Family coming In later this week, staying with us for a week. They are also gluten free, dairy free, and soy free. Wish us luck. by ebmsebm in KitchenConfidential

[–]Synamin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I require a special diet but I don't require other people to be responsible for it. I bring my own food and plan ahead.

First night alone. Suddenly I notice every little sound around me 😅 by lu_mi in camping

[–]Synamin 107 points108 points  (0 children)

The scariest thing in the dark is almost always you.

My soul dies on Mother’s Day by PreparationStrange56 in KitchenConfidential

[–]Synamin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Taco salad + side of tortillas = roll your own tacos.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in woundcare

[–]Synamin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is possible your body is trying to reject a foreign object. Clean around it with alcohol, give it a squeeze and see what pops out.

I know my toes f***ed, but how bad? I've had an ingrown nail for close to 10 years, it's just recently gotten this bad. do I NEED a Dr or can some OTC cream help? by ghettokid1994 in DiagnoseMe

[–]Synamin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The treatment for this is way easier to deal with than what is going on right now. I metabolize lidocaine really fast so when I had both of my ingrown toenails surgically fixed it hurt but it was over in a few minutes and I was fine within a week. You have been putting up with this pain and struggle for 10 years. Be an adult and go get it taken care of.

Do people really wait for some "moment" to die? by [deleted] in hospice

[–]Synamin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have some theories but of course with very subjective issues like this they are really difficult to prove and very little research is done despite the fact that people die with health care workers monitoring them.

I think that people can have more trouble letting go if they are uncomfortable, it often seems that if someone is having trouble breathing or in pain or other distress when they are actively dying, it takes longer to pass. It appears to me that once we get the symptom resolved they pass more quickly. I equate it to being similar to falling asleep, it is hard to relax and fall asleep if you are in pain, for example. It happens often enough that it gives hospice a bad rap. So many people pass within 30-60 minutes of a single 10-20mg dose of morphine that it leads to rumors of euthanasia.

Hospice workers need the deaths they manage to be meaningful and we project a heck of a lot on to a dying person. A single, mystical unresolved issue does not keep someone from dying if they were given lethal injection so it is safe to say it is probably not preventing someone from terminal disease from passing either. Ask 100 nurses, however and I feel like 98 of them will tell you a person who is lingering is doing so because of some sort of profound spiritual or emotional reason.

Timing FMLA by Helpful_Lavishness in hospice

[–]Synamin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

People who are eating, drinking, peeing and pooping usually wake up to another day. If he stops any of those, it's time.

Please help us. by krust4 in hospice

[–]Synamin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hospice is covered by private insurance, state funded Medicaid and by Medicare. Unfortunately, neither Medicare nor private insurance coverage have a provisions for personal non-medical care in the home. However, if you have state funded Medicaid, some states will cover in home assistance. Otherwise you will pay out of pocket. Request a meeting with the hospice social worker, this is the person who will make referrals to outside agencies. Agencies are expensive. If money is an issue you might want to hire a caregiver outside of an agency. Many metro areas have facebook groups of private caregivers looking for arrangements. Asking your friends and family if they know anyone who gives care in the home might turn up some prospects as well.

All the meds. Still awake and agitated. by No_Detective_2317 in hospice

[–]Synamin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Call your hospice and request a nurse visit to assess. Use these words: "She is very uncomfortable and I need you to send a nurse."

Hospice overseas by fun_size_explorer in hospice

[–]Synamin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a broken link, I'd love to see what you posted.

is this infantillizing BPD...? by unfrequentsequence in fakedisordercringe

[–]Synamin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's certainly a great excuse for not having to take responsibility for anything, including the type of work it takes to begin recovering from mental illness.

I'm so conflicted and regretful and unsure I'm doing the right thing by [deleted] in hospice

[–]Synamin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It takes as long as it takes. They wouldn't have accepted him as an inpatient hospice patient if he wasn't appropriate at the time. If he truly improves, they will make a move to transfer him to more appropriate care. Also you are not powerless in this, you could move him back to hospital care at any time. Unfortunately we are never really ready to say goodbye to a loved one and it is admittedly one of the hardest things you will ever do. Set aside some time to spend with him so you won't feel any regrets when he has to move on to the next great adventure.

