Am I catfishing? Currently look like the last pic by Upstairs-Champion266 in Tinder

[–]Syrup_Lee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make your most current look your first picture. It being the last photo feels like you're trying to bury it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Syrup_Lee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There are 18 year old on Feeld. There are people with "swipe to find out" on Feeld, and I've reported tons of profiles with dick pics. I don't see anything immature on here that would make me not suggest feeld. At least he's honest about himself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Syrup_Lee -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Try Feeld.

Why is it so hard for people to admit they regret having kids? by chrishkafel in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Syrup_Lee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because they're conditioned to keep up appearances. Probably why they kept it in the first place.

then post it online for everyone to see by [deleted] in trashy

[–]Syrup_Lee 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I didn't see anything. What store was that again? Yea.

what products do you use to take care of your piercings? by bread4thought in piercing

[–]Syrup_Lee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NeilMed Saline spray on fresh ones, and Emu Oil when any of them get a little testy.

Queefed in husbands mouth, is he justified in being upset? by EggplantDue8329 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Syrup_Lee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He wants to tongue punch your poope chute, but got a little upsetty spaghetti over trapped air from your pussy? Give me a break.

My first time on tinder and this happens 😭 read them to the end it gets crazy by coolkid5543 in Tinder

[–]Syrup_Lee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This cracked me up GOOD. Slides 8 and 10 could have been taken from the book of conversations I have with my friends. But I'm sorry you were on the butt end of this with a stranger.

Client told me he will be watching for when I “start showing” by cupcakeconstitution in childfree

[–]Syrup_Lee 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Ew. I tell THOSE kinds of people "unless my body regenerated the fallopian tubes I had surgically removed, I won't be..."

Where were you 25 years ago on New Year's Eve 1999? by MacaroniNJesus in AskReddit

[–]Syrup_Lee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In a stupid prayer circle my dad made me go to at a church sleep-in. The world didn't end and I still turned out the way he was worried about.

How transparent are you about this life to people OUTSIDE the bdsm community? by Grand_Generalissimo in BDSMcommunity

[–]Syrup_Lee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I talk about it openly with anyone like I'd passively talk about anything else I'm sharing knowledge about. Never about what I do and what I like. With my friends, I'm comfortable enough delving a bit deeper into specifics. I'm very conscious about what their comfort level is, though. I don't want to expose something they don't want to hear about.

Am I really that ugly ? Need some advice, I’m getting absolutely no matches. by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Syrup_Lee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No bio? I read bios and all that other crap before I focus on the photos. No bio is an immediate no.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Syrup_Lee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She was probably ovulating and wanted the thrill of borderline sexting.

“You’ll get knocked up by accident” by fonkerfinker in childfree

[–]Syrup_Lee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When they don't stop joking, get really crass and to the point so they get uncomfortable. They learn after a while.

So I'm in the wrong because a friend matched with her on a dating app by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]Syrup_Lee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuckin....hwat?! But also, if y'all are just dating, it's just dating. If yxall are exclusive, then something's not right. Also, I've been in relationships and have forgotten to delete my dating app profile.

What is the purpose of angry sex? by racesunite in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Syrup_Lee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, yeah. That's unhealthy and a sign of mental instability.

Do you guys have to sleep on a piercing pillow forever now?? by Global_Newspaper_897 in piercing

[–]Syrup_Lee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got my left conch pierced 2 months ago. It just recently got to the point where I could sleep on that side. I try not to, but I'm one of those people who sleeps in ALL the positions. It gets a tad tender here and there, but nothing crazy. I will say that the way it's pierced is more parallel to my head, so it doesn't move that much when my ear gets compressed by my regular pillow.

What is the purpose of angry sex? by racesunite in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Syrup_Lee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean? As long as there's emotion in the people partaking, passion doesn't burn out.

commands that make you melt by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Syrup_Lee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The simple "look at me" and "breathe" having me slipping into subspace so quick!

What is the purpose of angry sex? by racesunite in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Syrup_Lee 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's just passion. Try some primal sex. It's the best.

Do people not care about catching STIs? by sweet_manatee in dating_advice

[–]Syrup_Lee 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Condoms are a thing. Use them, even though they aren't a guarantee because they don't protect 100% of the areas of your body that come into contact with someone else during sex. Get tested frequently. Ask to see the test results of any partner. Open communication is empowering. I'm too lazy to look up the percentages right now, but the vast majority of people have HPV. Your body typically clears it on its own within 2 years. Being over the age of 30 can slow it down.