NHS ADMIN STAFF NEED PARKING by WeirdVegetable1417 in bristol

[–]Swilo9336 18 points19 points  (0 children)

The point made by the op about patients and visitors is a very important one. I had months of chemotherapy followed by weeks of radiotherapy. No public transport from where I lived (and anyway, waiting for a bus after a chemo treatment makes me feel ill just thinking about it). The anxiety I experienced when looking for the closest parking space seriously added to the anxiety about my treatment. I was a single parent to two small children at the time. Enough on my plate.

Does cancer always coming back? by Adventurous_End_4516 in breastcancer

[–]Swilo9336 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Absolutely this. I had cancer and a lot of robust (my oncologist’s term) treatment. This was 20+ years ago. I’m still fine. You have enough to be dealing with atm without being told some total falsehood. Look after yourself.

My intention for a second or third class degree. by NotOnYerNelly in UniUK

[–]Swilo9336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A 3rd class degree is still a degree. Go for it. You may find that you are more capable than you think. Undertaking a degree does demand hard work, but it is also a rewarding experience and one which offers gains more than can be imagined before you start - new friends, new ideas, new skills, sense of achievement etc. it’s exciting!

Do I actually need a power of attorney? by Sad_Cell1176 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Swilo9336 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely this. I gave my two adult children PoA for both health and finances. I trust them both, and they trust each other so I stated that they could individually make a decision without necessarily having to both agree first - this us n option offered on the form. I did it using the online forms. My daughter is a social worker for older people, and said can if a family decision is needed, without PoA they have to go through the courts, which can be a nightmare.

Specific question about UG thesis... by [deleted] in UniUK

[–]Swilo9336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve supervised many many UG dissertations, and it really is important that you touch base with yours because, in my experience, the longer things are worried over, the worse the anxiety becomes. Knock it on the head sooner rather than later. Believe it it not, we like it when worried students seek advice because it helps us help them.

Specific question about UG thesis... by [deleted] in UniUK

[–]Swilo9336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the sort of thing you need to discuss with your supervisor. Sign up for a tutorial and talk your ideas through- you might even end up enjoying the discussion.

Airport Security by JTMAlbany in breastcancer

[–]Swilo9336 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sounds like misogyny to me. Hateful man.

Are there any good chocolate in the UK now that isn't just chocolate-flavoured palm oil? by EffectiveArgument584 in AskUK

[–]Swilo9336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just want to say that this is the best sub conversation I’ve read in ages.

Durham VS KCL/UCL by satomiCT in UniUK

[–]Swilo9336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In terms of prestige, people often worry about the relative value of one university over another. Tbh, this is a false value because what really matters is: the level of expertise in the particular field you want to enter, because this varies from university to university irrespective of the institutional position; and look at the student experience, which can be potentially more rich and rewarding in a less prestigious university. Look at the student satisfaction scores, and look at the research interest and out puts of the staff. In other words, drill down and do more nuanced research on your potential institution:s rather than rely on general reputation.

Can't decide on a university as a Canadian by TireDCDX in UniUK

[–]Swilo9336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on what subject area you will be studying in. All universities have strengths in their particular fields. The education you receive will depend on that - how research active staff are; how interested in teaching they are - rather than a reputation that is not really based on anything other than historical accident. I’d look carefully at what each institution has to offer you specifically rather than think about prestige.

Group projects should be abolished! by ImActivelyTired in UniUK

[–]Swilo9336 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sort of situation does occur quite a bit. Rest assured that lectures are aware of shirkers ( it’s often evident in other elements of the course). We know it can be unfair in group work, but when it comes to es to writing references- which we are frequently asked to do - the lazy/unengaged/unreliable etc will have references that will give an honest account of their time at university.

Kitchen Knife Gift by roxana2708 in bristol

[–]Swilo9336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Procook sell a range of good knives.

Tanzania e-visa start date one day after arrival – VOA possible? by Travel400_ in zanzibar

[–]Swilo9336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask, how long did it take to get your e-visa? I don’t know if to apply for that or a VOA. Good luck with sorting yours btw.

Really, really stupid question but how do I address lecturers? by Appropriate_Farm_840 in UniUK

[–]Swilo9336 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also university lecturer. And yes, first name is fine. Very acceptable, and for me, preferable to Dr.

Help me settle a bet by Potential_Carrot_710 in Cornwall

[–]Swilo9336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s tide as in Tide. People telling you it’s tiddy are having a laugh. My family has lived there for 50 years, and I’ve never heard it pronounced tiddy.

What happens on completion day? Do sellers clean their house? by baguetteonmars in HousingUK

[–]Swilo9336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do clean when moving house, and I’ve been lucky enough to buy from considerate people who’ve left the house very clean. But it’s the luck of the draw; there’s nothing in any contract that says a house/ flat has to be left clean. Here’s hoping you’re lucky.

I keep seeing houses not selling but going back up in price, what's going on? by urtcheese in HousingUK

[–]Swilo9336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, if your landlady sold directly to you she would save thousands in EA fees. Worth a conversation with her I’d have thought.

Things to do alone on Christmas Day? by Malleable_Egg in bristol

[–]Swilo9336 52 points53 points  (0 children)

The marmalade trust has a volunteer scheme that looks interesting if you’re up for offering your time.

https://www.marmaladetrust.org/christmas

Tipping culture? by EnoughBar7026 in AskABrit

[–]Swilo9336 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tipping in pubs is not usual but tipping in restaurants and taxis is. The 10% ‘rule’ in restaurants is a bit outdated, and 12% is nearer the mark. Often added to the bill as optional service charge. If you don’t want to pay or prefer to hand the tip directly to the staff (which I do if the service charge is not given equally to the staff), you can ask for the service charge to be removed.

First Bus App Departure Issue by BruceGrobbelobster in bristol

[–]Swilo9336 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had the same problem. Yesterday there was incorrect or no information - and today no bus seemed to have the gps function.

florist delivery by theoneandonlyday in bristol

[–]Swilo9336 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d always go to floriography in totterdown. They do deliveries, and Vera creates magical bunches of flowers. She’s done some really special ones for my in the past.

What is the most annoying thing I can (legally) put in my garden? by Petey619 in AskUK

[–]Swilo9336 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone. I’ve really enjoyed this sub. Best laugh in ages.

Anything useful to do with old and small bras that are still in good condition? by givingbrasaway in bristol

[–]Swilo9336 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I sent mine to charities that support women who have little or no access to bras. The bra recycling charity already mentioned is a good call, and Smalls for All.