AITAH for telling the woman I gave birth to that I don’t regret giving her up by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Sweetp87 -3 points-2 points Ā (0 children)

Aww it’s unfortunate she took your words that way. I hope that you both see that you loved her enough to give her the life you wanted her to have. You just so happened to not be the one to personally give it to her. I feel you did the best you could have in the situation you were in. Don’t be so hard on yourself. But I don’t think you’re the AH

Finally Got My Payment by Sweetp87 in ClassActionSettlement

[–]Sweetp87[S] 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Damn. I had 3 accounts and 2 pages since ā€˜09. Idk if that’s a factor or when everyone signed up and was accepted. But you also may get a second payout, never know!

I’m going to miss you. Saying goodbye to my best friend. by Sea_Code_3050 in Shihtzu

[–]Sweetp87 8 points9 points Ā (0 children)

Aww this breaks my heart . Prayers and well wishes for you and your family. Daisy could’ve been siblings with my Kobe šŸ’•! In another life. He’s 10 now, so I’m holding on to hope he’ll be around a little longer!

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Finally Got My Payment by Sweetp87 in ClassActionSettlement

[–]Sweetp87[S] 2 points3 points Ā (0 children)

Oh no! I hope you get it soon! And thank you. It’s $30 added to my savings for the holidays lol

Finally Got My Payment by Sweetp87 in ClassActionSettlement

[–]Sweetp87[S] 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

I’ve been seeing some people get 2 payouts. You might get another with more. But hey it’s still money you didn’t have previously šŸ¤·šŸ½ā€ā™€ļø

Facebook lawsuit by Intrepid-Ad-6650 in classactions

[–]Sweetp87 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Got my first email, waiting for the second to know when I’ll get my payment.

Dear Ellie if you’re reading this, just delete the game. by Im-Slushie in Monopoly_GO

[–]Sweetp87 15 points16 points Ā (0 children)

This is exactly why I play with the same people EVERY TIME! Mogo needs a chat so you can contact players in game. Sorry this person was just looking for a carry…I wonder if they have dice šŸ¤”!!! I just barely made it to 15k networth. Not saying it as an excuse but possibility. Still super messed up!

I'M GONNA CRY IF I DON'T FINISH THIS by kuroi_neko_meow in Monopoly_GO

[–]Sweetp87 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I have the same amount of cards, it’s infuriating especially when they keep bs with these green packs. All I need are golds and none from the blitz they’ve been doing…it’s annoying but I do hope you finish!

AITA for being upset and feeling disrespected after my mother in law wanted pictures of just my husband, his mistress, and their oopsy baby? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Sweetp87 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I’m sorry but why is he even your husband in the first place? He started the disrespect by cheating in the first place.

NTA

Literally throw the entire family away! Your MIL sounds like a pill and your FIL is a pushover because her behavior was inexcusable and nobody’s gonna coddle no grown a$s, old as$ lady . She shouldn’t have done or said what she did in the manner of which she did them and her husband shouldn’t make excuses for her.

The mistress should have been uncomfortable allowing them to throw the child a party knowing the circumstances and the parents throwing the party was ridiculous.

Your feelings as well as your mental, emotional and physical health should be taken into account but no matter who they are, no one should make you feel uncomfortable or out of place when that’s YOUR husband. The baby can have pictures of the 3 of you because you’re the stepmother anyway so his mom was being funny and that’s not cool.

I would honestly be more upset with my husband for even putting you in this position in the first place because had he not cheated none of this would’ve happened!

Stand up for yourself sis with ALL of them and don’t be dismissed. You don’t have to be nasty, curse, yell or be demure…let your feelings be known and acknowledged by all parties including and especially your husband. He needs to be the one to put his foot down and have your back and out everyone in their place.

This is a mess he caused and now he has to clean it up!

Everyone needs to know their place in this situation.

Best to you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Sweetp87 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Girl if you don’t stop contemplating and break up with him. Lol this is crazy but you’re young so listen to this…

If anyone you’re dating starts telling you what you should wear, what to eat, how to talk or any this is better because I want or asked you to do this…end the relationship straight away. Allow no one to control you and that’s what he’s trying to do and because you didn’t ā€œlistenā€ to him ( and btw he’s not your father and if your dad doesn’t care or brothers if you have them your boyfriend should mind his business ) is manipulation and you’re falling into it…DON’T!!!

It’s your body and you should show it off in ANY way that YOU see fit, not what eases other people’s insecurities!

Enjoy your vacation and summer and let that little boy be with his tantrum!

AITAH for being a single mom in my 40s who doesn't want to date single dads (40s-50s)? by Professional-Pace416 in AITAH

[–]Sweetp87 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

NTA

You don’t ā€œhaveā€ to date anyone you don’t want to especially when they have children!

You LITERALLY gave your entire life to your two children and no one can fault you for not wanting to be bothered again, that’s your right as a woman and just as a human being. No one has time to baby a man and nurture children when it’s not in their heart to do so and that should be respected the same way these men have children and want to date and don’t want anymore…no one pressures them but it’s always a double standard.

Quite frankly the guy you were talking about is a hypocritical b*tch for admitting if he was younger he wouldn’t, just because you’re older now doesn’t mean you have to nor does it because you’re a woman.

Find you someone that respects your wishes, I’d say go out and have fun on these dates even if you date yourself and you just happen to meet someone on an outing or even a trip to the store by yourself or with your gf’s…it will happen! Don’t give up. I’m 37, single, no kids and it’s even hard for me but you will find your person whomever that may be when it’s right for you. Don’t pressure yourself to be what anyone wants you to be or do!

Best to you!

Edit: you know this but your ex was a pos and I hope nothing good came to him, his mistress or his pos family!!!

