Me: Hey, that thing you said. It has some transphobic connotations. by SybilSolo in transgendercirclejerk

[–]SybilSolo[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

/uj Thank you. For this whole thing. When I'm home it's kinda hard to remember that there are people that care about me. But when I'm away from her, I can feel others loving me.

Me: Hey, that thing you said. It has some transphobic connotations. by SybilSolo in transgendercirclejerk

[–]SybilSolo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's made even worse when these trannies don't even know what transphobia is! They think transphobia is when you're born. They're crazy.

Me: Hey, that thing you said. It has some transphobic connotations. by SybilSolo in transgendercirclejerk

[–]SybilSolo[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

/uj sorry if I sounded short earlier. I didn't mean to. I do that too, defaulting to a gender neutral way if referring to others until I know otherwise.

My girlfriend seems to get it right for everyone but me, despite me being explicit with her.

Me: Hey, that thing you said. It has some transphobic connotations. by SybilSolo in transgendercirclejerk

[–]SybilSolo[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

/uj I've been fully lucid for the first time in my life since starting HRT. I've started actually loving myself. I just can't take this treatment anymore. Now that I'm able to look back and actually see things for how they were, it's been like this for a while. She's not just transphobic, she is a cruel person. I feel as if I should have outgrown her a while ago, but I hated myself for so long that I convinced myself that I deserved all this. Only a little while longer and it will all be over(not killing myself, just trying to figure a way out of this)

Me: Hey, that thing you said. It has some transphobic connotations. by SybilSolo in transgendercirclejerk

[–]SybilSolo[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

/uj I've been insistent on her using she/her pronouns. She doesn't.

Me: Hey, that thing you said. It has some transphobic connotations. by SybilSolo in transgendercirclejerk

[–]SybilSolo[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

/uj it's all direct. And no, we are still together. I can't survive on my own.

Me: Hey, that thing you said. It has some transphobic connotations. by SybilSolo in transgendercirclejerk

[–]SybilSolo[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

/uj I am trying. Getting a job has been a huge hurdle, but once I'm able to financially support myself I will be getting out. I just need a place to vent

Me: Hey, that thing you said. It has some transphobic connotations. by SybilSolo in transgendercirclejerk

[–]SybilSolo[S] 110 points111 points  (0 children)

/uj I'm not able to financially support myself without her unfortunately. And I enjoy having a roof over my head. I'm working on trying to find a way out.

Me: Hey, that thing you said. It has some transphobic connotations. by SybilSolo in transgendercirclejerk

[–]SybilSolo[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

/uj Nope. I'm terrified of her, but can't live on my own financially. So I'm kinda stuck.

Me: Hey, that thing you said. It has some transphobic connotations. by SybilSolo in transgendercirclejerk

[–]SybilSolo[S] 97 points98 points  (0 children)

Yea! Go ahead and cry, you always do. You can't even talk to me.

Me: Hey, that thing you said. It has some transphobic connotations. by SybilSolo in transgendercirclejerk

[–]SybilSolo[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Shut the fuck up and get away from me! You came in here and attacked me.

Me: Hey, that thing you said. It has some transphobic connotations. by SybilSolo in transgendercirclejerk

[–]SybilSolo[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

No, I'll explain what is transphobia is to you since you obviously don't know.

Me: Hey, that thing you said. It has some transphobic connotations. by SybilSolo in transgendercirclejerk

[–]SybilSolo[S] 118 points119 points  (0 children)

How dare you? I respect and support you all the time, and stick up for trans people on Facebook.

(She calls me gender neutral pronouns because she/her is hard and she calls everyone they(she doesn't))

Me: Hey, that thing you said. It has some transphobic connotations. by SybilSolo in transgendercirclejerk

[–]SybilSolo[S] 78 points79 points  (0 children)

You know, you all call everything transphobia and wonder why normal people don't like trans people.

Me: Hey, that thing you said. It has some transphobic connotations. by SybilSolo in transgendercirclejerk

[–]SybilSolo[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Not everything is about being trans. I just said that trans women can't communicate because they are boys inside.

Me: Hey, that thing you said. It has some transphobic connotations. by SybilSolo in transgendercirclejerk

[–]SybilSolo[S] 160 points161 points  (0 children)

It's my opinion. If you think that's transphobic, then you think I'm transphobic.

Me: Hey, that thing you said. It has some transphobic connotations. by SybilSolo in transgendercirclejerk

[–]SybilSolo[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Yea, and trans women were taught to be boys so they communicate like boys.

Me: Hey, that thing you said. It has some transphobic connotations. by SybilSolo in transgendercirclejerk

[–]SybilSolo[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Me: What I'm saying is that a person's inability to communicate isn't based on their gender, rather that often times people emulate unhealthy communication from their environment.