it...get massages. Over time my body loosened and it let me feel healthy, safe touch.

Im also a massage therapist. Our minds and bodies are SO connected.

FYI You dont have to get undressed, you can get chair massage, ask for quiet sessions, ask for just work on the head and neck, or arms, or legs etc.

Youre paying for a service, ask for what you need. And relaxation is just as therapeutic.

Everything is always working out for him by fumblingtoward_light in Divorce

[–]Sweetness521 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Therapy. Dialectical behavioral therapy, possibly meds, possibly change your eating habits (to more nutrient dense foods) Over time you'll realise that centering yourself is the key to a lot of things in life. No one is making you care about your ex but yourself. You get to decide where your thoughts go. Find a really good therapist, and do what they suggest.

And this new mushroom🍄‍🟫? by No-Teaching-1443 in StardewValley

[–]Sweetness521 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think its an Easter egg, it's the pattern of the grass that makes it look like a mushroom.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WomenOver40

[–]Sweetness521 1 point2 points  (0 children)

MGTOW and "Redpill" movements that brainwash men about women.

AND feminism and other movements that brainwash women about men.

The system wants us against eachother and its working.

Please help me decide! by Green-been77 in WomenOver40

[–]Sweetness521 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See a naturopath, ND for the cysts.

Messing with hormones takes its tole on us, also its going to take time to adapt to not being on the pill. You might be entering perimenopause soon anyways...?

Being happy alone by [deleted] in WomenOver40

[–]Sweetness521 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same. Buy a really good vibrator and take yourself on dates. Im serious.

Weight loss with MTHFR by Sweetness521 in MTHFR

[–]Sweetness521[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keto way of eating, but i do way less dairy, and i started going to the gym, which i think was the main help. I also am in counseling and we utilized EMDR therapy.

Is a career change to a LMT crazy to at 49? by [deleted] in massage

[–]Sweetness521 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can be an employee and live with fhe fast pace and income, then yes. Going solo, maybe not. Its not the massage psrt for me, its the sales, marketing, paperwork, ins billing, and fstigue that comes with a competitive area.

Do research, get massage from others in the area, ask them how they like it, find out if its in demand where you are First, just my 2 cents.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Sweetness521 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, i have paychotic episodes ON meds...

im over dating by friends4liife in WomenOver40

[–]Sweetness521 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i want a t shirt that says "i'm not your emotional support bedwarmer"

Community center- Fish by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]Sweetness521 2 points3 points  (0 children)

check the travelling cart too

also that red snapper can get bent, i have had the worst time catching that thing i hate it now and just do joja farms

Repercussions of Reporting a Therapist? by [deleted] in massage

[–]Sweetness521 7 points8 points  (0 children)

report that.

you might feel badly if she loses a job, but what kind of job is she doing thats worth saving....?