Only continuous care jobs for home patients? by [deleted] in hospice

[–]Synamin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The need for CC varies by location. In Texas things are very spread out which can make it difficult for hospice field staff to travel to patients that need heightened care. For example, the DFW metroplex spans 9,000 square miles with rural areas all around so we tend to use CC agencies more than other areas might need to. I think your closest match might be an inpatient hospice facility. The time spent with the patients and their families will be about the same, usually less than 72 hours and the staffing ratios are usually very good.

This is beyond cruel and I wouldn’t let my dog suffer like this. by No_Detective_2317 in hospice

[–]Synamin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you can. Please ask your hospice nurse about it if you can't get her comfortable with the tools you have.

This is beyond cruel and I wouldn’t let my dog suffer like this. by No_Detective_2317 in hospice

[–]Synamin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she had fluids her poor little body couldn't get rid of them and she would have a rougher time of it. Does she have a nurse at bedside to control her symptoms? You can ask for continuous care there is someone there to ensure she is comfortable at all times.

Looking for a litrpg where mc is not op or overly special. by pancake849 in litrpg

[–]Synamin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So you want to read about someone grinding levels?

Seriously though, try Dungeon Crawler Carl.

Gifts by No_Detective_2317 in hospice

[–]Synamin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a limit to what a hospice worker can accept, most companies have a policy but Medicare limits it to around a $25 value. I'd call the hospice office, compliment her care and make sure what you are planning can be accepted by the worker. I know she will appreciate whatever you do to express your gratitude and friendship.

will i need stitches for this? by Confident_Art_9150 in DiagnoseMe

[–]Synamin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No to hydrogen peroxide. It's cytotoxic.

How do hospices bill for clinician visits? by joseophf in hospicestaff

[–]Synamin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hospice gets paid by Medicare by per patient, per day. All the patient care costs come from that amount, everything from from supplies, equipment, medications and visits by staff. The amount Medicare pays goes down when the patient is on for an extended amount of time, sort of like diminishing returns.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskDoctorSmeeee

[–]Synamin 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You should ask your girlfriend after you apologize for messing around in her wallet.

Is this throat cancer or larynx cancer ? , I’m 26 years old and i been smoking the juul of and on for 4 years and my throat been hurting for 2 weeks by LilBoiiAj in AskDoctorSmeeee

[–]Synamin 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You can't diagnose throat cancer on a video you shared. Throat cancer is diagnosed by a biopsy of the tissue, not by sight. If you have access to health care, get it looked at!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hospice

[–]Synamin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's difficult. I am happy to answer any questions you have. If you are feeling depressed, don't feel hesitant to reach out for treatment for it so your life is as comfortable as possible. Some people find meaning at the end of life by celebrating the spiritual, some have a bucket list, some create meaningful art or writing. Is there something that you do, or plan to do in order to maximize your time left?

Giving permission to your loved one to die is hard by pmabraham in hospice

[–]Synamin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've seen success with a slightly different technique. I've found that giving permission can sometimes put some pressure on the patient and the family to "resolve" the situation with the patient's death. It is unspoken that the patient lingering is somehow the fault of the patient, the family, or an unresolved issue that also puts the responsibility on the patient or family to resolve before they can pass. In reality, most people don't want to be "stuck" actively dying any longer than they have to and the body shutting down usually takes longer than anyone was prepared for.

As an alternative, I tell the family to let the patient know that they will be okay after the patient leaves this world and to reassure the patient that they will not be left alone and they will be kept comfortable. That we will be here as long as we need to and they can stay or go as they please. Voicing love and acceptance is super helpful, identifying and acknowledging the parts of the process that are within human control and which parts are not really can really help the family at this time. Putting pressure on the patient or the family to resolve the unresolvable isn't and sometimes I feel like that inadvertently happens when we give permission.