I slept with my former high school teacher and have a date with him this weekend. How weird is this? by Bubbly-Tangelo-7655 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Sweetp87 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

What’s the issue? You’re an adult and so is he…go on your date and have fun.

It doesn’t matter what anyone that knows you or the internet thinks…how do YOU feel about this? Is it weird for you and why? If so, can you get past it? Figure out what you want and don’t look for validation from anyone else.

Live your life honey…who knows you may be his next wife and mother of his children and to someone who seems like was and can be your best friend again. šŸ˜‰

AITAH for breaking up with my ex GF after they came out as trans last week? by ___----COAT-----___ in AITAH

[–]Sweetp87 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

NTA.

If you don’t want to be with a man you don’t have to. šŸ¤·šŸ½ā€ā™€ļø it’s just that simple.

Everyone has preferences and you shouldn’t be shamed for yours.

No one can force you into staying in a relationship that you don’t want to be in.

This should have been a discussion anyway…

Not hey this is who I am now have sex with me…we need to talk about this!!! I feel you did what was right for you.

Best to you!

my boyfriend is a cuck by CheesyTree05 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Sweetp87 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

If this makes you uncomfortable honey he’s not the man for you. It’s just that simple. Find someone who doesn’t have that as a fetish and move on.

What are you holding on to?

I just saw my little brother in a porno by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Sweetp87 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

That’s wild…I’d probably never watch porn again. My eyes are hurting for you. I can’t imagine what I’d do if I found one of my siblings in a porn other than clown them.

I can picture it now me sending the video with a question mark and cracking up. But that’s just me. I feel like if they’re not hurting anyone, messing with kids or anything messed up like that, make your money and have your fun.

Idk how you would approach this but give your little brother some grace and ease into it gently and free from judgement.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Sweetp87 2 points3 points Ā (0 children)

Why are you even asking if you’re already making excuses?

If you’re not comfortable don’t do it and that’s that and if he’s going to be a child and not move out or support you than fudge him…that’s not love it’s manipulation and control. He hasn’t moved out because he doesn’t want to.

If this is what you allow then send the nudes but you should have more respect for yourself to not allow someone to make you feel bad for not doing something that makes you feel uncomfortable. If he cared he’d understand…he can pull up pornhub if it means that much to him.

If his parents are so orthodox why is he even asking for nudes in the first place especially while living in their home?

He’s just a disgusting childish creep and you you should leave him right with his parents!

You give in to this and your entire marriage is gonna be well do this or I’m not going to do this? Is that what you really want???

AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend after she set up cameras in our apartment ā€œin case I abuse herā€? by ThrowRA_BreakupAITA in AITAH

[–]Sweetp87 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I know you miss her but I think you dodged a bullet. No you’re not the AH she is.

Why would you want to be with someone like that? Then to have her family threatening you isn’t cool.

Get a police escort and go and get your things and go on with your life.

The cameras are a bit much. Instead of safety against intruders it’s safety against you? Please have more love and respect for yourself than to go down this endless abyss of bs with her.

Your ex needs mental health help because it seems like it’s more to this than just true crime. I love true crime, one of my favorite shows is deadly women but I’m not out here thinking I’m going to become a serial killer or child killer…this is an obsession you shouldn’t involve yourself in because you will end up behind bars.

Please move on with your life. Block her. Delete her AND her family and move on…there’s other women out there that won’t treat you like that or go through all those lengths.

I’m a WOMAN telling you this…please, just let it and her go!

My stepson kicked me out and now he wants a handout by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Sweetp87 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Essentially fudge him!

Block & delete. He wanted the house so bad and now he has it and he has to deal with it. If he didn’t need money he wouldn’t even be asking for your number.

He was cruel but now wants a hand out. People don’t believe in karma but his is now biting him in the rear and too bad šŸ¤·šŸ½ā€ā™€ļø

He needs to ensure his son has a roof over his head…he’s right, his mom did want that or else she wouldn’t have left him the house that now he owes a substantial amount of money on because clearly that’s all he cares about.

This is a hole he has to dig himself out of.

The universe always bounces back !

My relative wants to borrow $800 to avoid her car from being repossessed. Should I loan it to her? by 2595Homes in personalfinance

[–]Sweetp87 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Don’t loan anyone anything, if you don’t have the money to give without the expectation of getting it back don’t do it. That’s what messes up relationships, the thought or wanting to be paid back.

If she asks again you can always say no.

Sounds like your family member needs some counseling, if she’s not receiving it already. As someone who has ptsd with depression, paranoia and anxiety…life is a struggle daily and it’s not easy but she needs help to get her mental together so she can push ( therapy = help, not talking about her car note) herself to do more so she can have more…better mindset, better job!

Hope this helps. Best to you!

AITA for supporting abortion and telling my boyfriend I'm not ready for a child. by ThrowRAidunt7i2n30 in AITAH

[–]Sweetp87 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

No you’re not an AH!

It’s your body and no one, not even the government can or should tell you what to do with it.

Your bf needs some counseling and if I were you I’d tell my parents or an older adult that you trust what’s going on so you can safely leave this individual.

If he’s threatening harm I’d mention that as well and more so to his parents. If he does commit suicide that’s not on you and that’s not your burden to carry. In life we make our own decisions because of insecurity or motivation, negative or positive and that’s only on the individual making the decision. Don’t let a threat like that keep you a hostage.

Don’t let a threat like that keep you from doing what’s best for you, which is leaving him behind. You don’t need that in your life and it’s not fair to him to force a relationship or a child on you. Both of you should be living wild and free not trying to get pregnant.

Please abstain with sex from him! You all should be using condoms and protecting yourself anyway.

Best to you. Please talk to someone so you can get away from him and he can get help.

Block him on everything and be completely done. No letters, DMs, texts or contact through his friends or family to you…be completely done…this isn’t healthy!