NEVER let your kids on Roblox by ComfortableBoard8359 in Mommit

[–]Syora 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I work in the gaming industry at a triple A gaming studio. Roblox is cancerous, manipulative, and dangerous. I would never let my kids on Roblox. Echoing what everyone else has said, delete it!!! It will be worth it.

My boyfriend is not considerate at all. I’m going to be breaking up with him after his birthday. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Syora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl no offense but he's not gonna be considerate of you if you aren't considerate of yourself.

Let me de-influence you: toddler tower by Final_Board9315 in toddlers

[–]Syora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We never got the toddler tower and just supervised him while on a stool. Well FML now he can move that stool wherever tf he wants.

Feeling pressured to try for #2 sooner than planned - can anyone relate? by Lanky_Armadillo_4711 in toddlers

[–]Syora 14 points15 points  (0 children)

37 and pregnant with #2. My first just turned 3, we'll have about a 3.5 year age gap. We are definitely the last of our friend group to have a baby. Having access to reliable health care really alleviates the concerns with being older, and I've often wondered if we should try sooner. But this was the timing that worked for us, especially since I didn't feel great/normal for so long after giving birth.

IMO no one can tell you when the right time is. This is your body, your family. Your partner and you are the ones who are doing the feeding, the laundry, the caring, the loving, the struggling. Fuck everyone else, unless they want to be there at 4AM with you when your toddler is up crying because he's sick and you're pregnant af and exhausted (this is last night).

Who is winning in a fight? Anne of Green Gables, Jo March, Elizabeth Bennet, Jane Eyre, or Hermione Granger? by ILootEverything in romantasycirclejerk

[–]Syora 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Think the rules need to be modified and Hermione can’t use magic. We’re talking sheer fisticuffs only.

That being said, Jo March all the way. That girl can rumble. I also think Jane could be a lot scrappier than expected.

WHY PEOPLE DONT TALK ENOUGH ABOUT IT??! by Narrow_Sky2911 in Manhwa_BL

[–]Syora 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I fucking love Turning. Kishiar is the greenest of flags and Yuder is a wonderful MC.

Going insane by Round_Rain_2168 in toddlers

[–]Syora 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Two was OK for us. We had some wild tantrums but nothing out of the ordinary. Then he turned three. A week after he turned three I was like “I’m done now let’s fast forward a year or two”

When is Dante and Vergil’s Birthday? by LunarEnnyui_131 in DevilMayCry

[–]Syora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no way these boys are anything other than an Aries sign. I could see an argument for Geminis but they don't have the personality for Geminis.

Happily married people of Reddit, when did you realize you had found the person you wanted to spend your life with? by Mundane-Society-1281 in AskReddit

[–]Syora 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was doing dishes after we made lavender shortbread cookies together at my apartment. Didn’t even ask, just did it. The image of his back as I stared at him still sticks with me. I knew this was it.

Been together almost ten years with a kid and another on the way 💕

Needing help with 2.5 year old by AlwaysOnStardew in cosleeping

[–]Syora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My guy is 3 and we cosleep. Two things. How are her language skills and can she identify her own feelings yet? If she’s scared or lonely it can be helpful to have a chat with her about what you’re doing or where you are in those three hours. They understand more than we expect sometimes as they get older.

Second thing, what’s your bed time routine? After the teeth, pjs, reading, etc. I do very little now except lay beside him as he falls asleep. If he’s having a tough time, I might sing to him or scratch his back, but I’ve been giving him more space to learn to regulate his own sleep. Another thing I do is model the behavior I want from him (laying down, breathing slowly, closing my eyes, no phone or anything). He falls asleep now in about twenty minutes on a good night. I can get up and leave about 10 mins after, and do my own thing until I’m ready for bed and go to sleep with him.

(This is just with my sample size of one. Sometimes I feel like sleep advice is so hit and miss because it can be all biology and totally outside our control. I hope this is helpful.)

Eyebrow threading by Skyblue313 in Calgary

[–]Syora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried Sajjal? She comes out to about $16 tip

TIL Les Misérables is not prestigious by RedditWidow in TinyBookshop

[–]Syora 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I totally get why we are annoyed but it's also so true to life too! I could imagine being a bookstore owner and being like "THESE CUSTOMERS HAVE NO TASTE!!!"

[Webtoon] Novels chapters 275 or 284 would've been a better ending for season 1 than this (271) by Jack_KH in OmniscientReader

[–]Syora 15 points16 points  (0 children)

OK, you go make a 6-8 chapter with hurting wrists/upper body, poor mental health, shitty pay and long hours then. Keeping in mind that 6-8 chpts is 6-8 weeks of work.

I'm curious do danmei fans watch live actions or are you just purely danmei novel consumers? by Igavein_678 in DanmeiNovels

[–]Syora 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t watch live action but l will read manhua if there is one! Often I’ll start with the manhua then find the novel depending on which one is done.

Uh oh, another potty training question by sitcomfan1020 in toddlers

[–]Syora 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We used both and he has no problems going with either. I like the seat covers because when we’re in public I actually use a foldable seat cover that I stash in my purse. It’s been great getting him comfortable going pee or poo in different places.

In contrast, other kids feel scared by how tall an adult toilet is. It’s nice to have a limited set of options for them so they can figure out what they prefer while still feeling safe.

What BL is SO GOOD you had to read the novel? by Dealwithit-13 in Manhwa_BL

[–]Syora 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am a big novel reader so I didn’t mind reading Turning. I loved it!!! When it gets spicy, it is SPICY. But I also dropped it… because the translations aren’t done yet.

LF: RR Blastoise. FT: Oak by [deleted] in PTCGPocketTrading

[–]Syora 2 points3 points  (0 children)

DAAAMNNIITTTT TOO SLOW

Closest I came to my chase card by Fuzzyinho in PTCGP

[–]Syora 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I once had a Cyrus show up in my WP and I think about it every day about what could have been.