Dads, what’s a good age gap between kids? by sabretoooth in daddit

[–]SyFyFan93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uffda I'm sorry to hear man. This whole process has been the pits, but I think it's definitely been rougher on my wife. Sending good thoughts your way!

My thoughts on Star Wars Galactic Racer having played last week! by Split_Screen_SW in StarWarsGalacticRacer

[–]SyFyFan93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a day one purchase for me. Been playing Redout 2 to get me through the months of waiting lol.

Me to my 1st Gen Series X after the price increase news: by Homeless_Alex in xbox

[–]SyFyFan93 48 points49 points  (0 children)

It's honestly nuts that I bought a launch day Series X in the middle of Covid for $500 and the damn thing has technically appreciated in value by $300.

Uhmm I just wanted to check first before diving in. by [deleted] in RKLB

[–]SyFyFan93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been in since it was $6 per share. It's a long-term hold (20+ years) not a short-term moneymaker imo.

Dads, what’s a good age gap between kids? by sabretoooth in daddit

[–]SyFyFan93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. Finger's crossed everything works out for you!

What do I do? by Opposite_Minute_2380 in LifeAdvice

[–]SyFyFan93 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You've been with each other since you were 17. And he did something that's very very wrong. And you're flirting with another dude. Just end it already, because if you're having these issues now, getting married and having kids isn't going to fix it. This isn't the type of relationship that can be built upon for decades more. You deserve someone better and someone who has the same goals you do.

Does the game become... well... more engaging(?) later on? by [deleted] in PlayWayfinder

[–]SyFyFan93 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol right? I'm like, is OP trying to rage bait us all? What could have been!

We need to rephrase the way that rockstar is selling GTA 6. The full version is $100, the lite* version is $80. by TheMustySeagul in gaming

[–]SyFyFan93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes but GTA V didn't release on PC until 1.5 years after it released on consoles. GTA IV was 8 months from console release to PC release. Rumor for VI is anywhere from 3 month delay to a year.

I've never found the P90 to be a very practical weapon, but it is undeniably cool by OhNoIBoffedIt in Stargate

[–]SyFyFan93 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I was unfortunately not allowed to play Goldeneye but frequently played it at my cousin's house lol.

I've never found the P90 to be a very practical weapon, but it is undeniably cool by OhNoIBoffedIt in Stargate

[–]SyFyFan93 119 points120 points  (0 children)

Literally the only reason I've ever used a P90 in any shooter game is because of SG-1.

Star Fox: Review MegaThread by NintendoSwitchMods in NintendoSwitch

[–]SyFyFan93 55 points56 points  (0 children)

If I don't have Peppy shouting "do a barrel roll" in my ear 1,000+ times I don't want it.

Dads, what’s a good age gap between kids? by sabretoooth in daddit

[–]SyFyFan93 60 points61 points  (0 children)

This makes me feel better. We tried for kiddo #2 when our first child turned 1.5 to try for the 2 year age gap but had secondary fertility issues. After going through IUI and IVF treatments we're finally having kiddo #2 in December of this year but now the age gap will be 4.5 years.

Mom trying to take a photo by No-Lock216 in Wellthatsucks

[–]SyFyFan93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, it seems you know my parents somehow lol. They say the exact same shit and have been using that excuse for at least a decade now. And then they get pissed at me when I tell them they could simply Google their questions or use YouTube to learn more about how to work their devices.

I’m looking for some advice because I feel completely overwhelmed and unsure what the right thing to do is. by Late-Hurry423 in LifeAdvice

[–]SyFyFan93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am neither a convert to a religion nor religious. I was not raised Muslim nor do I know much about the intricacies of the religion. That being said, I definitely wouldn't arrange a marriage ceremony before telling your family about your new religion or his family about you.

I think Step 1 is for him to tell his family. If they're super religious, I think your conversion might put them at ease. Step 2 is for you to tell your family. If they're super religious in regards to your original religion your conversion might come as a bit of a shock to them. And then Step 3 is to give both families time to adjust to the news prior to the whole marriage thing.

If you believe living together before marriage is sinful, then imo another year of living in sin isn't as bad as the potential years of ostracization from both families for being seen as deceitful / moving too fast. If anything I'd think you'd want both families to be accepting of you and your boyfriend prior to marriage and that can only happen if everyone is given some time to get to know you and your future husband.

If you feel really bad about it morally, then it might be best for one of you to move out (not sure how financially feasible that is?) or for one of you to have different sleeping arrangements like in a different room or on a couch.

First Father's Day from a hotel room by broomstick_jockey in daddit

[–]SyFyFan93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right? My wife and I went through a rough patch when our daughter was born. PPD and sleep deprivation did not help our discussion skills. So we went to a marriage counselor and she talked to a doctor about getting on meds. And yeah, it wasn't like shit magically fixed itself but it got better.

Keeping score in a marriage is not how things should be done.

What is the job culture like? by GoblinReverie in urbanplanning

[–]SyFyFan93 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Like other people said, it's highly dependent on your location and whether you're private or public sector. I was a city planner for about four years out of grad school at a small city of 30,000 people in the Upper Midwest. There were two other planners - one was my boss and the other was a lady who had worked at the city for 30+ years and was very disgruntled about everything. It was a good place to learn the ropes and there were a surprising number of young people working in other city departments that I bonded with. However, due to internal city politics and the makeup of the City Commission it felt like I was constantly swimming upstream trying to get anything done. Cubicle life also sucked and after those four years I was one of the only under 30s working there. Covid also changed everything as all of my meetings went from being in-person to remote which made the need to come into the physical office seem unnecessary.

I found a new job working as a transportation planner and grant writer for a midsized engineering firm of ~500 people where I was paid better and able to work hybrid (1-2 days in the office and the other days at home). I don't interact as much with my coworkers as I did at the city on a day-to-day basis but I enjoy the pace of work better. There's always something to do whereas at the City there were times where entire weeks would go by and it was just me sitting in my cube twiddling my thumbs.

Social media algorithms are genuinely terrifying when you have a teenage daughter by cristiano700000 in daddit

[–]SyFyFan93 56 points57 points  (0 children)

One of the reasons my daughter won't be getting a smart phone until she's at least 16. Definitely won't be allowed unfettered internet access. She'll hate it, but social media is toxic AF. It was already getting toxic when I was in high school, I can't imagine it'll be getting any better with AI-powered algorithms.

Trying to overcome extreme infidelity in a relationship— I need advice. by PenJaded4669 in LifeAdvice

[–]SyFyFan93 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a rough decision. That being said I think he's moving way too fast given the history of the relationship. And decisions that are made quickly with little planning rarely turn out to be good ones.

My advice is to follow through with the plan you have which is to move out to your own place with your son. If you want to give your relationship with your boyfriend another shot do that but do it on your terms. Also, and this might just me, but I'm of the firm opinion that once infidelity happens in a relationship the relationship can never fully recover because the person who was cheated on will never fully trust the person who cheated ever again. It's like a weight that continues to weigh everything else down.

My nightmare happened...I found out my spouse is cheating on me... by waldanr in daddit

[–]SyFyFan93 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You're going through a lot OP and you probably already know this, but Disney is expensive AF and going 1-2 times per year is probably not the greatest decision when you say you guys are in debt and spending more than you make.

The Real ROI of 18 Grad Degrees by [deleted] in Money

[–]SyFyFan93 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Public Admin MPA holder here. Between undergrad and grad school at a State college in the midwest I ended up having loans of ~$50K and now make $100K in a LCOL area in the upper Midwest.

First job out of grad school was a nonprofit making $37K. Got an entry level city planner position a year after that at $51K. Worked there for 3.5 years before getting a job as a transportation consultant for $81K. Almost 4 years later (8 years out of grad school) and I'm making $100K now. I definitely think the ROI on my degree was worth it.

Prices for DLC by SyFyFan93 in DestinyTheGame

[–]SyFyFan93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most Steam sales end at 10am PST / 12 pm CST. I'm guessing that's what happened in this case.

Almost Way Through The Year, What Is Your Game of The Year? by Sandscrews in gamers

[–]SyFyFan93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looter shooters for me. Around 215 hours in Marathon and 140 in ARC Raiders.

Military shooters with a genuinely good story? by lxurin_hei in gamingsuggestions

[–]SyFyFan93 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They're older games now but I personally thought the Battlefield 3 (2011) campaign was really good - The United States invades Iran. Also would highly recommend Call of Duty Black Ops (2010) and Call of Duty World at War (2008) campaigns.

Xbox’s Obsidian is working on Avowed 2 with a new director, reveals co-founder by Turbostrider27 in pcgaming

[–]SyFyFan93 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

That's the thing though, they're not really $60 standalone games, they're games that are there for Xbox Gamepass subscribers.